lookitslorin answered Thursday June 14 2007, 9:58 pm: Although I don't think not dating someone because your friends don't approve was a wise choice, here's what I would do.
Call him up, tell him that you are afraid of what your friends would think, (though if they were good friends they would want you to what made you happy.) that you do like him, but you really care about your other friends & their point of view.
He should understand the position you're in & be understanding. & If you're so worried about what your friends will think, then date him secretely. :) It's quite fun.
pacsunnnx3 answered Thursday June 14 2007, 9:24 pm: i wish i could help you think of something to say, but i don't know how you feel, only you do. just tell him everything. i don't know if i would tell him about the friends thing though, he might be offended. i don't really agree with the advice under me, plus the note could get lost and end up who knows where and a phone call would be more sincere. i think a good idea would be to write what you want to say down on paper so when you call him you won't forget what you planned to say or say the wrong thing. good luck<3 [ pacsunnnx3's advice column | Ask pacsunnnx3 A Question ]
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