my boyfriend drinks and i dont approve of it. i dont want to sound like stuckup or anything but we're only 14!! and this is something i take pretty seriously because my friend was killed by a drunk driver but anyways..would it be stupid to break up with him because of this? i kno he really likes me but its summer and i dont see him that much and i just think we're growing apart
christina answered Saturday June 16 2007, 1:08 am: I agree with you. You guys are 14 & it's way too young to be drinking. Not only is drinking illegal, but it's a depressant type of drug which is addictive. And people change when they're drunk. Not only do they spill the truth, they may do some things that are opposite of who they are when they're sober.
Anyways, talk to your boyfriend about this problem & how you feel. If he likes you, he'll take your opinion into mind & try to see if he can change a bit. If he doesn't respect what you've gotta say, then break up with him & date someone who cares about your opinions & what you have to say. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
muse_of_thought01 answered Saturday June 16 2007, 12:52 am: well in my opinion, i honestly think you should do what you feel is right. if you have a problem with him drinking then talk to him about it. if he doesn't feel the need to change then breaking up with him wouldn't be a bad thing to consider. i can understand why you would hate drinking and i am very sorry about ur friend.and 14 is too young to drink.. now about the growing apart thing...
if you feel like you growing apart,and you guys have talked about this (communication is important in any relationship) and things aren't working out then it would be best to break up with him. but think about it first. but do what you think is right because ur prolly right. [ muse_of_thought01's advice column | Ask muse_of_thought01 A Question ]
SeventhXtrumpetX answered Saturday June 16 2007, 12:39 am: the drinking shouldn't be enough to break up with him. Its a stupid thing to fight over. Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel about drinking. If he respects you he'll take your opinion and try to make you happy as his gf.
Now if youre growing apart, thats something you have to think about. nobody can make that choice for you. If you think its best to move on and not be with him so be it, but think it thru first. You want to try youre best not to regret it later. [ SeventhXtrumpetX's advice column | Ask SeventhXtrumpetX A Question ]
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