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third base allright well my boyfriend really wants to go to second base. and im not sure if i do and like he has asked me before and i told him i would rather wait. and stuff but i can tell that he really wants to and lately he has begged me and stuff and i dont want him to like get mad at me for not doing it. and i just dont know what to do.
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If there's any doubt that you're not ready, then you aren't. And if he really loves you he won't be mad. If he is mad, break up with him. If you're worth it he'll wait. ]
if your not ready, then your not ready. theres nothing wrong with that. just come out and say it and if he is a true boyfriend then he will understand.
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okay well 1st of all
how old are you?
and 2nd how long have you been going out?
2nd base is no big deal
but 3rd is (you wrote third in the headline and 2nd in the question) if its 3rd hes buggung you about follow your heart you know yourself better than anyone if you feel comfortable do it
but 2nd is really nothing dont be nervous or scared about that ]
Follow your feelings. Second base is a big step in a relationship. If you aren't ready [which it doesn't seem like you are or you wouldn't be asking this question] do not do it. You don't want to regret anything later on. If he cares about you & wants to be with you, he'll wait. If he gets mad & keeps begging, he's only thinking of himself & doesn't care that you don't want to. That isn't what a relationship is all about.
-hope that helped!♥ ]
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