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My family
My parents fight sometimes and my dad almost left once but he didn't because he wanted to stay and raise us. I have a little brother too and he can be anoying. I mean I am really confused of whats going on. And then I have things I have to work on at school and then I go to church every week and my dad doesn't believe in God so he doesn't like me going but he still lets me. Then I like this guy so I'm confused about everything in my life. And my friend doesn't really treat me like a friend and she is the only thing I got. So any advice would be appreciated
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Go to church definately, try to go to the youth groups they provide. Get involved in sports, and make friends on the team. Ask the guy, guys don't mind when girls ask, but don't take it the wrong way if he rejects you. Don't beat around the bush though, take initiative and self-discipline!
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It sounds like you are in a tough spot.
Keep going to church. It is a good thing for you, especially at this point in your life. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't believe in god, because you can still continue practicing your religion even if you can't go to church.
While your at church, try to meet people in your own age group. You need to be friends with good people that are good influences in your life. Try to find the positive in everything and think of how much worse your situation could get.
Don't get worked up about your parents. It only puts more stress on them when you get upset. They don't you to worry. It's between them, and there isn't anything you can do about it. Every family has their problems.
As for the guy, go for him! Have some fun, you deserve it.
Best wishes.
Sarah
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I guess the best thing I can tell you is to try and work all of these things out one-by-one so you don't end up getting all stressed out. Start by explaining to your parents how they make you feel when they are fighting, and tell them how you are worried (or at least it seems like) about them.
As for school, just try to keep focused on that, and don't worry too much about your parents. I'm sure they will be fine. Everyone fights every now and then, that's just how it is.
Just take it easy for awhile and don't let yourself get all stressed and upset about everything, and I think you will be fine. :)
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