So theres this guy, lets call him S. And i really like him. But i dont know if he likes me. And i wanna ask him out but i wanna make sure theres a little bit of a chance he likes me. S is in my math class and he sits diagnally from me. And sometimes i catch him glance at me and when i go to look at him back he turns his attention to something else like the clock. He smiles at me a lot and laughs at a lot of stuff. And today this girl, L, that sits next to me at my table thing was like okay stop flirting you two, and he turned red. So does he like me, and should i ask him out? But like im really afraid to do it because i dont want L to know i asked him out since i dont really like her and she"ll make fun of me, so do you think itll be weird if i have J thats in his second hour ask him for me. And whats a way i could go about asking J to ask S out for me. Sorry its long and maybe a little confusing, but any help at all will be greatly appreciated. :].
Spoolie21 answered Monday June 4 2007, 7:07 pm: THE hardest lesson for a teenage girl to learn: STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK AND DO YOUR OWN THING! Easy to say, but sooo much harder to do...however this is what I recommend...don't abotu this girl "L"...if you like him I think you should go for it....if it would make it easier for you, you could ask "j" to ask for you, but if you asked yourself it would be a little bit more special and personal: but either way is okay! A way of asking this guy out is something simple like, "Hey "S", you're a really cool guy and fun to be around...you wanna hang out sometime?"
RAWRxx0 answered Monday June 4 2007, 7:06 pm: Just flirt it up and casually invite him to hang out with a group of freinds instread of a one on one date to make it easier. Also flirt with him more .. a little flirting never hurt =] [ RAWRxx0's advice column | Ask RAWRxx0 A Question ]
Mollysie answered Monday June 4 2007, 7:04 pm: Ok I am going to break out a hidden secret: look at S's feet when you are talking to him. I know this sounds crazy but studies tell that this is true. If his feet are point directly at you then you know he's interested, if you are in a group of say more than three girls and his feet are pointed at you then he likes you. If in math class his feet are pointed at you he likes you. Now it does sound like he does like you, and I underestand that you don't want L making fun of you but think of it this way if he doesn't like you and you ask him out then at least you'll know rather than never finding out! Good luck! Any questions or comments feel free to leave them! :)
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tnlovesu2 answered Monday June 4 2007, 6:25 pm: I think you should just go for it girl. and dont care what other people think about you. they dont even matter in the long run! Who cares if he says no, just go on to the next guy. so basically just go for him, or you could go on a date, just make sure the first one is in a public place so it's not too uncomfortable. hope i helped! [ tnlovesu2's advice column | Ask tnlovesu2 A Question ]
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