hi i am 13, female and i have never had a bf before all my mates have and most of them are supportive. i fancie this lad and i told my 2 bffs about him and they said just ask him out. but the problem is i have never even hugged a boy before and i am shy and scared to ask him out. the other day me ndme 2 bffs went out we met up with a few other lads. he was not there but 1 of the lads who is pretty sxi was hugging me nd stuff my mates said we were propa flertin with each other and i didnt meen to coz a fancie the other lad. the problem is i dont have the currage to get any one to ask him out for me. i dont think he likes me and i am scared incase he says no coz a will be embarresed. please help me i am desperate. what should i do???
ps i am from england
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? muse_of_thought01 answered Saturday July 28 2007, 7:40 pm: well it's kinda funny ur askin me this cause i'm kinda in the same predicament. see...this is one of those moments where you have toface your fears...
what's gonna happen if you ask him? he could say yes and you'll be happy. or ,... he could say no...and well you move on...you won't catch on fire or instantly die. but just talk to him..like you would your bffs. then just ask him if he likes anyone. ask him if he's looking for one...if not then don't go any further with asking him ....try to obtain a close friendship with him..then ask him.
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