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shy
okay. im 14/f, and i have a huge problem. my boyfriend is really shy, and i dont know what to talk about around him.(im kinda really shy too.) like, what if i want to start kissing him? how should i do that?(im obviously not experienced)thanks.
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Being shy is a difficult thing to cope. If you don't know what know what to talk about, maybe you guys aren't meant to be bf/gf. Not to make you feel bad, here are some topics you can talk about.
-Favorite Songs, Music, Color, Hobbies, etc. Get to know him real good!
-Family Members is a good thing to understand about his past and future.
-Beliefs is a minor thing but is a good way to think how he thinks
-School. Sounds lame but it goes far. Talk about favorite teachers and stuff.
-Embarssing stuff. There is no better conversation than expressing what you've done. This make you feel better and him. This makes you guys cloes and this conversation can be a long one!
If you are shy talking to him, call him on the phone. Text him. E-mail him. IM him! Anything. However, you can't be a bf/gf is you do that. Talk person to person because that makes the moment real specail!
If you aren't experienced that's okay. It just depends your comfort zone. If you feel like to kiss, just don't dive! He's shy too. Whisper in his ear (this makes the moment romantic) and ask him Can I kiss you? It sounds werid but at least he knows whats coming! Even though he's shy, he might have feelings that he wants to kiss you...just too shy.
Good Luck!
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Allll you have to do is be yourself. If he's shy, and your shy.. you shouldnt have to feel uncomfortable telling eachother that. Ask him what he likes and work off that a little. Even if you're not really interested in the topic, or if you don't really know about it, just keep asking questions. If you want to kiss him, the best way to do it is naturally. You don't have to say much, just look him in the eyes, he'll probably know what you want.
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just kiss him...shove it in there HARD
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