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Q: 14 /f i dont normally masturbate. But recently i've had the need to do it. But the problem is that i'm never alone. I'm always with my family or friends. Can you help me? Tell me what i can use. When i can masturbate and where i can do it in the house. Thanks
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in your bedroom when your around or under the covers in your bed, when your in the shower keep the water running while you get out and while the water is still running so no one will suspect a thing
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Q: okay so i just bought the book "the truth about forever" by Sarah Dessen and i was wondering..is it a good book? what were your opinions about it?
was it funny in any way? or was it boring? its seems kinda boring but i only got through the first couple of pages. any opinions would help.
thanks
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i love her books, i bought that book and i think it is good! kinda boring in the beginning just get through the first few chapters and it should get better
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Q: theres a guy i like in my church group and we have church sleep overs (for our youth group only) and the leaders always fall asleep really fast and we go into the sanctuary and make out (and the other people in the group just stay downstairs cus they're watchi ng a movie) and i absolutely love him he's the perfect guy with like glasses and not popular but when you take them off u see a really handsome face with gorgeous eyes and i'm not a popular girl so this is absolutely awesome for me. after like 15-20 mins we go downstairs and we get in our own sleeping bags but i woke up one morning and we were still in our sleeping bags but like right up against eachother like literally i woke up against his cheast and i would really really really like to know if it would be a bad idea to do any romantic things with my guy because we're in church but isnt it like the perfect place? lol. No but he's sooo awesome and sweet and i just dont want to wake up like naked and be embarrased. he respects me so its not like he'd rape me or take advatage of me. i just want to know whether you guys think it's bad to express my love for him in a church because you never know...ahg i don't know please any advice to help clear my mind would be greatly appreciate. Thanks. o by the way, im 14/f.
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if you can find a different place to hang out then do it but if not the church is fine i think if you know for a fact that you love him.
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Q: Ok i date this kid franklin and i really like him and the other day we were hugging and he really wanted to kiss me.he was looking at my lips waiting for me to get closer to him to kiss him but instead i backed up and smiled im scared if dont kiss him he wont like me anymore. help me please.
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really just think whats so bad about a kiss? kissing is so nice and sweet in opinion there is nothing to be afraid about...if you need anything dont be afraid to email me xoashhx33@hotmail.com or im me xoashhx33
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Q: Is there any good way to deal with feelings of embarassment? When something embarassing happens to me, everytime I think about it even weeks after it happens it just kills me. I feel terrible about myself.
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the only thing you can do is laugh about it, maybe keep a journal or notebook somewhere and when you see something embarassing happen to someone else like in school or something like that write it down and when you start thinking about being embarassed read them and i'm sure you will feel better just keep telling yourself everyone gets embarassed and just shake it off everyone will forget about it when something else happens to someone else
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Q: can you use a tampon when you dont have your period? maybe so that you can get used to the fact of wearing it and letting your vagina spread for it i guess?
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don't you can get tss from doing that
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Q: Okay. im going to a new school next year, so ive been asking alot of questions on how to be like outgoing and stuff. but i was just wondering, is there a line between trying to be outgoing and funny and stuff even if its already hard for you, and then being fake?
because i know that im not just like a quiet person, becuase when im with my friends.. i can be all crazy and stuff. but when im around other people who i dont no, im really shy. and i dont want to be something im not.. but still..
idk if this makes since.. but basicly is that being fake?
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no, being fake would be something your totally not. being outgoing is something good to be. you want to be outgoing and just work on talking more and have a fun time and no your not being fake if your going to be outgoing
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Q: Im going on vacation on July 12th. I'm not fat or anything, but i definitely want to tone my thighs. What are good workouts to do that will be noticeable by then?
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just run and eat healthy, dont skip meals just eat right
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Q: im just starting to grow breasts and im starting to get pubic hair. 2 days ago i felt something wet in my underwear so i went to the bathroom and it was this white stuff. its really starting to annoy me because it wont stop leaking. its sort of stopped now but is this normal?
thank you bunches
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yeah, its vaginal discharge and it gets REALLY annoying, you should get your period very soon so be on the look out and bring a pad to keep in school you can also wear thin pantiliners to stop the discharge from feeling so gross
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Q: is it really bad to have a dog lick your private area? couldi get an infection or something?
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honestly why would that happen? did you like force him to?
email me xoashhx33@hotmail.com
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Q: what are some love songs that are recent?? i would like it if there was a message that goes something like, i didn't know i would fall for you but now that i am, i'll never let you go or something along that line. if there's no new love songs like that, love songs in general would be good, too.
thanks.
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there is this song "Our Song" by taylor swift and its really sweet
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Q: allright well my boyfriend really wants to go to second base. and im not sure if i do and like he has asked me before and i told him i would rather wait. and stuff but i can tell that he really wants to and lately he has begged me and stuff and i dont want him to like get mad at me for not doing it. and i just dont know what to do.
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okay well 1st of all
how old are you?
and 2nd how long have you been going out?
2nd base is no big deal
but 3rd is (you wrote third in the headline and 2nd in the question) if its 3rd hes buggung you about follow your heart you know yourself better than anyone if you feel comfortable do it
but 2nd is really nothing dont be nervous or scared about that
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Q: my name is michelle 14 years old.
i'm interested a little within this boy named rick.
he is "interested" in me too, but we are good friends.
rick asked me to send him "sexy pics"
but i am not like that!
what's a good way of saying no so that he doesn't think i'm prude/mean/ or not interested in him anymore?
i just want a quick thing to say to him, nothing stupid or long.
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just tell him no and that you don't want to be like that unless you are in a meaningful relationship
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Q: My stomach has been feeling really weird lately. Everyday it's either hurting or is feeling really uneasy. I ahven't been hungry all that much lately either. When I use the restroom I have diarrhea (disgusting, I know). My hands begin to shake, I feel drained of all energy, especially when I yawn. And I'm not starting my period for another week, yet I woke up with a couple of spots on my underwear, and the same when I use the restroom. It's not alot of blood, just minimal. It's looks light on the tissue, like a light brown? Any idea what could be wrong with me?
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have you had any sex or anything? if you have go to a doctor
but i just think its because your period cycle is stil irregular and your body is getting used to it but talk to your mom or someone if it doesnt go away
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Q: my friends are yelling at me alot for saying i'm fat, but i really do think i am.
they say i only weigh that much because my boobs are so big (36 c)
i was hysterically crying last night because of how i looked in the mirror.
i can't get over it.
i was even bullemic for about a month,
but then i heard that thats bad for your vocal cords, so i had to stop.
if your 5'1" is being 119 lbs gigantic or only a little big?
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no, your not fat! trust me you could be 10 times worse, just watch what you eat and when your with your friends try to go for a walk to talk or go swimming or jump on a trampoline! that will make you feel much better. maybe get a haircut, manicure and pedi you will feel so much better about yourself
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Q: My best friend can't stand to be single. She just moved to a new city for a job, so I know she is kind of lonely but she is fallen in with a guy who was fooling around with her very heavily while he was still with his girlfriend of two years. When I went to visit her a few weeks ago he didn’t exactly make a good impression on me. I was there for three days and I never saw him sober, I saw him give a lap dance to two other girls and cuddle with another, and although I was friendly and trying to get to know him better he didn't just ignore me, he was flat out rude to me. I have a hard time to believe he'd treat the best friend so shabbily (or do all the other jackassy things I saw him do) if he was really serious about her.
Now whenever I talk to her all she ever wants to talk about is how wonderful he is or bad-mouth his girlfriend. I'm sick to death of hearing her swoon over this awful guy and bad mouth the girl he is cheating on! Of course she is suspicious and needy. I wonder why she’d feel that way? Maybe because he is cheating on her!
My friend says I’m not being supportive of her and that if I can’t just be happy for her she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. Is there anyway I can let her know that I don't have a problem with her being happy with this guy but I'm not going to lie and pretend he is prince charming when he clearly isn't? Also, how can I explain to her that bad mouthing the girl he is cheating on with her is just plain rotten and bitchy?
I’m not very impressed with her right now, but she is still my friend...
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i can say your older than i am but my best friend and her boyfriend are the same way on a lower scale, hes a jerk to everyone but her and it seems all he wants to do is get in her pants and makeout with her. i try to talk to her about him but she says im just jealous and annoying but i just don't like him. ive tried to break them up a few ways and none work so i've come to the really bad conclusion that there is nothing i can do unless my friend wants to listen to me. so i'm guessing it will be the same for you, just start to stop going everywhere with them and if she is a good friend she should notice and ask you about it. just if and when they break up just be there for her don't be like i told you so and all that be there for her
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Q: Hey, I just realized I like my best friend Alex. I have known her since we were in jr. high. But I don't know how to tell her I love her. Thanks for any help.
Frodo
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whatever you do don't spring it on her and be like alex i love you! just start hanging out with her and flirting a little see if she flirts back. if she does it doesn't mean she deff likes you but some people are just flirts but there could be a chance. just ease your way into it and then when you feel ready ask her out
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Q: k so i live in NY. i've lived here all my life and im tired of it, i want to leave NY to go to college but my mom wont let me. this is the first major life decision that should be my choice and she's fighting me about it. i need to leave NY, it'll drive me nuts if i dont. i've already found 2 nice colleges in VA and Massechusetts. how can i convince her to let me go...by the way im an only child, not sure if that has anything to do with it.
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to make your mom happy pick something that is maybe on the edge of ny and another state or some where close so she still will feel like you need her
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Q: I went to a slumber party the other night and one of my friends there "G" started talking about sex. It made me really uncomferable since I don't know anything about sex. I'm kinda creeped about sex. I mean, i'm only 13, but my friends think it's weird that i don't even no what masterbating is. The next day my other friend there came up to me and told me my otehr friends were making fun of me cuz I didn't know what masterbading or anything about sex was. I feel really emmbarressed and creeped out. My parents never really have time to talk about... sex and stuff. and my paretns say i'm too immature to talk about stuff like that. Sure, when someone says don't kick those balls at the wall, i start laughing. I mean it sounds funny, but i'm confused. I need advice fast!
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well everyone obvii needs to learn from somewhere! so listen in on peoples convos at lunch or when your in a group and when you hear something you don't know don't tell them come home and google it. new words will always come up and there is no way everyone including your friends to know it all if you need to know what something is email me xoashhx33@hotmail.com or im me xoashhx33
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Q: Ok my really close friend,Jeff,is also my crush.I mean he asked me out and stuff but i turned him down caus I didnt think my friends would like him.Now how do I call him back and tell him how I feel?
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don't call him, it may be too akward but i think you should write him a note and just be honest with him.
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bio
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Hey Hey Everyone,
I'm Ashlee,
Most people call me Ashlee
But i personally like Ash better
I'm 14 years old
And this coming school year
I will be a Freshman in Highschool
I have anxiety&&depression
I was diagnosed with anxiety when i was like 7
The depression was so scary and i never want to
fell like that again.
If you Ever have anything you need to talk about anxiety or depression please please please feel free to ask me anything, i know what your going through.
My friends are amazing
I couldn't live without their support
I must say my life is really good
And i am not perfect one bit
my hair is never perfect
i drop tons of stuff
i get embaressed a lot
my makeup gets messed up
i am not very good in math
i actually suck in math
my friends and i fight
my mom and i don't get along at times
my room is normally a mess
and i don't get my homework done till that day before class.
i'll go out of my way to answer your questions and to help you anyway i can even if it means asking someone or looking it up on the internet. i try to make my answers personal and i may put my own experiences in the answer.
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: connecticut Occupation: student Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: June 3, 2007 Answers: 24 Last Update: July 2, 2007 Visitors: 2273
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