Ahhh dont know what to do [guys plz answer too] sry its long
Question Posted Monday June 4 2007, 3:30 pm
okey, i like this guy, lets call him J and lets call me M and we used to be friends and flirt ALOT. but lately we havent talked to each other. I see him alot in the halls and at gym after school, but its just really awekward between us. I think that he knows that i like him bc, somebody who knows, went up to J and said, "I know someone who likes you!!" and then J is like, " Ya, i know its M." So i know that i like him. He told my friend that he thought i was pretty, but idk if he really means it because my friend might have been pressuring him into saying that. he also said that i was a really good friend, but idk. i have his screenname, but he doesnt know that i have one, so i cant just start talking to him, bc then he will think that im like a stalker for having it, but my friend just gave it to me, knowing that i like him. ahhh i really dont know what to do, sorry this is really long. but i dont really want to talk to him in person, because i never get a chance too, and i dont wanna tell my friend to talk to him for me, because thats just lame. im really in need of some help. so if anyone has some answers that would help!! thx in advance
Additional info, added Monday June 4 2007, 5:40 pm: hey some of you guys are saying to im him and ask like who is this again or something, and that was a really good idea, until i remembered that his name was in his screen name lol any suggestions on that?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? avrilperson101 answered Monday June 4 2007, 5:29 pm: Ok, so it seems like your sort of in a rut. So I think you should talk to him on AIM and tell him that it's you he's talking with. If he asks how you got it just say your friend gave it to you or something. So what you need to do is just tell him it's awkward. Tell him that you know that he knows that someone told him that you like him and you think it's just awkward now...if you do that the problem will most likely work its self out because he now knows that it's awkward between you! I hope this advice helps!!
Volleyball2150 answered Monday June 4 2007, 5:28 pm: If i were you, I would talk to him on AIM. That is soo much better than having a friend talk to him for you (making you look really shy) or you just going up to him and talking to him.
He's not going to think you're a stalker as long as you don't sound like one.
this sounds like a stalker
"HEEY!! Wazz up? how are you? " etc,
this doesn't sound like a stalker
"Hi J, this is M. I got your sn from ___ hope thats ok. 1 question... what was the HW from Science."
or whatever...
yeah so just sound like a casual conversation like you would face to face.
if you want, you can even say "___ told me to ask you ________" so he thinks that the only reason you are talking to him is that your friend wants to know a question.
RAWRxx0 answered Monday June 4 2007, 5:25 pm: hmmm a good trick tyo use is to im him and ask something liek "who is this agian ?" that way you have an excuse to im him also RELAXX =]
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