today was last day of school and the last time im gonna see my close friend cause she is moving to korea tommorow. But ive been avoiding her for a while because i was upset that she was moving and now shes doing the same too so we dont really talk anymore.And then when the class ended i tried to hold my tears but i burst up crying but she didnt see it yet so she asked me to take a picture with her and she saw me crying and she was trying to cheer me up by saying "its okay" and "dont cry" but i told her "its not okay your leaving" and she got quite and keep *sigh* or saying UGH and she stayed there for like 5 minutes try to cheer me up because i was still crying but next thing you know she said 'im going now dont cry okay?" and she turned back and turned around and looked at me last time and went somewhere. why did she leave? and what do you think about this situation?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? cutiekate777 answered Friday June 15 2007, 3:34 pm: She might have had to leave, or maybe was unsure about how to calm you down and didn't want to deal with it. Also, she might have just walked away because you guys hadn't been talking for a while, and she might have found it awkward to talk to you againAlso, she might have just walked away because you guys hadn't been talking for a while, and she might have found it awkward to talk to you again. Make sure she knows that you just avoided her because you were so upset that she's moving. I'm sure she'll understand!
I actually have a friend who lives in Korea. We write letters, talk on the phone, e-mail, and talk on MSN. You might not see each other in person, but it will be easy to keep in touch!
If you feel bad about how things ended and want to see her one last time, try calling her up. Try and remain cheery...just tell her you're going to miss her. It's really hard when a friend moves, but there's really nothing you can do. Make sure you still talk to her once she's moved! Talking online is the cheapest way, although a bit impersonal. Maybe send her a surprise package on her birthday. You guys might have had a falling out, but you obviously still care about her, and she needs to know that. [ cutiekate777's advice column | Ask cutiekate777 A Question ]
caramella answered Friday June 15 2007, 2:59 pm: There are many reasons why she went back to korea.One is mabey that she is korean and her family lives there and she has to go back to be with her family.The other reason could be that her parents got divorced and her mom decided to go there and she has to go with her mom.There are maaaaaany reasons why shes leaving.I also think that the time where you guys didnt talk to eachother was because you were afraid to show your true feelings to her,that you feel sad that shes leaving.If you woulda talked to her at that time,you woulda probably cried and you didnt want her to see you crying....but you did.Its ok though,she might come back you know,and there are ways you can contact her.Talk to her on the phone,online till she hopefully comes back.But really,dont be mad at her that she leaft,you never know what happened. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
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