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so me and my bf went out for 4 months and i broke up with him about a month ago. i still get jealous when hes around other girls...especially hes other ex girlfriends! but i know i dont want to go out with him bc it will only cause trouble and i keep tryingt o convince myself that i dont need him but everyday i just have to talkt o him idk what to do!! i still like him but i dont want him back! (link)
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Only time can heal this one, I'm afraid. Keep your distance if you know he'll only cause trouble with you and mess with your mind. Maybe he's around other girls to try and make you jealous (which I bet is most likely... but that's besides the point), or maybe he's just flat out trying to forget about you.
Either way, keep a conscious note to stay away from him. I promise, in awhile, everything will be OK and you won't care about him anymore. You'll find someone new, hopefully, who won't cause you any trouble.
Just remember that if you two broke up, it was for a reason, and something isn't right. You HAVE to accept that.
I hope I helped. =)
- Cartel_92
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well 2morrow school starts! i know who my teachers are going to be, but ive never met them. im afraid though!!! i know where everything is, but im still afraid! its also been a while since ive seen my bf (we've been going out for like...10 or 11 months. we barely ever kiss or hold hands, so i'm going to start holding hands with him. and i only have one class and lunch with him)
well anyway, how can i get over being so nervous with school startiing, the teachers, my classes (idk what they will be, but i KNOW that i only have one class with my bf, b/c hes in the other half of the grade.)
please help! thanks in advancE!!! (link)
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Oh, God... I know exactly what you mean! I was terrified of school starting again... But if you just be calm about everything, NOTHING WILL GO WRONG =). I promise. I mean if you just listen to your teachers, there's really nothing bad that could happen.
And same for your boyfriend. Just be calm, and don't worry. Be excited! This is a whole new year, not just for you, but for everyone! You're not the only one who's tensed up about it.
I hope I helped.
- Cartel_92
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There is this guy that i am involved with. We don't go out but were more then friends. I know he likes me and everything, but i'm not sure if he does want to go out and be in a relationship with me. I try to talk to him about it, but hes a typical guy and doesnt share his feelings. How can i get him to comfortably talk about his feelings to me? How do I bring it up to him and what kinds of questions should i ask. please help if you can. thankyou. (link)
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My advice is...
In order to get him to open up to you, maybe you should open up to him first. Maybe he's just easily intimidated by things like this, and maybe he's just afraid of what you would think of him.
I bet he would be so much more comfortable around you if you were comfortable around him. It assures him that it's okay to open up and share with you how he feels.
Sometimes girls kinda have to take the reigns on some things. =)
I hope I helped.
- Cartel_92
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okay.
well i my first love and i have a realationship where we hang out,can talk about anything,touchy flirt,and say cute things to each other even after it didnt work out.but now he has this new girl that is all wrong for him,it kills me to see him with her and when we had this dance at school he brought her because his best friend brought her best friend.keep in mind this girl doesnt go to our school.but he came up to me and hugged me and told me i looked amazing that night right infront of her,she got alittle pissed off and kept giving me dirty looks all night.now i think he doesnt think i like him anymore i honestly dont know what to do from here can somebody help me please :] (link)
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I'm not exactly sure what advice you want here, but I'll give you what I picked up from it.
All right, so your first love has a new girlfriend. It's completely normal for you to think that she's not right for him, but, hey, if that's true, he will have to see it for himself. You just have to learn to get over him.
So, what is it that you DON'T like about this guy? When someone likes someone else, they always look at all the good things about them, and not the bad things. Is there anything about him that you find annoying? Just think about it a little bit more.
Maybe even consider asking out some other guys. That might help keep your mind off of him.
I'm sorry if this isn't the advice you were looking for, but I hope I helped. :)
- Cartel_92
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my parents are making me do cross country this year same as last year but i dont want to do it at all i dont know anyone i cant run tht good i dont have any fun and everyone puts so much pressure on me how do i tell my parents tht i dont want to do it and make them agree with me?? (link)
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Maybe if you explained to your parents that you don't think cross country is very fun because you can't run very well and you dont know anyone there then maybe they'll understand.
I've gone through this too... when my parents forced me to do a sport I was terrible at and thought was no fun at all.
If telling your parents why you don't want to do cross country doesn't work, I have a plan B for you: Try out a different sport.
There are so many sports out there to try, and I guarantee you'll find one that you like. And if you're worried about not knowing anyone on your team, get a friend to do the sport with you.
:) I hope I helped.
- Cartel_92
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I need guts to answer this!I'm just curious but guys what do you always look for in a girl?And nothing perverted! (link)
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It really depends on the guy, I would say. One of the things most guys look for is a girl who is different from the rest... someone who stands out, has different goals in life, and isn't afraid to share her own outlook on life. Guys look for a girl who inspires them in someway and makes them want to be a better person.
At least that's what I look for in a girl. That's not what all guys look for, though. Like I said, it really depends on the guy.
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My parents fight sometimes and my dad almost left once but he didn't because he wanted to stay and raise us. I have a little brother too and he can be anoying. I mean I am really confused of whats going on. And then I have things I have to work on at school and then I go to church every week and my dad doesn't believe in God so he doesn't like me going but he still lets me. Then I like this guy so I'm confused about everything in my life. And my friend doesn't really treat me like a friend and she is the only thing I got. So any advice would be appreciated (link)
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I guess the best thing I can tell you is to try and work all of these things out one-by-one so you don't end up getting all stressed out. Start by explaining to your parents how they make you feel when they are fighting, and tell them how you are worried (or at least it seems like) about them.
As for school, just try to keep focused on that, and don't worry too much about your parents. I'm sure they will be fine. Everyone fights every now and then, that's just how it is.
Just take it easy for awhile and don't let yourself get all stressed and upset about everything, and I think you will be fine. :)
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