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Ok so I just turned 13 a few weeks ago and I now weigh134lbs. I am 5'4. I was wondering if I was overweight. Every time I tell my friends how much i weigh, they always say that I only look like I weigh 90. I believe them too cuz I don't look that fat. Please don't tell me that I shouldn't care how much I weigh and that I should just love myself for who I am cuz I want to know if I need to excersize more and eat less (p.s. I just lost 10lbs. In a few weeks) so am I now overeight still?? (link)
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ur only 13 ! ur still growing i swear stop thinking so much.
dont loose weight just exercise ur fine.
stop worrying!
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I am on a diet and I exercise and eat healthy. I walk 2 miles a day and I do cardio once a day. I lost 23 pounds just doing that. Is that weird? Or is the 23 pounds water weight? (link)
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what was ur exact diet?
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F/15 . I'm pretty skinny. Weight :120. Height :5'6.
But I eat like crazy. I could eat 2 breakfast burritos for breakfast ,nachos for lunch ,chips during the day ,Mcdonalds after school ,and pizza for dinner . So theres obviously a problem . . . maybe even an eating disorder? Anyways I've recently become VERY worried about gaining weight.
So basicly I just need help with some kind of healthy foods. Does anyone know anythinq I could replace these foods with? Because I can't really think of any.
Please & Thank-you. (link)
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burriiots are HORRIABLE for you. very high in fat and saturated fats and carbs!
replace it with an eggwhite (or even a normal egg- bc anythings better then burrito, but eggwhites if your serious about your eight) and add in all the veggies ud want in your burriot- spinach, mushrooms,peppers etc. but be very light with the cheese.
NO NACHOS! replace that with carrots or celerey or fruit or an 100 calorie snack- anythings better then that.
NO MORE MCDONALDS. it plain old BAD for you. replace that with grilled NOT fried chicken.
you can have pizza for dinner- as long as you dont eat high fat and high carb foods before that- maybe even change it to wholewheat pizza. or just have a salad with pieces of grilled chick or salmon in it.
or just have chicken or salom for dinner.
if u want bread- change it whole wheat.
if you want help or a great eating plan email me at sasa9821@aim.com!
goodluck
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My boyfriend wants me to give him head this weekend and ice never done it and I don't have the slightest clue how, so could I get like a step by step instructionish thing on how? (link)
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ok so when you are ready to give him head (this is after some makeing out.. fingering... that whole thing) start kissing down his chest all the way until his crotch area then take off his pants and put your mouth in it but put ur lips OVER ur teeth so your teeth in NO WAY touch the penis. KEY RULEEEEEEE.
then just go up and down and use your tounge.
no need for anything fancy yet since your a beginniner and he knows that.
just go slow and fast and really fast until he comes in your mouth and SWALLOWWWW
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My English teacher wants us to draft a college admission essay for Thursday. I know that the admissions office does not like reading the same essays every year, like how a sport made you a better person or how a travel experience changed your life. I want to be original but I feel as though I'm going to sound like everyone else.
My ideas so far are writing about how I did Irish Dancing for most of my life (I don't even know any girls my age that do it), what led my to my career choice (I saw a girl get hit by a car and have wanted to be a nurse since), or talking about how thankful I am for my glasses/contacts (I've had to wear them since I was 3).
I don't know if these ideas are too far out or not original in the least bit? Which one should I do, or should I choose another topic? Thanks, f/17. (link)
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i love the irish dancing topic
thats so unique and very bold
but the nurse idea is also great
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Right there is this guy that i have been out with before, but he finished me cos i dint talk to him that much.
But recently i found out he really liked me and the things is i really like him.
but how do i tell him?
if i text he tells his mates :/ and wen i ring i get scared ...
What on earth shall i do !?
im 14 years of age and i am female.
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If I were you I would text him! Be like hey whatsup and gradually you'll get into hanging. Since he really likes you he'll be extatic to receieve a text from you! Don't worry just be really carefree about it all and don't think to much into everything
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The other problem: After last night's ordeal, I woke up this morning and discovered that one of my best friends likes my ex who I am still partially attached too, even though we broke up awhile ago. I wouldn't wanna be with him, but he was my first boyfriend and I feel territorial about it.
Anyways, he likes her back and they talked about hanging out more to see if they wanna have a relationship. I told my friend that I wouldn't be a good friend if I tried to keep them apart, so she was grateful of that. I'm trying to do the right thing here, but its going to be really hard to see them together. Is it wrong to feel this way? If I were to ask my friend not to confide in me about this one particular guy and relationship, would that be understandable? I don't want to hear her details about her experience with my ex. It would make me jealous. (link)
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It is not wrong at all to feel like that! In fact your being overly nice to her! I would never let a friend of mine date me ex and a true friend would never go near my ex. Since it's already occuring you just got to tell ur friend that it hurts to much to hear the details and ask if she can spare you. That's the least she could do for u!
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okay so i have dirty blonde/light brown w/ blonde highlights hair and dark blue/gray eyes. i usually wear black mascara on the top lashes and black eyeliner on the bottom lid. i basically think my eyelashes are too short and i wanna know what would make them look longer? thankss. (link)
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wow your eyes sound so pretty!!! (the color)
well i use this mascara that i feel is unbelievable.
its called shaumra. i think thats how you spell it.
its pretty expensive but its worth it.
find it at sephora.com
goodluck
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I am a mother of 5, with the two youngest being my step children, ages 14 and 12. My husband and I have the children full time with the exception of every other weekend, they spend with their mom. Ok this is the situation. I have been their step mom for ten years.I have watched them grow, have attended school functions, teacher parent conferences, school trips, all althletic functions, etc... The birth mom, we will call suzy, treats the two different. The oldest gets everything she askes for.. from clothes, shopping, weekend trips, etc.. The youngest gets an occasional shirt or small item. She is very angry at her mom and says things like I hate my mom, I hate my sister, my mom loves her more than me, my mom promises me things and never keeps her promises, etc.. I am becoming very concerned with her anger. I have done very well at keeping my mouth shut when it involves their mother. And I want the youngest to have her lime lit, to feel special, etc..However, I do not want to stoop to the level of their mother and include one in something special and not the other... We always include all 5 of our kids, no matter what we do..we always have..I just dont understand how a mother can put one child so much higher than the other...And she is hurting...I always insure her that she is loved just as equal and all the other children we have...But she always poses the question, "why does my mom love ____ more than me." I dont have an answer for her..My advide has always been, I can't answer for your mom, thats something you will have to ask her. Is there any suggestions to help me out in this situation? What more can I do? Am I giving her the wrong advice? Please help....Desperate step mom.... (link)
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I feel your a really niave and sweet sweet person. Being that i really fee its your duty, for the sake of the child, to speak with their birthmother and ask teh same questions you assk her. Be very respectable, it is totalyy acceptable.
good-luck
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I have masturbated in the past, and yes it is enjoyable. I find it 100000000 times better when someone else is doing it, and therefor don't really do it myself. I would like to enjoy it more but do not know how. What can i do to make my expereince with myself more enjoyable? (link)
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i dont know if your a girl or boy
girl: imagine in your mind a fantacy situation. dress up. (make sure ur masturbating right..haha)
also it usually iwll always be better when u have someone. havign someone is always nicer :)
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15/f
okay so this boy that im talking to, he is friends with my brother who is 12, but tyler is 16. But my brother started telling me bad things about tyler like he was a player and a two timer and once i started to question it he said he was an okay guy and i could do better because we were cousins. But we arent. Because he is my cousins half brother on her dads side to whom i am not related. like the chain goes:
i AM related to my cousins mom but not her dad.
Her dad fathered both her and tyler, but her
mom didnt mother tyler. So since i am not related to her dad i am not related to him right??
1) we arent related are we??
2) i have a gut feeling that austin is lying to me because he dont want me to take his older friend, and he likes to screw with people and stuff.
So what do you think??
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im really sorry but i dont understand he relationship beteween you and this guy.
from what ic ould see you rnt related but in somewhat you are...
i think your brohter is your brother and wants whats bets fro you (if that wat type he is) mayb you should stay away fro tyler. unless your up for his game.like play it back!!
be bad ass
hahaah
keep me updateddd
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so i didn't talk to my bf,
but i did talk to him more,
and like, i only wanna dump him more now.
he rides my bus
so see him a hella lot,
but like,
idk .
he's not the same,
and i talked to my ex.
he's gonna wait for me to give him permission to ask me out.
when im not going out with my current...
but yeah
so it's confusing
and i could be cheating on my bf now
but i care about him,
idk why
it's just bc i do.
what should i do about my ex.
i still care about him,
he says ily all the time,
and everything
but i love my bf.
and i don't want that to change.
i want my bf to know how i feel
how do i tell him,
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hmm that is a really tough question.
what you need to figure out is if your ex is really into you. like y does he want you to break up with ur bf? he is your ex and all... what changed since you broke up? is he using you for ass.you really need to see if hes the real deal. if you no hes 100000%%%%% for you then you need to figure out if your into him awell. like if your having second tougth on your bf then maybe he isnt for you. you should think about y you went out withyour bf to begin with and how he changed. once you thought of that tell that to your boyfriend. see what he has to sa. mayb you did wrong in the situation asll well and maybe you can fix it and sitll be together. if you dont liek whta you say you tru to be as civil as possiabel and explain that you and your ex will be geting togettherafter yu rbeak up. it will be hard but if this is what you wntt go for it!!!
tell me how it goes!!!
xoxoxoxx
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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help?? (link)
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oooo nooo
stop sending pictures~!!!!!
he could track you down!!!
get a new cell number
and dont worry about your bf
he ullderstand.
and how can you affood a computer (sorry if thats a lil to personal)
(adding in from what you wrote in your feedback toawards me)
trust me this world is crrazzzyy i really feel he could track you down. no matter what you think or wat u looked into. a phone is a phone. technology is crazy. honestly if u tell you bf look, i haeve no money and i sent this guy anke dpictures to pay my cell phone. number 1 he will fell REALLLLYY bad baout being mad at u and he will like rect really weirdly.it is up to u if u are up for it. but ifi iwere u i would tell him. its either you tell him or loose him. and hell maybe even help you pay off your bill :)
get a job though? if your young then have like a cahsiere one or work at a local place.
goodlcuk!!
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This may end up a bit long, I'm going to try and make this as short as possible.
For your information, I live in a country in Europe where the drinking age is 16, I don't live in the states.
Me:15/f Paul:17/m and the others are from 15-18.
A couple of weeks ago me and a whole load of my friends went to a concert, we all got quite drunk and ended up going back to Paul's house. His parent's weren't home so we had some more drinks and watched a couple of movies. Most people paired off and the ones that had boy/girlfriends went home. I ended up hanging around with Paul all night, and we got to know each other way better.
At his house Paul was lying on his couch and I climbed on top of him and started kissing him. We kissed for a bit, but then we both fell asleep. I didn't have sex with him or do anything like that, dw.
The next day I called my parents and told them I was gonna spend the weekend at my friend's and they didn't care. That friend happened to be Paul. He invited me, since his parents were gone, and he was gonna be bored. I helped him tidy his house and we just hung out all day messing around, and when we went to town for lunch, and to get food and replace his parent's alcohol he was holding my hand all the time.
On Sunday night I went home, and then until Thursday he wasn't in school. I dropped by his house and he was just wearing jeans and he looked pretty tried. He said he'd been getting drunk all day cause things had fucked up. I stayed there talking to him about the problems that we're going on until the doorbell rang. He went to open and in walked some girl we'd made friends with at the concert. She went over and kissed him on the mouth so I guessed I should leave.
Now It's been about a week and a half, and he hasn't been in school, he's not at home, and he's not answering his phone. Basically he's disappeared. I called his house and his mom told me that he's staying at a friends for two weeks, so I went to the guy's house and he said that he hasn't heard from Paul for weeks.
Yesterday I called his mobile again, and he answered.I asked him where he was and he said he was at Charlie's (this 18 year old druggie that the cool people in our school hang around with) and he was sorting out some shit. He said he loved me and then he hung up.
I saw the girl a couple of hours later(the girl who was at his house before Paul disappeared) and she said that she's known him for two years and they've been dating on and off for a year.
Now, what the fuck is going on? Why was he like that with me? Why didn't he tell me anything about the girl, why didn't he say that he's known her for two years? Why would he be hiding at a druggies house?
I'm worried...
And confused.
Sorry it was long, and I understand if you don't answer. (link)
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wow what a story.
so paul didnt tell you beacuse a) he was drunk wasn;t thinking b) he was horny and you were rigth there and hes a guy why would he deny a girl on him-? haah
its pretty weird hwo he just took off. if hes doing drugs u should keep trying to tlak to him. if he doesnt respind as gay as this must seem u should notify his parents. this is really serious.
and i feel that it is weird how he said he loves you when h es a gf?
i think he does love you and you should just leave it at that and when he gets better you should talk.
write in my inbox for more help
xoxoxo
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she sometimes tells me about a guy she saw and how cute he was, but when a guy ask her out she says no. she will lie to them that she is busy every week. but she isnt on the weekends. but she makes time for me even though she is busy. just to spend time with me. she is close to me when we walk and her hand always seem to brush against my amr or leg. when she talks about guys i cougar her to step up and go on a date with him if she wants to. but when i do that i am lying to myself, i act like i dont care of the men asking her out and show that i think its cute of them asking her out. but i really feel up set and jealous about it. i hide it because to show i am over her (which i am not). is it right to lie to myself? what can i do when she fines someone?(nothing just be there as a friend and move on) i just dont want to show my jealousy...i am a bisexual female. (link)
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does she know you are bisexual? if she does no then her burshing and her innocent gestures can mean something. if she doesnt know then maybe uyour translating them the wrong way.
maybe her telling you about guys is a way to make you jealous.
if she knows ur bi then i really think she likes u (from all the things she does towards you)
you should talk to her. but dont be really "heavy". like she may get scared if she doesnt know your bi.
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okay,
well.
my boyfriend and i have been going out on and off for about 6 months.
im going out with him now..
he's not acting the same,
he's putting his friends beforee me,
everytime i mention my ex [[he and i are way good friends]] he asks "you're gonna cheat on me aren't you" and it's just annoying
i can't stand it
everytime he says that
i wanna just cheat on him..
just to prove him right
don't get me wrong.
i love this guy
i really do.
but he's not acting the same....
and my mom knows he's felt me up.
so she doesn't want me to hang out with him.
but i do that anyways
but anyways....
i really wanna dump him.
i really do.
i can't stand him not trusting me.
right now i wanna break down and cry..
and then cut..
i really do
but i can't
for two reasons
i can't cry bc my mom is here
and she'd ask why im crying
and i don't want her to know...
and i don't wanna cut bc im trying to stop..
help.
what should i do,
i need this guy in my life.
if i dump him...
i can't be friends with him...
it'd kill me.
please.
help.
pleaseeee.
aim: randomconfusionx
yahoo: randomconfusionx
or talk to me here.
please.
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okay if your bf is acting weird around you then just ask why he is. if for some reason you cant then just like asct weird back or ignore him see if he realizes which will make him ASK you which will stimulate talking and you cud get to why he did it to you.
it is very strange that he doesnt trust you, have you done soemhting that maybe ensued him to think that? if not then maybe he is very jealous of the realtionship you have with your ex. maybe if you really love your boyfriend youu shud spend more tiem with him then ur ex. i know i would get jelaous ifmy gf was so close with her ex. or maybe liek hang out all 2 of youu so you cud show him that hes merely a friend.
wow he felt you up!! goood foryo u!!! !!! thats really good. your young have funn!! wow your mom knows?? thats not fiar for you. everyone gets felt up and makes out and shitt. it happens. as a parent of a teenager (i think u r?) she should know that stuff liek this will happend to her daughter and she should trust you.
this is not a matter to cut urself. yes it is hard but you need to overcome it. trust me there are worser things. take a deep breath. honestly you have sp much goign for you. you ahve aboyfriend. an amazing bestf riend (your ex) and there is nothign to be ashamaned of!
i really dotn no why you want to cut ureself!! if you balanece it out you have all but good thigns~~~!!!!!
dont worrrryyyyyy please just breattthhhhh
hopee i i helped
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how do you make the whole picture black and white, and then have one thing in its regular color?
& also, if you have it, what are your favorite effects/coolest effects?
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any canon camera has it
im nto sure how to do it on photshop but if uhave a canon got to the meno then to color then click display
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can anyone give me pointers on how to make one of those? the tutorial in the "daring book for girls" did not really help. peach pit rings!! :D (link)
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out of curiousity-
what is a peach pit ring?
a ring caarved from a peach pit?
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okay well my forehead is breaking out, and usually i dont have bad acne or anything like that, but lately it has been annoying. are there any products that work really well and clear up my face fast? (link)
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Clean and Clear with benzel peroxide.
and aveeno acne pads.
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okay so recently, everytime I went to the washroom, my vagina would BURN SOOO MUCH. I masterbated with a tampon cap and the top of the tampon had like hard blastic and made like
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you can either do the bath thing, or buy vaginal cream
or tell your mom that you scartch ur vagnia while inserting a tammpon
leave out the masterbating part! ha
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