So there is this guy that i like alot and well he told me that he likes me to but he is just so confusing. and like whenever i see him i can tell that there is that connection. lol. but like online he almost refuses to talk like im fighting to get words out of him. he says its because hes lazy but then why does he talk to other people? and now that its summer i barely ever get to see him and i want to hang out with him but people are like you cant call him, you have to play hard to get. and im like well i doubt he will call me and then they're like well he is a shy one and im like uhmm okay? soo i just dont know what to do with him. can someone please help me?
and sorry it is so longg =\
raychullx answered Friday June 15 2007, 10:27 pm: You don't need to play hard to get if you really like him. If you feel like you're not going to see him over the summer then just call him. There's nothing wrong with just hanging out.. that doesn't mean anythings going to happen. Something may happen, and then you'll know for sure if he likes you. [ raychullx's advice column | Ask raychullx A Question ]
Ashumms answered Friday June 15 2007, 9:27 pm: Okay, you should definitely nix the hard to get idea. Guys like a little bit of a chase, but when they're so confused as to how the girl feels, they tend to just give up instead of trying harder. So instead of waiting for him to call, just call him. Ask him to hang out as friends first so he doesn't feel any pressure about a date. This should get him to open up a bit more. [ Ashumms's advice column | Ask Ashumms A Question ]
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