Hi! I'm a 16 year old homeschooled country girl, who loves animals, babies, children, my family, good people and the Creator who made everything!!
Love 'em! Love 'em! Love'em! I like funky fashion, historical fashion, lovely weather, being funny and so much more!!! You'll have to get to know me to find out more! :D
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Abigail!
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Hey i am 13/f and i am pregnant my baby is due in a week. No im not a slut or anything i would have kept my virginity until i was married but i was raped by my older sisters ex boyfriend. And I dont believe in abortion... my family is 100% supportive of this pregnancy and any decision i make. I just dont know if i wanna give him or her up for adoption. I really love the baby and i want whats best and i know that would to be with me because we have a good family and we have enough money to support the baby but i dont know if i will see the baby's dad in him or her and if it will scar me... I know its not the baby's fault. But anyway I could use support oh and baby names could help too! idk if its a boy or girl but i like names like nevaeh (nuh vey uh its heaven spelled backwards) and savannah and jayden, cayden, and skyler... anything else???
please help!!! (link)
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I would keep the baby if he/she were mine, and my family would support me too. It would be hard for me to put my baby(if I was in your position) up for adoption. If I did it would probab;y be open adoption. That were the adopted parents keep contact with the birth mother.
But I don't think I'd put my baby up for adoption just cause I'd adopt ANY baby like THAT!!! I absolutely LOVE children!!! (I have 9 siblings! LOVE it!:D!)
Ooh! Names!! I like the names:
For girls!:
Page
Skyler!
Colette
Clodette
For Boys:
Blake
Jude
Skyler!(I like it both for girls and boys!)
Good luck on your Journey!
Yours Truly
Abigail
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18/f
Hi, i'm in high school going to be a senior this year and i really want to lose weight and be skinny and like i was in egypt and i think i gained weight, because in egypt they feed you alot when it comes to cuzin's but you get the point. anyways i would love to lose weight fast before school starts. one i have a belly which is not that big but looks a bit big and a not a small or big but just a lil big but not too too big and i'm short so that is not good and i can't help my self when it comes to eating junk food. i did try to lose weight but it's inpossible and i do eat at night which is not good for me at all and usually i get hungry at night but i try to lay it off. (and no i'm not pregnant)
is there any way by losing weight fast? anything??? and how do i get rid of eating at night what should i usually eat if i'm hungry or what kind of excercise should i do.
i need help asap now i seriously need help on this one i'll be waiting for advice please help me and sorry for begging you guys like this i just want to look good this year.
no pills or anything that can kill you.... (link)
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I would suggest not eating any sugar and corn syrup.
Jusr look at the ingredients of whatever it is you're eating, if it has sugar or corn syrup don't eat it. I think the totally best thing would be to just eat natural foods, you know, stuff that hasn't been messed with to much.
I don't know if this would make you lose weight fast, but it should definetly help you lose weight! :)
Yours Truly
Abigail
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(14.f) Sorry if its long.
Okay well,I noticed that I sweat sometimes and then it starts to stink now..I asked my parents for deodorant,but they said it's "bad" because it covers your armpit and you can't sweat,etc.etc. I want to use deodorant 'cause I'm worried about school.It's just that they won't let me! They also say like if you use it, then you have to use it more and more and then you might get cancer or whatever at your armpit.What can I do? How do I make them know that I need it? Even my mom uses it sometimes, but then shes like, see even I don't use it alot!
Then I have another issue about my body hair on my arm and my leg.As you see, for PE,I usually have to wear capris or sweat pants, but my gym teacher says I should wear shorts.Well I mean I want to wear shorts on like hot days.But instead I wear capris.But now if I wear capris, you can then see my leg hair.AHEM,once again, I cant shave,wax,or use those lotion/spray to remove my hair!A lot of my classmates don't have hair and they can wear shorts without looking bad.I also have some on my arm.Well its better then my leg.Its much more skinnier, but now my leg hair is more thicker.Well I don't want to shave anyways..I heard waxing hurts..I wanna use that lotion/spray thing.But Since I have bad skin(dry, etc.), my parents say like,"what are you thinking?!?you know you have bad skin,if you do use it then don't tell me when its red or whatever.I won't take you to the doctor, and then starts giving me a lecture.Well none of my parents or aunts have body hair,I'm like the only one. Except my dad has some.BUT NOT A LOT LIKE ME.Well he's a guy so I don't think they should be so caring about it anyways.Well..I'm a girl so I care..Is there any way?!?!?!?!? I really wanna get rid of the hairs on my leg for sure!!
ANY ADVICE, I WOULD APPRICIATE!!! Please help.. Thankss! (link)
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Hey!
I can see why your parents don't want you putting junk on your body, it can cause probs, my parents are kinda the same. BUT!! There is a way! That BOTH you AND your parents will be happy!
There are plenty of healthy deodrants out there! That don't "covers your armpits and you can't sweat". Though they do cover the stink! I wouldn't think most of them stop you from sweating but hey! Sweating is good! It cleanses the body! lol!
I wouldn't worry about the hair on your arms to much, since its "skinnier", with the leg hair I'm not for sure, I stopped shaving my legs, it took to much time and was a HUGE bother!! Though my leg hair isn't really noticable, slightly dark and thicker then it was when I was younger, not bad though. Has anyone ever commented on your legs? I'm not for sure what exactly to do about your legs that your parents will like, except maybe some herb/vitamin or some other natural thing you can take that will anturally reduce the hair growing/being so think.
Here is a website that will have healthy deodorant!
http://www.jason-natural.com/products/products.php
Heres one for other natural body care products!
http://www.aubrey-organics.com/categories1.cfm
And heres another place with stuff on sale! lol! :P
*Oh! I'm sorry! Did I not post the link for the on sale stuff?! :S SORRY! Here it is!!
http://www.ihealthtree.com/jason-natural-cosmetic.html
You could also look up something about your prob on google! That usuallt brings up some things!
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alright so heres the situation.
im 15/f and pretty sure im pregnant.
i havent told anyone yet except my ex boyfriend.(we broke up a couple weeks ago)
if i keep the baby, people will think of me as a slut and whore and my relatives would probably not be supportive at all, but if i got an abortion i might feel guilty and i might regret it later in life.. but im 15 my ex boyfriends almost 18..but hes really calm about it and we would probably get back together if we decided to have it.. but i really dont know. but anyways i want to know other peoples view on abortion. (link)
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I would definitely not have an abortion.
There are TONS of people out there that want a baby but can't have their own.
Your baby may turn into a WONDERFUL person!!
I have 8 siblings and I LOVE IT!! Children are SUCH a JOY! I plan on have a bunch of children and adopting a bunch too!!
I would adopt ANY baby like THAT!! I would adopt yours too!
I hope this helps you on your journey!
*hugs*
Yours Truly
Abigail
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Hi i'm a 14 year old female and i have never had my period before and i was always told taht you can NEVER get pregnant. So how can atht happen.
And also when you have sex for the first time and you have NEVER had your period like me won't it hurt. Like my mom told me taht you can't hav sex because you don't have the natural lubracante so if you do have sex it will rip your insides and you can't have kids or it would hurt really really bad. (link)
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Yeah, I don't think you can ever have children if you've never had your period, but don't worry! Your probably just a late bloomer!
Rasberry leaf tea supports the female system, you can probaby find it at any healthy food store! Hope that helps!
Yours Truly,
Abigail
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I want to know if I have problems. Well I will like go a week without eating. But then on like Sunday I will sit and eat alot. I've lost like 7 pounds in like 2 weeks. Do I need to start eating reguarly? Do I need to start eating more? Everyone in my family thinks im pregnant. So should I eat alot more just incase? (link)
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I don't think you have a horrible problem, but a person needs to eat fruit veggies and meat(or some sort of protein) to stay healthy. And if you're pregnant, you need to try to eat and be healthy for the baby. Losing weight REALLY fast is NOT a good thing, losing weight not so fast is a good thing, as long as you still have some body fat, everyong needs a some.
Yours Truly,
Abigail
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I have not yet started my period and i am 15 i feel left out what should i do ??? to make me feel better i feel like not having my period at 15 is not normal all my omegurlz started and have and i have ot yet started and im to skinny for my age to.. (link)
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Try drinking rasberry leaf tea, you can find it at just about any healthy food store.
Yours Truly,
Abigail
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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.
Thanks so much to you all. (link)
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Don't get an abortion! There are tons of people out there who would be MORE the Happy to take your baby! People who can't have there own children, and LOTS more! Don't have an abortion though, who knows! That baby may turn out to be an awesome person! :)
Your Truly,
Abigail
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What exactly is it? How do they do it?
And do you guys believe in it or not?
I'm not pregnant and I will never get an abortion, I'm just curious. I don't know much about it, I only know they kill the baby but I think people should only do it if they get raped.
I'm 14/f by the way. :) (link)
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Well I guess you probably know what it is from all the other answers. I don't agree with it, ever. There are different way that its done, taking the baby out limb from limb(killing it eventually), there is a way which is kind of like a vaccum, and then I've also heard of a way where they put some sort of salt or acid solution(or something) in the womens womb which eats away at the baby. And there may be more ways.
I don't like it at all and I would be glad to adopt anyones baby if the mother didn't want him/her.
Yours Truly,
Abigail.
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how can i convince my parents to let me get a cell phone? my mom and dad have one, my older sister has one, and im like the only one except for my baby brother that doesnt have one! and im a 7th grader and like everyone has a cell now except me. and its hard to talk to some people who may not have AIM or something.. plus cellphones are just cool. i mean i dont even have an ipod, pet, or other special privileges other kids get. or maybe i just live in a rich area.. i dunno but often its just not fun.. i always have to listen to the radios like mostly online cause i have like one CD which my friend burned for me.. my parents have like 200 cds and us kids, have like none. its just really not fair.. and like how can i convince them to get me a cell? um also cause my dad's setting up this big company in a diff state so my mom says like we cant do all these things.. like it makes me so mad that like my friends can have sleepovers (I CANT EVEN HAVE THEM!! and my parents wont explain. its just cus they didnt have it probably.. cause i cant even have them with like really close friend and they know the parents and stuff) and always have fun with their families. im always like "your lucky" ALL THE TIME. its barely ever that like people would be like "wow your so lucky you got blah blah" i havent even gone shopping since last year and let me tell you it is HELL to try and not wear the same things over and over.. i borrow my sister's clothes but she doesnt want me to.. but i dont have a choice. it sucks really badly. and its cause my mom likes me having a clean room SO FRICKIN MUCH and when its clean she doesnt say anything and when it isnt she makes a crapload of a fuss about it. and she says she wont buy me clothes till i clean it... i clean it every week and i havent even gotten new bras since.. last year too and i almost was gonna get them last week but she got mad at me and bought my sis stuff.. which she always does when she has so much clothes she can actually put away clothes from lastyear while i still have things like from frickin fourth grade. i occasionaly get bad grades too.. but its like i have nothing really to work for to get them. i mean maybe i'd be more motivated and stuff if i got some perks like that.. i mean i wanna do good in school, but i feel like my childhood may not be as fun since i dont have some stuff. yeah yeah its better to not be materialistic.. but i barely have materials. its like always been this way. my cousins had gamecube and then we wanted it and by the time we got it there were newer better stuff.. and we only had one game. and with gameboys, we got gameboy color, and then around that time everyone had advanced.. and i wanted advanced so bad, then i wanted DS. and other games like DDR and guitar hero 2.. oh my lord. sometimes i know its bad but i wonder what its like to live in a diff family with nicer parents.. not too strict, not too nice, but my parents.. they just arent normal at all and i mean it. we're not necessarily poor or anything too.. i mean why have money when you dont spend it? the last time i went on vacation was in 3rd grade to chicago.. like 4 years ago since im now a 7th grader. we always visit relatives and stuff in maryland and like dont even do anything except be cooped up in a house, the adults talk and cook african foods (im cameroonian) and its very boring at times and i know my cousins also kinda feel the same... that we dont get as much since we have to then like play video games all day.
and one last thing, i just told my mom about like six flags.. i had a field trip to go there but i overslept and we got there when the buses left. if my mom were nicer like alot of my friend's moms, they would have just drove me to six flags, but no i stayed home that day after refusing to go to school. anyways i got my ticket back and its valid through all of this summer coming up. my mom's like "i dont really have any plans to go to six flags this summer i think you should sell your ticket to someone or something" and im like WHAT? cause me and a friend planned to go to the same day.. cause her parents are nice they'd let her just do that and come with me.. but nooo. i cant even go with her family because my family has issues with me being by myself at like places like that. they dont even want me to go to a private pool by myself with my friends at their houses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! stupid mucH??? ughhhhhh someone please help me or i seriously dont know what id do.. (link)
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Don't worry to much, Parents can be like that. Maybe you should ask your mom about it. Also ask if you can have a sleepover, ask for a cell phone, ask for new clothes, and keep asking, not mean or annoying like, but mentioning it like.
Good luck!
Abigil
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my dad got a new scale, ever since i've been goin nuts over it. i weigh myself daily
i'll always weigh myself and if it's higer than i like i'll go running and weigh myself again
it got to the point where i got really sick from dehydration because i knew drinking water would make the scale say i weigh at least a pound more
my mom is freaking out because i keep on getting sick but when im not weighing myself or exercising all i do is think about it, i get fidgety and anxious. at least when i weigh myself it goes off my mind for a while
what should i do? is this just curiousity or something bad?
16/f (link)
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I'd say its bad. Being skinny is not speical!! Or good all the time. Healthy is good!
Don't eat junk food or sugar and drink about 16oz of water a day!
Good luck!
Abigail
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Ok so i had a fight with a friend 1 only shes telling everyone i called her slut but i didnt i said to her everyone goes around calling you a slut and i tell them to shut up anyways now her friends involved everytime i walk past the push me and call me a slut whore skank and i end up crying i even ended up crying last night im to scared to go to school now
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Don't be scared, tell you parents about it and explain how you feel about it to them. They'll will probably help some.
You don't have to cry because you know that the things they said are not true.
I would hang with your friend or her friends. Hang with someone else who you know won't do that to you. Ignore the comments and maybe apologize to your friend about the fight.
Good luck!
Abigail
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i really like this guy. we haven't met or anything but we're attending soccer camp together this week. he has been watching me very closely and waved goodbye today. several other girls are telling me he likes me. do you have any advice on how to introduce myself or anything like that? would it be weird to ask him to come to church with me tomorrow night if we only met tomorrow? please help! camp ends friday! (link)
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No, I don't think it would be weird to ask him to go to church that evening. Go for it! About introducing yourself, just pipe up and say "how are you doing!" And if should go from there!
Good luck!
Abigial
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my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and i just started smoking a couple of weeks ago and my cousin found out my cousin is 36 by the way if that helps any but anywas we use to be really close kind of like sisters but ever since she found out i started smoking she thinks i did it becouse i want to be like her becouse she smokes and now she thinks she's a bad influence on me becouse iam smoking but she has nothing to do with me smoking except that she did let me try it the first time if i promised never to do it again just to see what it was like so i promised her i wouldn't do it again but i kept on doing it and she found out so now she won't let me come over to her house anymore becouse she's afraid i'll sneak ciggerates and become addicted so she's stopping me from coming over alltogether and i want her to trust me again how can i get her to trust me if i can't even come over? (link)
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You could call her, But I think you'd better stop smoking too, since you had promised not to smoke but did it anyway.
Good luck!
Abigail
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I have always wanted to be an actress or singer. Im not that good at singing but im very very good at acting, im not trying to sound conceited but i am and i have been told that many times before.
Lately i want it so bad i can taste it. Its amazing. The only problem is, I have no idea how to get into acting or how to start out. My mom doesnt really like the buisness because of how some of them end up.
So my main question is:
Should I try? How should I start out? Should I wait till im 18 & on my own ? [[im 13 now]] (link)
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I deffinetly think you should try. But I think for right now you should make movies of your own with a video recorder and act in them. And do as much of that as you can! And then when you're 16 or 17 look online and other places for acting school and local acting jobs and such. and then go from there!
Good luck!
Abigail
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Awhile ago i deleted most of my mysic because i'm so sick of listenting to the same things over and over again.
Now I have no clue what to download.
I'm into pop/r&b/rock, pretty much just anything that sounds good with a good beat to it.
I don't want anything that recently just came out because chances are, i have it.
thanks. (link)
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I like the Song "Can't behave" by Courtney Jaye, I like it alot!!
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I cant believe i am doing this okay i am writing a book about the titanic a novel and the crash happened and they got saved the girls name is isabel and her brotheer died in the crash also she met a boy named alex on the trip and they are in love ok the people rescued them and i dont know what to write next i am having a writers block can i have some ideas (link)
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Ooh!! I love writing stories!! Just remember this is your story and a story can go ANYWHERE!!! Just a suggestion that poped into my head! Maybe the guy could as her to marry him and then they could get married when they get to new york!! Just a thought!
Good luck!
Abigail
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So, a very dear freind of mine got raped 3 weeks ago. she has just turned 14
her parents are worried about her health cause since the inncadent she has BARLY been eating. shes refuses to go to therpy. she doesnt talk much eather. shes not herself. i understand that she needs time to adjust. shes kinda like in shock.
last night, she called me. crying hastericly. she thinks she pregnate. her period stoped and never came back. i keep telling her that it has only been 3 weeks and that nothing is sure.
she took a pregnacy test and she said she took it 2 times one time it said she was pregnate, the other said she wassnt, both taken the same week.
hellppp
thank all you guys so much. (link)
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Just make sure you're there by her side the whole time! Whether shes pregnant or not.
Encourage her to eat heathy food. For some reason soup comes to my mind as a good one.
And if she keeps worrying that shes pregnant, remind her that babies are a precious and beautiful creation from God.
Stay by her side as often as you can and make sure to tell her shes going to get through this!
God bless!
Abigail
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Ok, so I'm a 15 year old female, I'm abouot 5'3 or 5'4. I weigh 137.8 lbs. and I really want to lose 20-30 pounds within 3 months. Does anyone know a really good way to do this without buying weightloss supplements? (link)
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I don't know if this diet plan will work in 3 months but I think it will. Basicly, no sugar or other junk food, and 16oz of water a day. Like I said I'm not sure if it will work, but it's helped my mom and also my uncle.
Good luck!
Abigail
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My whole life I've been told and thought I'm stupid. Because I'm not school-book smart. I don't get good grades in the "smart subjects" like science, math and so on. I am so sick of believing this. I'm a different type of smart. I know I can make something of myself.
I am especially good at 3 things; public speaking & reaching out to people, languages (I know 4 different languages and intend on learning several more) and I sympathize, more than anything. People always turn to me because of that, I long to help. More than anything.
I've researched at least a hundred different professions in my attempt to find a major that will equip me with the right tools to help save the innocent from the corrupt and ultimatley change the world. I need a profession that will make me come alive. I have a picture of myself speaking infront of thousands of people, touching their hearts, or working at a homless shelter, somehow helping those who have been used, or anything of that kind. But in BIG levels, it wouldn't mean anything to me as a doctor or anything like that. It's not the kind of thing that would make me come alive, it wouldn't matter to me. I don't want to help one person at a time, I want to help thousands.. at once. I want to do something that would end homelessness and stimulate world peace!
I am compassionate and am able to provide stability in people's lives when they are shaken up. I am 16 years old, female, and more than anything.. I want to do something with my life.
No one believes in me, because I am not suited for the typical "good jobs" I will never have the grades to become a Lawyer, Doctor, Journalist or any of the sort.
Help me, what can I become? And how do I get there?
Thank you so much! And please, don't read this and think "what a dreamer, everyone thinks they'll save the world.. this one doesn't even have good enough grades.. she doesn't even know how to spell" Please, I have enough people thinking that way, if you can't help me, fine. But I'm begging you, don't think like that. (link)
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Oh Wow!!!! I want to do like almost the same thing as you!!! Work in an orphanage/homeless shelter!! And I'm a 16 year old female too!!! Cool!! Cool!! Cool!! :D
Well, whether you're "book smart" or not doesn't really matter! You can still do wonderful things! And like you, I'm a little confused as to what sort of "career" to have.
But really, Just do it! Do what you love! Go work at a homeless shelter! Go speak your heart out about what you believe they should know in public! Reach out to people!
Though now you're still young I guess so maybe just learn more languages, and do the things you can for now.
But I believe that the God will give you EVERYTHING you need to do His will! So don't worry to much!
"I am especially good at 3 things; public speaking & reaching out to people, languages (I know 4 different languages and intend on learning several more) and I sympathize, more than anything. People always turn to me because of that, I long to help. More than anything."
Thats like exactly how I feel except I don't know about public speaking, though I've never tried it.. hehe! Who knows! I could be very good at it! :P And then I've been trying to learn some languages and have learned a little french, but I have 8 sibling(6 younger then me!), so sometimes it's little hard to find the time! But I still try! And have learned a little! I think you're farther ahead then me on this! hehe!
Don't give up and you should do wonderfully!
Abigail
p.s. Hey could you add me as a friend?! I tried adding you but couldn't find out how? Anyways, Thanks!
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