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War.
My brothers leaving me. He joined the army and left yesturday. He's leaving.. and I can't stop him. When I was growing I always got in fights with my Mother and I'd almost always go to bed hungry and late at night he would come in with Odles and Noodles or some icecream to me feel better. And we'd always talk and he promissed me he would never leave me its dumb because it happened when I was 9 but I still remember and he broke it.. and Instead of hugging him and saying how much i love him and miss him already I reminded him and yelled at him, and he left anyway. And im soo afraid that he's going die and Id never be able to tell him how much I love him. I don't want that to happen... I cry constantly now I actually havent stopped, and everyones trying to confrort me while greaving themselves, and theyre ashamed of me. MY OWN BROTHER and I leave him the last time i may ever be able ot see him calling him a liar and running away. Why am I such a bitch and attention craving? And why can't I stop crying Im gunna like go back to school and be brought to the Guidance Conselour or something dumb. I dont want him too leave it isnt far.
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hey im arielle. my brother is 17 and when he turns 18 he wants to leave for the marines. it really suck cuz i actully think hes gunna. hes always been my best friend. i understand what your going though. i cant really answer your question but just know that your not alone. you just have to hang in there and be strong. you have to suck it up and be there for your family becasue they need you. feel free to talk to me if you need to talk.
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Well, like everyone else has said... you're definitely NOT a bitch or craving attention. You love your brother and you're scared of losing him. Everyone reacts differently in times of stress, and that just happens to be the way you reacted. And I'm sure your brother knows that!
But don't worry... you can still tell him you love him! You can write him a letter, and it will get to him quicker than you might think. Just let him know that you feel bad about the way you acted when he left; that it was just because you love him so much and are going to miss him so much and are so worried about him. Tell him all the things you've told us... how much he's helped you and how much he means to you. Trust me, it will really mean a LOT to him! And it will make you feel a lot better, too.
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yeah i deffently agree with the person below me yourr not a bitch or attention craving hes your brother and you love him you dont want him to leave. but think of all the people hes standing for and fighting for, hes fighting for his country, for all of us, hes fighting people in iraq and afganastan, and shortly he will be backk, and then think of how proud you can be of himm. so just think of the good in this instead of the badd, he'll be fine and he'll come home a hero =]
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Well, you love him! you dont want to loose him, your not a bitch, your afraid he will die. You arent crazing attention, you just want your brother back, but remember, he is doing something good for all of us.
I hope he comes back safely & the best wishes to you and your family.
xox
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