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Hey everyone I'm just an avarage girl living my life. I love to talk to people, and I love hanging out with my family and friends.....and definetly love to have a good time.....I laugh way too much and have way too much to say, but I'm alwyas smiling and happy! I'm here to help. So ask away, and ill do the best i can :)advice
my hamster chews on the metal bars a lot and its irritating. what can i do to get her to stop?
Are you feeding your hamster? Maybe give him some more food.
Today at my town pool I was walking out of the bathroom and this guy thatlooked about 15 goes "YEAAAH" infront of his friends. I didn't even know him. I'm guessing he thought I was hot or something I was in a bikini.. but it might even mean he thought I look gross. By the way im 13 in 7th grade. What did he mean and what should I do if someone does that again??
Yeah, im pretty sure that, that means he thought you were cute. Even better, he did it in front of his friends, which is good. && If he really thought you looked gross, he most likely, would'nt have said nething. Instead of worrying about it, just take it as a compliment. Maybe give em a wink next time ;)
I can never sleep if i have something nerve racking to do the next day. and like, when school comes, since im going to a new school, ill be so nervous. what are some ways to go to sleep?
I like to have something like playing in my room.
whether it's the sound of the tv, or my music. i dont know why, but it helps me sleep. if not maybe try counting sheep :) but i hope the new school works out for you, you will do just fine!
me & my best friend have been friends for 4yrs. but sometimes I get the feeling that she might be using me & that she's two faced. we talk on the fone & on AIM everyday & she would get pissed at me for nothing. she will blame me for her problems at home. & she would get mad if i talk to a guy that she thinks is hot. I dont like starting shitt so i just say that i'm sorrii & i sux up to her. but i dont wanna do that animore & im sick of her yelling at me for no reason. for once i wanna be the one that is in control. but im scared that if me && her get into a fight that all my other friends will choose sides & i would end up friend less.
should i still be friends with her even tho she might be talking shitt about me the same way she talks shitt about all her other friends?
HELP!
[[P.S sorry it's so long]]
okay, i have had a friend like this before. if there is no reason, for her getting pissed at you. maybe she's just physco. lol but really, i say be in control. don't let her talk to you like thhat, be the bigger person. sit down with her, tell her how you are feeling. maybe she's just going through something at home, and takes things out on other people. As far as your other friends choosing sides, don't make them do that. It's an awful position to be put in. If they are your true friends, they will learn to accept both of you. Dont give up on your friend yet, just talk it out. Friends get in fights, al the time, but not always do you lose your friendship over it. Good luck, and let me know if you need anything else. HOpe i helped :)
okay like 3 nights ago me and my bf broke up, and i found out yesturday he made out with this chick. it makes me think he never ever really liked me because he said he still cared for me after we broke up.and i'm really depressed,it sucks. i just need help,i need advice,how do i feel better?
Boys can be pretty dumb sometimes. Don't think that he didn't care, cause he wouldn't have asked you in the first place. Boys just move faster, than we do. I've come to find, that there just scared to be alone. Dont let him get you down, no boy is worth that. I say get my two favorite men. Ben&Jerry(that's icecream btw) invite some friends over, watch some movies, get him off ur mind. :) hope i helped.
Ok my really close friend,Jeff,is also my crush.I mean he asked me out and stuff but i turned him down caus I didnt think my friends would like him.Now how do I call him back and tell him how I feel?
You should never do things for your friends. Or what they would think, Sure it would be nice if they liked him. But you have to think and do things for yourself. If you really like him, just call him and let him know what is up. Tell him everything you just said to us. Chances are, his offer will still be standing. And if ur friends, wont give him a chance for you, then there not good friends. Good luck with that.
i'm 14 and i haven't had a boyfriend yet. i know that's not to bad butmy best frienddoes and i get so jealous because she has one and it seems all nice and so cute. when it comes to getting a boyfriend (like if i hear someone is going to ask me to a dance or ask me out) i'm like no way and i just stop there. i don't know why because if i just randomly think about it i just want a boyfriend so bad i don't know anymore
Im 15, and i have had plenty of boyfriends. but my question is, if you are jealous of your friends, and say you want a boyfriend, then when someone does say they are going to, you say no way. THink maybe your scared? Give a boy a chance. You might be surprised in the long run. And maybe after that, who knows how many boyfriends you will have. lol hope i helped.
Okay, I dumped my boyfriend a week ago and now Im going out with a new guy.But every day I think about my ex boyfriend..How do I stop thinking about him?Or do you think I still have feelings for him?
Hmm ex-boyfriends are always tough to get over. You shared something special with them, and it's not something you just give away to someone else. But depends on how much you are thinking about him. And how long you went. Make sure, your with the right person first. And then go from there. If things still arn't working out, i'd suggest going as far away from him as possible :)
ok i have this boyfriend.. he is really great. but my ex boyfriend is back in my life.. i cant chose who i want to be with. one has a problem....a bad illegal problem and the other is weird.. wat do i do!?
Well if he is your ex-boyfriend. You probaly broke up for a reason right? But if ur having feelings for your ex, again. That's a toughy. I had that happen to me too. I had to see him everyday. But i stayed with, who i was with. On the other hand, it wont be fair to your current boyfriend. just follow your heart, and do what you think is right. hope i have helped.
So there is this guy that i like alot and well he told me that he likes me to but he is just so confusing. and like whenever i see him i can tell that there is that connection. lol. but like online he almost refuses to talk like im fighting to get words out of him. he says its because hes lazy but then why does he talk to other people? and now that its summer i barely ever get to see him and i want to hang out with him but people are like you cant call him, you have to play hard to get. and im like well i doubt he will call me and then they're like well he is a shy one and im like uhmm okay? soo i just dont know what to do with him. can someone please help me?
and sorry it is so longg =\
Well your friends are probaly right. He does sound really shy. I know that when you are friends with a guy, it's diffrent if they actually like you. They don't want you to know that they do. so it's awkard for them. But i wouldn't doubt that he likes you. Just give it some time, you've got a whole summer ahead! Dont sweat it. Good lUck :)
how can i tell him i just wanna be friends? its soo hard! i hate doing this because i know my boyfriend really liks me but i dont want to go out wtih him just because he likes me. help!!
Just tell him straight up, how it is. Cause you definetly want to be honest with him, and not be leading him on. You can't go out with someone, just because they like you. That's no relationship. Just bring it to him gently, and hopefully he will understand.
my boyfriend drinks and i dont approve of it. i dont want to sound like stuckup or anything but we're only 14!! and this is something i take pretty seriously because my friend was killed by a drunk driver but anyways..would it be stupid to break up with him because of this? i kno he really likes me but its summer and i dont see him that much and i just think we're growing apart
I would say, just talk to him about it. Tell him how you are feeling, and why you dont like him drinking. You wont sound stuckup, your just saying what's on your mind. You can't really ask someone to change. But you Have a good reason. you say he likes you alot, then he will give it up for you. if not, then you don't need him anywyas. There will be more out there. Good luck to you.
How many people think having a relationship with your best friend is a good thing or a bad thing?
If your friendship sparks and you know each other for 10 years or longer. Will it last or mess up your friendship?
I hear that sometimes when sex is involved it wouldn’t be the same. Is that true?
For some people, it could be both ways. Good or bad. It could make you become closer, because of the feelings you have. Or it could just make it become awkard, because you were good friends for too long. Also just depends on the person. If you feel like it's really what you feel is right. I say go for it. it cant hurt to try. And for the sex part, it wont be the same cause you took the relationship to the next level, but that could also bring you closer. Your decision. Hope i helped.. :)
my bf had sex with me and he didnt wear a condom and it was so good
could i be pregnant?
If you dont use protection, theres is always a possibility that you could be. but even condoms arn't 100% sure. i suggest, get birth control, just to be safe. and see if your periods are normal. hope this helped, oh some more advice, use protection next time!
i am horney all the time and i fingure my own self... what is wrong with me?
um yeah, i dont think that's normal. for all the people, saying girls do that. yeah i dun think so. maybe try a doctor, or get a boyfriend :)
ok theres this girl "cindy" who i've known for a few years. shes a little annoying, but now we're in a summer camp together so we've been hanging out more than usual. well now my boyfriend told me that shes been calling him and saying stuff about me... not really mean stuff, but like shes trying to get him to say something bad about me. and she keeps asking him if he thinks these other girls are hot, or who he would like if he wasnt going out with me. i think shes hoping he'll say something that would make me mad, so she can tell me what he said and get me mad at him. my boyfriend asked me not to tell her that he told me these things, cuz he doesnt want to get in the middle of any drama. he just told me so i'd know what shes been up to. and i dont want to start a fight with her either, cuz it is kind of stupid. but its REALLY bugging me!! is there anything i can do without causing any drama?
well, if your friend is trying to break you guys up. then that's not a very good friend. about the whole drama thing, life is full of it, no matter whats going on, or where you are. i dont mean this to be mean, but you just have to deal with it. just confront her about it. hope it helped.
my best guy friend and i are writing in eachothers yearbooks tomorrow and we each
are writing a whole page for eachother
what should i write?
just say whats on your mind, how you feel about him. tell him how much you appreciate him.
All of the other girls I know are always just SO happy and smiling all the time no matter what, it's like nothing could ever upset them.
I, however, am always frowning and mad/depressed looking and I can't help it. I just never feel happy. I have never been truly happy and whenever I do smile it's fake unless I'm laughing at something.
And the happy little perky ones are the ones who attract the most boys. Isn't it true that men are attracted to happy women?
I want to know how to be all happy and perky and cheerful and pleasant all the time. I've tried thinking happy thoughts but it just doesn't work. I only think about things that make me pissed, because my life is filled with them, and things about myself that I hate (plenty of those too).
please just answer.
well first, what is making you so upsett? no one likes bein depreesed all the time. life is great, even when it's not. try doing things that make you happy. or go to a happy place in your life. be with the people that love, and forget about the rest. the past is the past.
so I have this friend who supposedly says that shes my best frined but has lied to me so much....about everything. should I keep giving her chances or give up shes back stabbed me more than once so yeah need major advice
ok, so i have kinda had a situation like this, on my own. its not quite the same but i still know what ur talking about. this is a toughy, if she was ur bestfriend, it is probaly hard to just give up on her. it's kinda like, would god just give up on people? No. but in the other hand, if she had backstabbed you more, than once and lies. and can still call you her bestfriend, than thats not a very good bestfriend is it?? im not sure how you have handled it in the past, but maybe she thinks its okay. and its not. just let things pass, for awahile, i say give her one more chance. if you get screwed over again, you dont need her anywyas. hope this helped.