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boyfriend or no?
i'm 14 and i haven't had a boyfriend yet. i know that's not to bad butmy best frienddoes and i get so jealous because she has one and it seems all nice and so cute. when it comes to getting a boyfriend (like if i hear someone is going to ask me to a dance or ask me out) i'm like no way and i just stop there. i don't know why because if i just randomly think about it i just want a boyfriend so bad i don't know anymore
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Im 15, and i have had plenty of boyfriends. but my question is, if you are jealous of your friends, and say you want a boyfriend, then when someone does say they are going to, you say no way. THink maybe your scared? Give a boy a chance. You might be surprised in the long run. And maybe after that, who knows how many boyfriends you will have. lol hope i helped.
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I'm 14, and I haven't had a boyfriend either. So you're not alone!
I want one REALLY badly too so I understand how you feel.
My best friend even has a bf too and I get jealous.
The next time an opportunity comes up, just go on the date, go to the dance, etc. with whomever the guy might be.
If you never date him, you can't really be sure you're not attracted to him!
It could be just that your nerves were kicking in all those times when you were like "no way".
But just don't worry about this because everyone has a soulmate, and a marriage will happen for you.
So think about this: since you'll be married to the right guy someday, at that time- any previous relationships won't matter!
so my bottom line is: boyfriends don't matter! (in the long run, at least)
i hope i helped.
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You want to have a boyfriend, and you want to be liked -- so why stop doing certain things when you find out someone likes you?
Honestly, don't say you're jealous. You've had plenty of chances to get a boyfriend but you gave up right when you found out.
When someone likes you, don't stop what you've been doing. Give them a chance. If you don't give them a chance -- then you screwed up, so stop complaining.
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Well of course you want to have a boyfriend, but you don't want it to be just anybody, do you? that is why you say "no way" when you do hear that someone wants to ask you out. It's cause that boy is not appealing to you. He's not your type. I know it's hard, but it is still a good thing to be choosey. You have to look around at the "older people" who are still together today, and have been for a long time. I am sure that they had lots of chances to do things with guys or girls that did not measure up to them. They waited for the person that really made their heart beat fast. It will happen. Don't settle for less. Find that guy that makes you crazy, and if you make him crazy too, all the better.
Michele
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