my name is michelle 14 years old.
i'm interested a little within this boy named rick.
he is "interested" in me too, but we are good friends.
rick asked me to send him "sexy pics"
but i am not like that!
what's a good way of saying no so that he doesn't think i'm prude/mean/ or not interested in him anymore?
i just want a quick thing to say to him, nothing stupid or long.
duzzie19 answered Monday June 18 2007, 5:01 pm: Ugh that's annoying! Why not take an honest and mature approach and say something like, "If you are interested in the kind of girl who would do that, I am not interested in you." However, if you are not trying to push him away, you still need to stay true to yourself. Say something like, "I am not that kind of girl." Never send anything online that you wouldn't want printed out and shown to your family or your principle! [ duzzie19's advice column | Ask duzzie19 A Question ]
BeautyInTheBreakdown answered Monday June 18 2007, 4:49 pm: Just say something like "You wish!" or "Why don't you just come over and see it yourself?"
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday June 18 2007, 3:52 pm: I suggest something along the lines of "but what do I get out of that?"
Play with him, tease him a little...
Or, just tell him "You'll have to date me first," if you feel like being blunt. You can throw a couple "I don't think so"s in there, too, if you like.
Relationships are all about mind games...so play along. It can be fun.
Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
LM answered Monday June 18 2007, 3:26 pm: "Psh, in your dreams"
He probably just asked to see if you'd actually send them. He IS a 14-year-old guy, give him some credit! If pictures was ALL he wanted you for, though... move on. [ LM's advice column | Ask LM A Question ]
lbwhite89 answered Monday June 18 2007, 3:17 pm: Maybe something playful like "Haha, you wish" or "Hm, maybe later".
On the other hand, no 14 year old boy should be asking for naked pics of you. That's just wrong. If you don't want to do it, you should just say no, and if he stops talking to you, he was only into you because he wanted to see you naked. [ lbwhite89's advice column | Ask lbwhite89 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.