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alright, im 15 years old and i had my period for almost 3 to 4 years. i usually get it every month and now i have stoped getting it. its been amost 3and 1/2 months and i still havnt got it! whats wrong?

well, your period can be delayed because of stress, a change of diet, sex life (if you have had sex, you could be pregnant). you're young so its normal to have irregular periods.

i hope i helped!

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my skin is naturally pretty oily and i sort of like the feather light mineral veil by bare minerals but it kind of makes my skin glow lyk TOO much. i eat really healthy and my skin naturally glows i dont need something to fake glow my skin because it makes my skin look more OILY than glowy. it looks just weirdddd. but the normal mineral veil is a little too powdery/muddy looking when applied! whhat should i do about this?

when i have oily skin, i use clean and clear oil wipes. their little blue pieces of plastic that absorb the oil :)

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What does it mean when a girl just "lays there"? I know it means that she dosen't do anything... but what is there to do?

You need to think of some other positions, like get on top of him. you cant let him do all the work! guys dont like that haha.

search on google some positions or pick up a book from boarders.

good luckk! be safe ;)

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Kay , i'm 16 - I want to get my nose pierced . Say I get it done , but in a couple of years I want to take it out ... will the hole grow up ?

like any other piercing, when you want it to close-up, it will take time to close and leave a noticeable scar.

good luck! let me know how your piercing goes if you get it :)

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16/m
There's a girl in one of my classes that I like. We always talk and she smiles and laughs a lot. We say hi and talk in the halls all the time.
BUT...sometimes I'll message her on facebook and we don't really talk that much. I also heard her say to another girl she doesn't want a relationship at the moment (she just broke up with her bf not that long ago.) So does she like me? Should I ask her out?
I'm really confused!!!

she could like you. but since she just got out of her last relationship, she could be confused. taking it slowly would be the best for her right now. you can talk about a relationship if this continues for a few more weeks, but dont pressure her into it. if she actually says "i am not ready for another relationship at the moment". take her word for it, dont force her into it.

best of luck! continue making her smile and laugh :) thats always good!

keep me updated!

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im planning on going to a tanning salon for prom. this is my first time going and i was wondering if my proms on may 9th, when should i start going? and how often should i go? and for how long? and what kind of sunscreen or oil should i use? im new to all this..thank youu.

at the tanning salon, there are many suntan lotions to choose from, depending on your skin type. (i.e, if you are fair skinned there will be a lotion for your skin type, dark skinned, etc)

and when you should start going? probably now. going about once to twice a week should do the trick. it depends how tan you want to get :)

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last year my technology teacher Mrs. Smith was the best teacher ever.i wanted to get into broadcasting the class thet makes our video announcements and newspaper so bad and i got in. this year when i came back she was gone! last year everyone LOVED the announcements and newspaper.any way now i have this new teacher who doesnt even own a computer! shes making us do training!HELLO we wouldnt have been picked if we didnt know what we were doing!she wants it all boring! hello we r in frickin middle shhool!we want it fun.she wont even let us come up with ideas! pleeeeeeeeeese help

Why dont you go to the principal/guidance office and ask if you can switch classes? becuase if you dont like the teacher, or the new class, they can fix that or put you somewhere else.

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Normally, on the first two days of my period...its a really heavy flow.
I've had my period for two years by the way
Anyways, I got it yesterday, and by the end of the night (after 8 hours) my tampon was basically clean!
So I though tonight Ill have to wear a maxi pad so that I don't leak... but this morning I woke up and the pad had the smallest amount of blood.
Every time I've had my period, its been extremely heavy on the first two days!
So whatss happening to meee =[

Periods can be different every time you have them, its normal!

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I got these shoes from hottopic on clearance (they're not sold anymore,so i dont have a picture of them) They're really cute, zebra black and white print,with a bow,peep-toe flatts. But the problem is,i have no clue what to wear with them! any help? colors,shirts,jeans,anything! Maybe some pictures would be nice, and again sorry i couldn't get a picture of the flats!



thanks for your time :)

Hmm. since their black, maybe a white skirt or a denim skirt? With a black shirt. and maybe a pink ribbon in your hair! if your going for the scence look.

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I just got orthodontic rubber bands the other day. Does anybody know approximately how long I'll have to have them for? I forgot to ask my dentist =P

I don't know if everyone needs them for a different amount of time, or if there's a standard amount.

I got my braces a year ago and am scheduled to get them off in December, if it helps. Thanks in advance

i had them on for like 3 months because i put 2 rubber bands on the same side at once, it makes your jaw move faster!


xx

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any sujjestions??

apologize - one republic / timbaland.


**edit** arent you a little snotty? giving me a 2 becuase i gave you one song? learn how to spell btw.

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Anybody have any inexpensive hangout ideas? Like not the movies, bowling, etc. And no sleepovers because my friend cant sleep over when we hang out tomorrow. Anybody have any good ideas?

go boy shopping! aka, go to your local mall and search for cute boys.

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where can i get a ring like this for MUCH cheaper?


http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?selectedsku=19532631&sku=GRP00902&cid=96684&mcat=148204&menu=1&page=5

no where, tiffanys is usally better than like kays or macy*s.

and diamond rings, are so much money! i dont think its necessary to buy them unless if your getting one for your husband.

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My brothers leaving me. He joined the army and left yesturday. He's leaving.. and I can't stop him. When I was growing I always got in fights with my Mother and I'd almost always go to bed hungry and late at night he would come in with Odles and Noodles or some icecream to me feel better. And we'd always talk and he promissed me he would never leave me its dumb because it happened when I was 9 but I still remember and he broke it.. and Instead of hugging him and saying how much i love him and miss him already I reminded him and yelled at him, and he left anyway. And im soo afraid that he's going die and Id never be able to tell him how much I love him. I don't want that to happen... I cry constantly now I actually havent stopped, and everyones trying to confrort me while greaving themselves, and theyre ashamed of me. MY OWN BROTHER and I leave him the last time i may ever be able ot see him calling him a liar and running away. Why am I such a bitch and attention craving? And why can't I stop crying Im gunna like go back to school and be brought to the Guidance Conselour or something dumb. I dont want him too leave it isnt far.

Well, you love him! you dont want to loose him, your not a bitch, your afraid he will die. You arent crazing attention, you just want your brother back, but remember, he is doing something good for all of us.

I hope he comes back safely & the best wishes to you and your family.
xox

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i need help deciding what i should be in life. like as a job or a college to go to.
all i know is that i hate history and science.
so any help? i want someting where i will get far in life. even jsut listing the possibilities out there for anything. just please help.

you cant have other people decide what you want to do.

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alright so i use concealer and foundation and stuff to give me a healthy glow and better looking skin.

but is there any creams or stuff to make it look like i'm wearing makeup when i wake up?

like firmer skin, glowing skin, perfect coloring... etc.

im 14 btw

well, yeah, agreed with below, but if you use Clean & Clear morning burst, and take a shower in the morning, you wake up.

Um, if you want makeup that makes you look good.

use bare minerals. its amazing

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on facebook, how do people get so many friends from the college theyre attending if they didnt even go there yet

Well, they probably have friends, like upper classmen from that college, or family, + their friends. Or they joined the college network, and are talking to people about the college, and they ask how they like it, and then they end up requesting eachother :]!

i hope i helped.
xox

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I've heard that tooth paste and rubbing alcohal are home remedys for acne, but do they really work? Also, do you know any other ones and do you know any DIY (Do It Yourself) face masks or just something that's good for the face...thanx to anyone who helps!
~Much Appreciation~

15/f

well, rub vinegar on you, and and top it with lemon juice, then toothpaste [plain, white mint]. and its a good home remedy

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OK so I'm moving, and i need a new bedspread. I really would like to do my room in like, blue pink or green or a combo of the three. So if you know any really cute bedspreads, please let me know. I'm 14/f and I like the girly style. Please help. Thanks! ;)

http://store.delias.com/browse.do;jsessionid=AEEC1F3A287C93E6A14BCFAAD4635F1A.worker5?categoryKey=roomwares&topnavTrack=roomwares


DELIAS! they have the CUTEST stuff for rooms.

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i need a backpack for school. i want like a large purse. thats loose fabric and has a long handle. it doesnt have to be huge..like this kinda...

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat90052&productId=0427_7555

but a little bigger and longer handle....

any idea where i can get such a thing..please dont give me just a place..pics would be great. thx!

http://www.verabradley.com/Site/Store/ProductDetail.aspx?dept=7&sku=181%3a78



http://www.verabradley.com/Site/Store/ProductDetail.aspx?dept=20002&sku=115%3a67&


http://www.verabradley.com/Site/Store/ProductDetail.aspx?dept=7&sku=190%3a79


www.verabradley.com

it has EVERY bag you can imagine!

i prefer the first one, the vera, it is great :]

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