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how to get over your first love please help!
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well i my first love and i have a realationship where we hang out,can talk about anything,touchy flirt,and say cute things to each other even after it didnt work out.but now he has this new girl that is all wrong for him,it kills me to see him with her and when we had this dance at school he brought her because his best friend brought her best friend.keep in mind this girl doesnt go to our school.but he came up to me and hugged me and told me i looked amazing that night right infront of her,she got alittle pissed off and kept giving me dirty looks all night.now i think he doesnt think i like him anymore i honestly dont know what to do from here can somebody help me please :]
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It's normal to feel this way when someone you have to see someone you care about be with someone who is completely wrong for them. But you need to accept that he is going to date other people, and you will date other people too. It will be hard at first, but over time it will become more natural.
You will always have more of a connection with your first love than you will with anyone else. You will always care about him, and he will always care about you too. He probably doesn't think that you hate him, just that you've moved on. And that's okay. Everything is confusing now, but over time things will get better.
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I'm not exactly sure what advice you want here, but I'll give you what I picked up from it.
All right, so your first love has a new girlfriend. It's completely normal for you to think that she's not right for him, but, hey, if that's true, he will have to see it for himself. You just have to learn to get over him.
So, what is it that you DON'T like about this guy? When someone likes someone else, they always look at all the good things about them, and not the bad things. Is there anything about him that you find annoying? Just think about it a little bit more.
Maybe even consider asking out some other guys. That might help keep your mind off of him.
I'm sorry if this isn't the advice you were looking for, but I hope I helped. :)
- Cartel_92
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