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my boyfriend
ok im boyfriends 18 and im gonna be 16 nd lately ive been thinking hes like cheating on me or something cause he works out after school till 5 and we were suppose to hangout after sometime then and i asked him when were gonna hangout and he said ill let you know what time and im like ok and then like an hour passes and im like i bet you dont even wanna hangout with me and he got all pissy and hes like whateve if you think that then we wont hangout and im ok whatever and then i said sorry later caue i wanted to see him and he told me he would come pick me up after he ate and i guess he went out to eat but idk with who and im thinking its a girl.. but i just dont wanna assume things and then ruin our relationship and then he came and hungout with me at like 10 and im like um ok. and then today he asked me if i can hagout and i said maybe and he like kept telling me to make sure i let him know if we can. and im gguessing its cause he wants to do something else? and right now hes not talking to me and i know hes out.
and like the other night i saw like picture comments from gils saying oh i love you youre so sexy and stuff and i really didnt know waht to do
so i told him how i felt about that and hes no i love you and only want you fuck any other girl so im like ok i feel bette but lately i have this feeling and idk what to do
so help me pleaseeee.!
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Okay, I've been in this situation.
I've dated an 18 year old when I was 15. It works if you have trust. I didn't really trust him, so we broke it off. We got really scared because he was 18 and we would always hang out at night and in CA(where I'm from) minors aren't allowed to be out past 10. It's like our curfew. I think it might just be my city not the whole state.
Anyway, I don't think you should confront him but maybe tell your friend and have her confront him.
But don't make her say
"SHE THINKS YOU'RE CHEATING ON HER"
he'll most likely break up with you.
I think you should just try to make more time for eachother like the weekends
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You need to stop and ask yourself if you really trust this guy. Has he ever done something like this before to you or any of his other girlfriends?
Next time he's at the gym, surprise him with a water bottle and a sandwich there. Tell him you were thinking of him and you just wanted to be sweet. Hopefully, he won't be there with another girl or anything.
When you talk to him each day, ask "So what are you doing today?" If he doesn't give you a straight answer, assume he isn't doing anything and invite him to do something. If he shoots you down without a clear reason, he's probably hiding something.
Since you already told him how you were feeling and he denied it, all you can do is sit back and keep trying to be a good girlfriend. Trust him and let things flow for awhile. As long as you are sweet to him, there's no reason why he shouldn't be the same for you. All guys need their privacy once in awhile.
After a couple weeks, if you still feel the same, you should talk to him again. Don't flat out accuse him of cheating, but tell him how you feel. Say, "I feel like you're never around anymore. You're always off doing other things and you never include me. I want to be a bigger part of your life. It upsets me not only that you don't include me, but you never even bother to tell me what you're up to."
And take things from there.
Good luck and I hope everything works out.
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