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How to avoid drama?
ok theres this girl "cindy" who i've known for a few years. shes a little annoying, but now we're in a summer camp together so we've been hanging out more than usual. well now my boyfriend told me that shes been calling him and saying stuff about me... not really mean stuff, but like shes trying to get him to say something bad about me. and she keeps asking him if he thinks these other girls are hot, or who he would like if he wasnt going out with me. i think shes hoping he'll say something that would make me mad, so she can tell me what he said and get me mad at him. my boyfriend asked me not to tell her that he told me these things, cuz he doesnt want to get in the middle of any drama. he just told me so i'd know what shes been up to. and i dont want to start a fight with her either, cuz it is kind of stupid. but its REALLY bugging me!! is there anything i can do without causing any drama?
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well, if your friend is trying to break you guys up. then that's not a very good friend. about the whole drama thing, life is full of it, no matter whats going on, or where you are. i dont mean this to be mean, but you just have to deal with it. just confront her about it. hope it helped.
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i think that "cindy" is just trying to break you all up. if it were me i wouldn't hang out with her anymore, but dont be mean to her, because if you are mean that will just start more drama. hope this helps.
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I don't think I'd hang out with her anymore. Be nice, but hang more with other people.
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tell your boyfriend next time she calls and asks questions like those to either} tell her he doesnt like anyone else but you and that theres no one else for him.
or have him tell her} oo dude that one girl is soooo hot! id date her if i wasnt with ( you ). that way she can come up to you and be like your boyfriend said if he wasnt with you hed like her and you should be like oo well hes with me so he cant be with her now can he? or something like that.
hope i helped
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theres no way of avoiding it unless you just strait up confront it.. or you tell your boyfriend that if he doesnt want you to say anything then he needs to be a man and tell her straight up "look stop asking me if i think these girls are hott.. it seems like you want me to ruin my relationship with my girlfriend and im not gunna do that, so if you want to be my friend thats cool but otherwise if you keep being like this then dont talk to me" and thats it.. other wise girl you tell your man "sorry if your not willing to, then i will, but if i do then i know there will be drama, but if you just act like YOU mind then she might just stop all together"
good luckkk. (:
us girls man.. were such drama queens and loveee to ruin others relationships.. why why why!
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