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Does she like me?
16/m
There's a girl in one of my classes that I like. We always talk and she smiles and laughs a lot. We say hi and talk in the halls all the time.
BUT...sometimes I'll message her on facebook and we don't really talk that much. I also heard her say to another girl she doesn't want a relationship at the moment (she just broke up with her bf not that long ago.) So does she like me? Should I ask her out?
I'm really confused!!!
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She either likes you, thinks you're a good friend, or has no idea how she feels about you herself. The best thing to do in a situation like this is to talk to her. And I mean it when I say TALK TO HER! No facebook messages...no text messages...no notes in her locker (I think you've got the idea). It's scary, I know, but what's the worst that's going to happen? She'll say that she's not interested. It sucks, but it doesn't hurt NEAR as much as you would expect it to. And should that happen, you don't avoid her...you accept her answer, and move on...she's still an awesome friend (am I right?). I'm sure there are other girls who would love to go out with you, so if this one doesn't work...lose the tunnel vision, and go for a widescreen view. In other words, look around for other girls. She's not the only one in your class...or school for that matter.
That's the worst case...the upside...she very well may say yes. Just remember...with girls..it's not always about what you say, but being bold enough to say something.
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It doesn't mean she likes you. But it also doesn't me that she doesnt like you. What you should do is just come right out with it and ask her.
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Girls smile and talk to boys alot, but it doesn't always mean they like you.
I smile with guys alot, and most of it is just out of niceness. However you should get to know her more. Talk to her more and learn more about her. The more you guys open up and share things, the more you'll really get the vibes or not.
I wouldn't push too hard though. When girls get out of relationship and don't want to rush into things, it's either because she still likes her ex or she has been hurt by him and needs time for herself.
Just be her friend, and if she likes you, it'll take it's course.
Good luck though!
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she could like you. but since she just got out of her last relationship, she could be confused. taking it slowly would be the best for her right now. you can talk about a relationship if this continues for a few more weeks, but dont pressure her into it. if she actually says "i am not ready for another relationship at the moment". take her word for it, dont force her into it.
best of luck! continue making her smile and laugh :) thats always good!
keep me updated!
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