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hmmmm.......Well I'm Erin I have a best friend named haley and a brother whos 15. I not reallly much of a dater but i give great advice on love. I think this is because i see all points of the relation ship. I love texting, food sleep and him.. I've beeen through alot even though I'm soo young I would love to help you out and i consider no question stupid. k thnxx bye =] You can IM me anytime at :XOERINICOLEXOadvice
15/f
Last night I was looking through a magazine and was reading an article on how to protect you skin from the sun and stuff. In the article it discribed different tyoes of cancerous moles. I've found two on my body (one on my cheek and one on my hip) and others that might be cancerous too that fit the discription and the picture it showed. I wanted to know if anyone could give me information about this. I haven't told anyone yet and I'm waiting until I get the information I need and If I really think I might have cancer then tell my family and go see a doctor. I was crying alot last night after I started thinking "Do I have cancer?" and didn't get much sleep. I'm really scared and need information.
you need to see a doctor imeediately . dont wait for more info. go to the doctors b4 its too late .
also do u tan alot bc that could be a big cause
I'm going to enter junior high soon and my friends and I have decidded to change our appearance a bit. I decided to highlight my hair with a few black strips(nothin' goth or anything. It would just bring out my eyes better). So I asked my mom and she said no because she didn't want me to turn emo or somethin'. She rejected my idea before I got a chance to tell her my reasons. How can I convince her to let me highlight my hair?
tell her that ouy are growing up and you wish she would respect your indivduality alos say that you are willing to pay fort it and that you arent going emo or w.e you just want to change your look abit also show her a picture of how u would like ure hair so she sees that its not emo
hey im a guy,13, and im lanky for my age. i was wondering is there any way i can get bigger around my arms and legs. Im quite thin around my waist, legs, arms. the only part of me thats fine is my chest and shoulders. I play rugby so i need to get heavier. any ideas apart from eating shitloads of shit food?
work out using weights!
well i got invited to two pool parties and they are all the popular people ones and all the hot guys are going and the popular ones and the guy i like..
i got this really hot bikini but the problem is i have a little bit of a belly its not that bad but im still kind of embarssed by it i dont want all the hot guys making fun of me and then telling all there friends im fat and i shouldnt wear bikini's
i dont want to go on like a non-eating diet i just want to try to loose my belly a little
so if you can i would like some good excersizes to try and maybe a daily schedule of what to eat and what not too
the parties are june 16 and 24
also ppl may say be confident and dont let what ppl say get to u
but i have to worry
please help
try running for the next weeek and doing sit ups and you should be fine . alos try leg lifts those are great at geiing rid of a belly
is it normal to masterbate with a vibrator alot?
Yes masterbating with a vibrator is normal.
I have this friend "annie" who I've know all my life. She's always been a major drama queen, making up crazy stories to get attention and make people feel sorry for her. In kindergarten, it was a "rattlesnake bite" and she might die! Last year it was "internal bleeding", and no one better make her laugh or it might kill her! Her latest thing is pretending to be bulemic. After she eats she goes to the bathroom and makes noises like she's throwing up. I know she's so totally faking it, but everyone else is sooo worried about pooorrr annie! Even our friends' parents are really worried... and that's what makes me so upset. I wish I could tell people "She's just trying to get attention!", but that would make me sound mean and heartless, plus I don't like talking bad about her because she IS one of my oldest friends. I just feel bad for the parents who are being fooled by this. Should I say anything, or just sit back and see what her next drama will be?
If i were you I would confront "annie" when you were alone with her and ask her questions like..
how long have you beeen bulimic?
why are you bulimic?
Did you know other pepole know your bulimic?
basically questions that could catch her in her lie .
Or you could confront her about why shes pretending to be bulimic.
hope i helped.
where is the cheapest place to buy Å sidekick three?????????
without service??
preferable not-used
ebay has really good used but id just search google for new sidekick 3s's
My ex got a summer job at the same camp I'm working at. Last week was our first week working together and he kept flirting and said to me "you know you want me back" right in front of other counselors. He's been calling me at night but I've been avoiding his calls until I figure out what to do. I like him so much. We were together eight months and we broke up in March. We met at this camp last summer. He knows I go out with someone else now and he keeps asking me what he can do to make me like him as much as I like my current boyfriend. So far I've just smiled and gone on about my work. The guy I go out with now is great!!!! Almost too good to be true. We don't argue and he treats me like a princess. Life with my ex was drama filled. My current boyfriend knows we are working together and he has no problem with it. Should I stay with this guy that is wonderful? or should I follow my heart because my heart is telling me to get back with my ex? Either way the rest of the summer is going to be hard...seeing him everyday. Yesterday he started flirting with some other girl but made sure I was around to see it. It hurt so bad but I didn't let on like I cared. What should I do? How do I sort this out?
I agree with the girl below me. Feelings never disapear easily so maybe you are feeling a little regretful but rember that if you ended a relationship there had to be reasons why.. and remeber those reasons Also next time your ex calls you ask him if he could be more professional at work to make it easier to get through the summer . Try to rmeber how much you love your boyfreind and ignore your other feelings.
okay i met this guy 2 or 3 weeks ago when i was waiting for my friend ouside in class me and his eyes met and he started saying hi to me and introduce himself and ever since we started talking and hanging out and stuff, i kinda like him and we pretty much flirt with each other and we always do a hand shake for like 5-10 minutes and stuff we also hold hands while we're doing our "handshake" we also hug a lot and when im with my friends he tells me to stay with him. also he alwats borrows my wristband i always wear. my friend says we seem like a couple do you think he likes me or what?
I deffinently think thatr he lieks you! SO if you like him back try and be forward about it!
ok i had diarhea last tuesday, a week from today, and my sister told me to take this medicine so i did and it went away but now i cant poop at all since then. i took stool softeners and laxitives and i could only poop a verry little. i dont know what to do i need some help.
Try drninking cranberry juce or eating cran berrys those help loosen you up.
i have 8th grade graduation coming up! my dress shows back alot... omg and im so nervous becuase i have backne.. its like pimples on your back.
what can i do to get it off?
backne is supposed to be treated just liek regualer acne..
mix some acne was in with body weas to help clear up the present acne
also use a cover up if needed on the nigfhty of your graduation .. using cover girl green cover up works best ..yes really green ( it tints the red)
EVERYTIME I shave my armpits there's always like
-a few red bumps
-an off colored shadow
-visible hair, not to the touch but you can see it
it just looks really bad. How can I get it to look smooth daily without waxing?
one trick i use is mixing my shaving cream with conditioner also switching razors often helps too
So theres this guy, lets call him S. And i really like him. But i dont know if he likes me. And i wanna ask him out but i wanna make sure theres a little bit of a chance he likes me. S is in my math class and he sits diagnally from me. And sometimes i catch him glance at me and when i go to look at him back he turns his attention to something else like the clock. He smiles at me a lot and laughs at a lot of stuff. And today this girl, L, that sits next to me at my table thing was like okay stop flirting you two, and he turned red. So does he like me, and should i ask him out? But like im really afraid to do it because i dont want L to know i asked him out since i dont really like her and she"ll make fun of me, so do you think itll be weird if i have J thats in his second hour ask him for me. And whats a way i could go about asking J to ask S out for me. Sorry its long and maybe a little confusing, but any help at all will be greatly appreciated. :].
Just flirt it up and casually invite him to hang out with a group of freinds instread of a one on one date to make it easier. Also flirt with him more .. a little flirting never hurt =]
I feel so alone right now.
I'll start from the beginning.
About 6 months ago I found out my parents were having marital problems. I was really shocked because everyone looked at my parents as the "perfect couple" and so did I. My dad was always my best friend. Everyone knew I was his favorite and he spoiled me so much. and then I found out he cheated on my mom with a 28 year old nurse he works with. I was crushed. He moved out just to clear his head for 3 months but he promised not to see this girl. Right before christmas my mom got a strange feeling and went to a restaurant near his work and she found my dad and that girl at the bar. After that my dad begged to come back. So we let him. It was great for a while until 2 months later when he told us he was going to move out again. So i stopped talking to him. The day before he left I got very hurt on a school trip and had to be rushed to the hospital. I guess my dad realized he was making a mistake and decided to stay again because of my injury. But then a month later when I was almost healed he said he was moving out again but this time for good. It's been 3 months now and he's dating this girl. I havn't talked to him since. My brother, sister, and mom all talk to him, but I just can't. I'm usually pretty strong, but once in a while I'll just break down and cry. Another thing is one day I drank way too much and decided to have sex just so I could do something my dad wouldn't want me to do. Now everyone thinks I'm a slut because I've down this 2 other times when I was drunk. So now I think I have a drinking problem because I drink almost 3 times a week. And I don't know how to make people think I'm not a slut. By the way I'm 15/f.
Any advice is appreciated!
first offf wow....
i really tihnk you have some deep personal isssues and that you need to see a professional counsler. You seem like your dad and your moms marriage has been affecting oyur life greatly and I'm really sorry. Try tlaking to a friend or your school counsler about these things it rellla helps alot . and dont worry about what the pepople at school are syaing your jsut the topic of the week in a little while they will find somsone elsree to tlak about .
i hope this helped
My best guy mate is called phil. He's really nice and sweet and i know he would never hurt anyone on purpose. But over the past couple of weeks he's been acting weirdly with me. For example, if we're talking on msn and he has to go, he used to just say g2g cya xx then go offline before i even reply. But now he doesn't go offline untill i answer and he says g2g cya with loads and loads of kisses and sometimes with a heart and allways with a sad smiley face.
We made up this joke a couple of weeks ago, like we would call each my lovly or something, and now he starts calling me babe and baby and everything.
He told me he likes someone and apprantly everyone knows. But, i wanted to know why he wouldn't tell me, we tell each other everything, and i mean everything, everyone was saying it's me but i kept saying we're only friends. Well, i finally got it out of him and he said ''well, i'm not sure yet but it might be storme [this other girl at my school], but i'm not sure yet'' and i asked him why he wouldn't tell me before and he said i didn't want to :(.
Arghh it's pissing me off! Does he like me or is he messing around with me?!
xxx
one possible thing is that he liekd you b4 but you were sending him negative messages so he used this storm girl as a cover up but i would say he deffinenttly has had or still has a thing for you
I have a sinus infection, so my nose is incredibly stuffy. My "M" sounds like a "B", which is really bad because I have my choir concert tomorrow night. I have been taking nose sprays and what not, but nothing is working. Any home made remedies that can help?
Thanks.
i would deffinently try hot tea that always works for me .. also take hot hot showers the steam should help ypur sinuses
Theres this boy, Brandon, he lives in foxboro mass. and i live in Westchester NY.
He days he loves me
Example on aim
"Brandon: I love ***** ***** [my name] more than anyone else in the world."
and he comments my myspace pictures/comments and facebook pics/ comments like
"now i see one gorgeous girl in this picturee "
"pshh can you say I see a gorgeous girl in the mirror?
i think he likes you but only on a physical level
Ok my best friend (let's call her jenna) went out with (let's call him jimmy) (off and on)for 3 years... they broke up for the 5th and final time (for now) and she's heart broken. This time he for real wants to move on. He blocked her from aim and myspace and won't even talk to her. He was her world for almost 3 years and now he's gone... ok that's her version. The truth is he was a the biggest jerk to her and treated her like crap and she still wants him back and is acting emo about it now.. how can she get over it?
remind her that she will get through this and be a oood freind fo her tell her how much of a jerk he was and that she doesnt need a person liek him in her life bc hes gonna just keep dragging her down when they break up .... also try to have a girls night with soem freinds to help her get her mind off it . but if she seeems self destructive (ie. cutting herself) tell a counsletr imeediately
hope i helped
okey, i like this guy, lets call him J and lets call me M and we used to be friends and flirt ALOT. but lately we havent talked to each other. I see him alot in the halls and at gym after school, but its just really awekward between us. I think that he knows that i like him bc, somebody who knows, went up to J and said, "I know someone who likes you!!" and then J is like, " Ya, i know its M." So i know that i like him. He told my friend that he thought i was pretty, but idk if he really means it because my friend might have been pressuring him into saying that. he also said that i was a really good friend, but idk. i have his screenname, but he doesnt know that i have one, so i cant just start talking to him, bc then he will think that im like a stalker for having it, but my friend just gave it to me, knowing that i like him. ahhh i really dont know what to do, sorry this is really long. but i dont really want to talk to him in person, because i never get a chance too, and i dont wanna tell my friend to talk to him for me, because thats just lame. im really in need of some help. so if anyone has some answers that would help!! thx in advance
hmmm a good trick tyo use is to im him and ask something liek "who is this agian ?" that way you have an excuse to im him also RELAXX =]
hope it helped
Tonight i had sex for the second time.
We used a condom and i saw the sperm in the condom after we finished and there were no holes, then we did it again with a new condom but he didn't finish off because we didnt have enough time.My cherry popped this time but it barely bled at all and im just wondering , the chances of me being pregnant are really low right?
Thank you !
its very unlikely but if your going to continue having sex then i would get on birth control so that you are even safer