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What do i say?
Ok my really close friend,Jeff,is also my crush.I mean he asked me out and stuff but i turned him down caus I didnt think my friends would like him.Now how do I call him back and tell him how I feel?
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You should never do things for your friends. Or what they would think, Sure it would be nice if they liked him. But you have to think and do things for yourself. If you really like him, just call him and let him know what is up. Tell him everything you just said to us. Chances are, his offer will still be standing. And if ur friends, wont give him a chance for you, then there not good friends. Good luck with that.
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Although I don't think not dating someone because your friends don't approve was a wise choice, here's what I would do.
Call him up, tell him that you are afraid of what your friends would think, (though if they were good friends they would want you to what made you happy.) that you do like him, but you really care about your other friends & their point of view.
He should understand the position you're in & be understanding. & If you're so worried about what your friends will think, then date him secretely. :) It's quite fun.
Hope I helped.
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i wish i could help you think of something to say, but i don't know how you feel, only you do. just tell him everything. i don't know if i would tell him about the friends thing though, he might be offended. i don't really agree with the advice under me, plus the note could get lost and end up who knows where and a phone call would be more sincere. i think a good idea would be to write what you want to say down on paper so when you call him you won't forget what you planned to say or say the wrong thing. good luck<3
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don't call him, it may be too akward but i think you should write him a note and just be honest with him.
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