I'm 17 and i've been through a lot for my age.Anyone can talk to me about anything and I will always be here for you!!!
Any questions will do ...I can take anything.
I will never judge you.If i do not know the answers i will try my best to research it and find the answer for you. i will never say i know something if i don't...i'll always be here for you!!
E-mail: froggytunes13@yahoo.com Gender: Female Location: california Occupation: student Age: 17 Yahoo: mrsphantom4 MSN: weeping_angel13 Member Since: November 15, 2006 Answers: 47 Last Update: November 28, 2007 Visitors: 5949
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I'm fifteen and when I'm on my period I usually use pads, but I want to start using tampons. What's a good brand to start off with? For sports also? Because I'm pretty active...
Also tips to putting them in? No websites please, they really don't help. I've only tried putting one in once and it hurt like hell. (link)
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I recommend the playtex sport. it's a great brand, and works especially well when you're really active.
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hi i am 13, female and i have never had a bf before all my mates have and most of them are supportive. i fancie this lad and i told my 2 bffs about him and they said just ask him out. but the problem is i have never even hugged a boy before and i am shy and scared to ask him out. the other day me ndme 2 bffs went out we met up with a few other lads. he was not there but 1 of the lads who is pretty sxi was hugging me nd stuff my mates said we were propa flertin with each other and i didnt meen to coz a fancie the other lad. the problem is i dont have the currage to get any one to ask him out for me. i dont think he likes me and i am scared incase he says no coz a will be embarresed. please help me i am desperate. what should i do???
ps i am from england (link)
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well it's kinda funny ur askin me this cause i'm kinda in the same predicament. see...this is one of those moments where you have toface your fears...
what's gonna happen if you ask him? he could say yes and you'll be happy. or ,... he could say no...and well you move on...you won't catch on fire or instantly die. but just talk to him..like you would your bffs. then just ask him if he likes anyone. ask him if he's looking for one...if not then don't go any further with asking him ....try to obtain a close friendship with him..then ask him.
hope i helped.
sincerely
Chelsea
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okay. so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now. im only a freshman, but im not too young to be in love..and i am in love with him. but latley he hasnt been acting like he wants to be with me as much as he use to. im thinking about breaking it off. but how do i break something that was so good and lasted so long so suddenly? ahh im sooooooooooooooo confused. helppp! (link)
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okay stop for a minute and breathe:
now have you talked to him about this? cause if not you need to . communication is EXTREMELY important in any relationship. and if you are having these feelings talk to him. i mean you guys have been in a relationship now for about a year now so if you guys can't communicate, there is a problem. look at your pros and cons of the guy. ..
but if you really want to break it off with him...don't do it over the phone or internet or letter.though it may be easier it would not be the greatest way...
just tell him how you feel tell him what you are telling me..how it feels like the love between you two is dwindling...really have a good talk with him.and if possible stay friends with him..cause i know that you'd rather have him in ur life as a friend then as nothing at all.
hope i helped
sincerely
chelsea
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my boyfriend drinks and i dont approve of it. i dont want to sound like stuckup or anything but we're only 14!! and this is something i take pretty seriously because my friend was killed by a drunk driver but anyways..would it be stupid to break up with him because of this? i kno he really likes me but its summer and i dont see him that much and i just think we're growing apart (link)
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well in my opinion, i honestly think you should do what you feel is right. if you have a problem with him drinking then talk to him about it. if he doesn't feel the need to change then breaking up with him wouldn't be a bad thing to consider. i can understand why you would hate drinking and i am very sorry about ur friend.and 14 is too young to drink.. now about the growing apart thing...
if you feel like you growing apart,and you guys have talked about this (communication is important in any relationship) and things aren't working out then it would be best to break up with him. but think about it first. but do what you think is right because ur prolly right.
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Well I have big boobs for my age and theres like light colored stretch marks on like the top of them. Do those ever go away? Oh and is it normal for your boobs to have like tiny hairs on them? (link)
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it is normal for ur boobs to have hair on them...we're mammals..we have hair everywhere...
and about...the strech marks...yeah..definately cocoa butter..lol
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Ive had my period for a while now (im 14) but tampons are wierd for me.
When i first put them in, they go in fine and they bout a half and hour later, they sort of slide down a little and i start feeling them and it starts to hurt. what can i do to prevent this? what am i doing wrong. and please dont give me directions for putting them in, because i know how. (link)
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hm......well...maybe....they're too small for you....and maybe since it seemss to me that ur flow is heavy, i would switch to a bigger size...like super..lol..they're not much bigger but that's what i did...i had the same problem...lol
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anyone know or whats your biggest turn on (girls) or turn on spot? (link)
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well you know what? to tell you the truth, it varies among each girl, but i know one thing: the clit isn't the only place! i mean of course the clit is a turnon, but also the ears,neck, stomach,heck even knees....don't ask me why...lol...
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Hey! I've read your column and you seem to give really good advice. I have really low self confidence. People tell me this quite often, and how I am a good person. I just never feel skinny enough, pretty enough, smart enough, or good enough. What should I do? I think it's starting to get on people's nerves.
Much Love (link)
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first of all i'd like to say thanks.it's not everyday i meet such a nice person! now on with the topic. you know what?i've dealt with this before.listen,first of all , don't ever let anyone put you down. i may not know you but i know this: you can be anything you want to be! you don't have to be the skinniest person in the world, or the smartest, or the prettiest.i know that you are good at something and you know what? anytime and everytime you do that , do it great all the way!! i can tell by your letter that your friends care a lot about you. that's why they are getting annoyed. my friends did this to me too!the reason they are getting annoyed is because they know that
you're better than what you give yourself credit for.eveything you do , do it like you can do it perfectly. i have confidence issues too, i do , but what keeps me going through the day, and what keeps me from breaking down, is knowing that i have such good friends who like me the way i am, and i should too.you can accomplish anythng if you focus and put your mind to it. you have the potential to become anything you wanted to be, don't let anyone including your parents, make you think otherwise.an if you ever have anymore self confidence issues my sn is mrsphantom4. yo can talk to me anytime.
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Okay what do i do if my friend (which is a boy ) is mad at me because my ex boyfriend told him that me and him still go out and i really liked my friend and he liked me too (link)
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you have to think about this.wait you and your ex boyfriend are still going out? if you like your friend more than a friend, and/or you really care about him like a friend would, talk to him about it.make him understand why you are going out with your ex, and if you aren't ,talk to him and makehim understand that your ex boyfriend is jealous of you guy's relationship that you two have(you and your friend)you have to know what you want. if it's not true what your ex is saying, ten immediately tell your friend. he probably feels like he had a chance and not anymore, so he's probably hurt.but just talk to him about everything, your feelings,everything. hope i helped, and if not, i probably need some more info.lol
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Alright, well, I was just on my myspace and I have my comments in one of those scrolling box types of commetns, and I noticed that you can't see my friends default pictures next to their comments to me.
I checked others myspaces and they all have their friend's defualt pictures next to their comments, so it's only me. I figured I might've forgotten some part of teh code, but I checked, and I'm not, and I have no idea what's wrong.
Has this happened to anybody else?
Oh, I've also deleted the code for the scroll box and even though it comes out like the normal way it should where it's really long and everything, you still can't see the pictures or the words "view comment". I don't get what's wrong. (link)
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well that happened to mine. the problem with mine though , was the background i was using. maybe get a new layout for myspace.hope i helped. here's a site to get layouts for myspace.
www.mygen.co.uk
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I asked a question before, about Cory and Tyler. I'm 15, female. Anyway, your advice did help, and thanks a lot for it! But to answer the questions you had, cory has told me thing like 'we dont talk enough, hang out enough', and stupid things like that, that I said we can work on. And tyler, isnt dating Alex, not ashley, lol..but they are just kind of talking. and i havent told tyler how i feel about him, i dont really know what to say with out it sounding stupid and like im obsessed with him...i'm soo confused..? (link)
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okay, i glad i helped a little..lol. okay, you should tell him that you are willing to work on the communication problems that you guys had. you could tell him that you have very strong feelings for him, because the l word(love) could scare him away for good. just talk to him about why you guys couldn't work on not hanging out enough and talking enough. if he doesn't give you a straight answer, then that's not the real reason. hope i helped some more.
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is it normal to hurt me when my boyfriend fingers me even if he only uses one finger? causse it hurts me. is this normal? should i see a doctor? (link)
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is this the first time that he has fingered you?? Some ppl are extrememly tight and it will hurt even when he only uses one finger. this reason is because when his finger enters you, it rubs inside. now since your body isn't used to it, it will hurt.if it bothers you you could go to the doctor's but i doubt it's anything.
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i was at the dollar store today and i saw this V05 hot oil treatment for dry/damaged hair and i wanted to buy it but i didnt because i didnt know what it would do to my hair.. i should of looked on the box but i didnt lol. what does a hot oil treatment do to your hair? thanks a lot. (link)
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a hot oil treatment moisturizes and conditions your hair. i have used it before.
This weekly pre-shampoo conditioning treatment uses our exclusive Hair Strengthening Complex formula to double the strength of your hair. Weak, damaged sites along the hair shaft get repaired instantly, so each individual strand of hair receives the precise treatment it needs, on the spot.
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I'm 15, female and it may seem young, but I'm almost positive I've been in love. This might be hard to understand and sound stupid, but I hope you get what i'm trying to say. There's this boy, Cory, and I've liked him for like 4 or 5 years now. It's such a long story about us, I can't even type it all. But we've had things on and off and hung out a lot and yeah we've done stuff..and we even got to the point where we said I love you. I meant it when I said it too. But we've never actually dated, like been official. We fight A LOT though, and he told me it will never work out between us, which pretty much broke my heart. We hang out with the same people, so it's hard to avoide him sometimes. I've tried to get over him and while I've been trying, I somewhat started to talk to this boy, Tyler. He's really cute and a sweetheart. He always said we needed to hang out and everything. And I've started to hang out with his group a lot, like every weekend now. I thought we were kind of talking, but then I heard he was talking to another girl, Alex. So I asked him and they said they are. :/ I dont know what to do...it's been about 2 months and I still really want to try and be with Tyler. Am I stupid for still wanting him after he screwed me over? And I still think about Cory a lot..I dont know what to do. What would I even say to Tyler? It always seems like I fall for the complete wrong guys...I know I'm young and there will be so many guys throughout my life but when I feel this strong about one right now, I can't help it. I really do think this is it. I dont know if this all makes since, but anything would help. Thanks. (link)
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i have been in your situation before.and still am. okay what i don't understand is that if you and cory have told each other that you love each other, then why is he saying that it wouldn't work out. and has he given you reasons why it won't work out. chances are that he might be afraid of committment. now about tyler.even though he is dating another girl, my opinion is that you should(to get your feelings out and not hold them inside)tell him how you feel. oyu will feel better about it and you will still have tyler as a friend. you never know, tyler might break up with ashley and he will remember you liking him and go to you. the best thing i would do is to make a pro/con list of each boy and figure it out from there. i know that you love cory but if he doesn't want anything to do with you besides friendship, then i would keep it that way. you want a guy who's gonna stay with you through bad and good times and through the fights and the rough times. i hope i helped.
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I have a dry brown skin condition on my stomach...
I have no idea what it is... It dosen't hurt or anything... it's just dark and dry...
What do you think?
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well it could be a birthmark but it could also be skin discoloration.i say that you should go to a dermatologist and get something for it.it's not bad and it's not poisonous, but if you don't want it there then i would go see a derm. doctor.
hope i helped.
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Hey.. i need help..where do i enter codes for the background and also where do i get those codes from ? (link)
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okay you put the background codes in your "about me " section of your myspace.you can get backgounds anywhere. here's a site that i use all of the time. it has tons and tons of kool layouts that you can used.
www.mygen.co.uk
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all my frineds make fun of me because my penis is too big, i am 14 and it is 9 inchies. Is i thought it was a good thing to have a penis. Is it? (link)
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hey don't worry about it. they are just jealous of you . i mean i'm a female and i don't have a penis, but yeah, i mean the only problem that you would have would be um ...problems...or difficulty during sex...but other than that it's a good thing=)
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I love the show Beauty and the geek and i want to know the theme song!!!!!
its goes like this
"if i got the looks and you've got the Brains we'll make lots of money"
or something like that!!!
~PLZ HELP~ (link)
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I've got the brains, you've got the looks
Let's make lots of money
You've got the brawn, I've got the brains
Let's make lots of -
I've had enough of scheming and messing around with jerks
My car is parked outside, I'm afraid it doesn't work
I'm looking for a partner, someone who gets things fixed
Ask yourself this question: Do you want to be rich?
I've got the brains, you've got the looks
Let's make lots of money
You've got the brawn, I've got the brains
Let's make lots of money
You can tell I'm educated, I studied at the Sorbonne
Doctored in mathematics, I could have been a don
I can program a computer, choose the perfect time
If you've got the inclination, I have got the crime
Oh, there's a lot of opportunities
If you know when to take them, you know?
There's a lot of opportunities
If there aren't, you can make them
Make or break them
I've got the brains, you've got the looks
Let's make lots of money
Let's make lots of -
(Aahhhhh) Money
(Aahhhhh)
(Aahhhhh - Di du da di da bu di ba)
You can see I'm single-minded, I know what I could be
How'd you feel about it, come and take a walk with me?
I'm looking for a partner, regardless of expense
Think about it seriously, you know, it makes sense
Let's (Got the brains)
Make (Got the looks)
Let's make lots of money (Oohh money)
(Let's) You've got the brawn
(Make) I've got the brains
Let's make lots of money (Oohh money)
I've got the brains (Got the brains)
You've got the looks (Got the looks)
Let's make lots of money (Oohh money)
Money
the pet shop boys sing it!!hope i helped!!
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how long did it take you to lose 13 pounds?? haha and do crunches actually help to make people lose weight? i want to lose weight more in my thighs than in my stomach....lol you're
like my hero!! (link)
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lol!!! it took me a week and a half, maybe even two to lose 13 pounds. crunches do work, dancing is better though. and if you want to lose weight in your thighs, then i would walk aournd your block and/or do leg lifts. they should work. please keep in touch because i would like to know if you lose weight or not!!lol
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Ever since I was young I remember having tiny white [some are skin colored] bumps on the inside lips of my vagina and the outside part of my labia. When I was young I squeezed a few of them and small, white stuff came out like it was a pimple 'down there.' I was wondering if this is some sort of diesease, I've never had any problems with it, and I've been looked at by doctors at physicals, but I was just curious if this is anything serious. (link)
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i really doubt that it is serious. i have the same problem...lol i mean it can't be a std because you had it since you were young.me too. i think that it's just something you have to live with. just make sure that you keep clean down there in order to not get yeast infections.lol
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