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Question Posted Thursday June 14 2007, 5:51 pm

okay like 3 nights ago me and my bf broke up, and i found out yesturday he made out with this chick. it makes me think he never ever really liked me because he said he still cared for me after we broke up.and i'm really depressed,it sucks. i just need help,i need advice,how do i feel better?


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whatever07 answered Saturday June 16 2007, 3:42 pm:
Boys can be pretty dumb sometimes. Don't think that he didn't care, cause he wouldn't have asked you in the first place. Boys just move faster, than we do. I've come to find, that there just scared to be alone. Dont let him get you down, no boy is worth that. I say get my two favorite men. Ben&Jerry(that's icecream btw) invite some friends over, watch some movies, get him off ur mind. :) hope i helped.

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lookitslorin answered Friday June 15 2007, 2:18 am:
It's always hard to recover from a break-up, espically when the other half is doing just fine with it. The best thing you can do is just try to date again. That always helped me. It's fun to go out with other guys who did all the things that your ex never did for you.

& on another note, if he's making out with another girl just 3 days after you broke up, he's a no body anyways. Guys like this are "supposibly" still in love with you, yet the have their tounge shoved down someone else's throat? It discusts me. Never give him another chance. It'll just end to heartbreak.


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Shortcake22 answered Thursday June 14 2007, 10:40 pm:
Don't worry, 3 days is a really short period of time, it's normal to feel like this. It sounds like he is just looking for a rebound girl, and chances are it meant nothing. It doesn't mean that he never really liked you. Most guys don't give themselves time to heal after a relationship. They think the best thing to do is to hurry up and get other girls (I just read an article about this in a magazine, actually!). But that doesn't take away from their feelings about you. So don't let that get you down. Is it inconsiderate of your feelings? Absolutely! But you can't let yourself dwell on it.

Now, on feeling better... Everyone has their different methods to get over heartbreak. Some girls like to watch chick flicks and eat an entire carton of their favorite ice cream. Some like to go do something like window chalk their exboyfriends car. Some like to go pamper themselves and get a manicure or pedicure or something like that. Me? I turn to music. I find a song or a certain mix of songs and I just listen to them on repeat. I also write a lot. I may write poetry, or I may just write a big long blog rant, but it always makes me feel better. I also like having a girls night with my best friends. They're always there to make me laugh and trash talk HIS new girl with me, and it always helps a lot.

Good luck, things WILL get better soon =)

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Brandi_S answered Thursday June 14 2007, 7:28 pm:
It doesn't mean he never liked you, it just means he has chosen to move on. Yah, 3 days seems rather quick, but she may just be a rebound. It doesn't mean he doesn't still care for you, either.
Take pleasure in knowing he doesn't care for her, and he likely won't keep her around.

ygs-29/f

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TiffanyAlexis answered Thursday June 14 2007, 7:28 pm:
try not to think about him. go out with some friends to the mall or something. or the movies. anything to get your mind off of him. if i were you i wouldnt listen to his crap if he cheated on you. if he tries to get back with you, its your decision, just think about if you wanna go through that again. who knows how many times he has or will cheat on you. good luck. :]

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