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confusing boy
soo there is this kid that i like and he knows it and he had told me first that he liked me. and well in person you can tell there is a connection and when were online he doesnt really even talk and when he does its one word answers, nothing to keep the conversation going and its veryy frustrating. and then since its summer i dont really see him that much and when i want to call him people are like no you have to play hard to get but i am horrible at that and well i just dont know what to do since i really want to hang out with him. and like i have talked to him about hanging out except i never really get an answer on when we will hang out. any help would be greatt =]
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ok i'm pretty sure that you're the same person who asked me the other question. but i'll add on to my other answer just a little.
instead of just saying "we should hang out soon!" get an exact time and place. so that way you could be like "did you want to hang out with me and some friends at the movies at 7:30?" or something like that. this way you will get a definite answer and will be more likely to actually hang out.
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Oh forget those people who are telling you to play hard to get. That doesn't even make sense, he told you he liked you, you like him. You're already got!
Now, I have a real hard time with messaging too. Your guy is probably the same way. Its not that I
don't want to talk to people, I'm just not much of a talker. So don't take it badly that he gives short answers. He may just have trouble talking on messengers. That doesn't mean he doesn't want to talk to you, because he probably does.
So call him on the phone. You could even try emailing him. I can write all day. Don't care much for the phone either! So if he doesn't talk much there...same thing.
It will get easier for him the more you do talk.
Just give it some time. :)
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