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he's not acting the same.. help. f/13.


Question Posted Saturday April 26 2008, 2:03 pm

okay,
well.
my boyfriend and i have been going out on and off for about 6 months.
im going out with him now..


he's not acting the same,
he's putting his friends beforee me,
everytime i mention my ex [[he and i are way good friends]] he asks "you're gonna cheat on me aren't you" and it's just annoying
i can't stand it

everytime he says that
i wanna just cheat on him..
just to prove him right

don't get me wrong.
i love this guy
i really do.
but he's not acting the same....

and my mom knows he's felt me up.
so she doesn't want me to hang out with him.
but i do that anyways
but anyways....

i really wanna dump him.
i really do.
i can't stand him not trusting me.
right now i wanna break down and cry..
and then cut..

i really do
but i can't
for two reasons
i can't cry bc my mom is here
and she'd ask why im crying
and i don't want her to know...
and i don't wanna cut bc im trying to stop..

help.
what should i do,
i need this guy in my life.
if i dump him...
i can't be friends with him...
it'd kill me.

please.
help.
pleaseeee.

aim: randomconfusionx
yahoo: randomconfusionx

or talk to me here.
please.




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LiveOnTheEdge3 answered Sunday April 27 2008, 12:24 am:
okay if your bf is acting weird around you then just ask why he is. if for some reason you cant then just like asct weird back or ignore him see if he realizes which will make him ASK you which will stimulate talking and you cud get to why he did it to you.

it is very strange that he doesnt trust you, have you done soemhting that maybe ensued him to think that? if not then maybe he is very jealous of the realtionship you have with your ex. maybe if you really love your boyfriend youu shud spend more tiem with him then ur ex. i know i would get jelaous ifmy gf was so close with her ex. or maybe liek hang out all 2 of youu so you cud show him that hes merely a friend.

wow he felt you up!! goood foryo u!!! !!! thats really good. your young have funn!! wow your mom knows?? thats not fiar for you. everyone gets felt up and makes out and shitt. it happens. as a parent of a teenager (i think u r?) she should know that stuff liek this will happend to her daughter and she should trust you.

this is not a matter to cut urself. yes it is hard but you need to overcome it. trust me there are worser things. take a deep breath. honestly you have sp much goign for you. you ahve aboyfriend. an amazing bestf riend (your ex) and there is nothign to be ashamaned of!

i really dotn no why you want to cut ureself!! if you balanece it out you have all but good thigns~~~!!!!!

dont worrrryyyyyy please just breattthhhhh

hopee i i helped<3

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kidbecomesthedream answered Sunday April 27 2008, 12:07 am:
First, don't do anything you'll regret, doing those things won't solve your problem at all. If the guy isn't acting the same, when you get to talk to him alone, ask him whats up, and assure him that you don't want your ex, and you love him NOT your ex. Put yourself in his position, what would you feel if you were him?

I hope I helped.

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