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i just wanna be friends
how can i tell him i just wanna be friends? its soo hard! i hate doing this because i know my boyfriend really liks me but i dont want to go out wtih him just because he likes me. help!!
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Just tell him straight up, how it is. Cause you definetly want to be honest with him, and not be leading him on. You can't go out with someone, just because they like you. That's no relationship. Just bring it to him gently, and hopefully he will understand.
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I just recently had this problem. and I just told him "Ya know.. it's summer. and I don't want to break your heart by cheating on you, so is it okay if were just friends?" Sure, it's harsh. But if he really likes you, he'll understand.
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I'm saying this for your best interest:
Don't break up with him just yet. If you do, you might start to like him & then regret your decision & you may not always be able to get him back. Keep going out & see if feelings form. If they don't, then break up & remain friends.
Whether you break up now or later, it's still going to hurt his feelings, & it's still going to be hard to do. It always is, but that's life.
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just come right out and say it. but keep it in a nice way. say something like well i have been thinking and i dont think its really fair of me to keep going out with you when i dont ahve the same feelings for you that you have for me and i was hoping that we could just go back to being friends.
hoped this helped =]
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