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What Do I do wrong for no guy to love me?
I am seventeen years old. I am funny. I think im attractive. and ive only had one real relationship and it 6th grade to 9th grade. My longest relationship now is probably a little over a month. I dont know what i do. I start talking to a guy and a week or two later they are sick of me. In this month, i have had my heart broken 3 times. it wasnt anything bad but it still hurt bcuz everytime i think i do something wrong.. what is something that i can do to make guys want to stay with me and love me? I want a long relationship and i want love. how can i get it?
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I think maybe you are to clingy.... I think the more you keep wanting to talk to them and be with them every second the more it pushes them away.. thats what happend to me at least. so I think when you start liking a guy, just chill out a bit and don't always try to be there or talking to him. make it seem like your availible tho but don't be so persistant with talking to him. just try to act normal and not like a girl with a crush. and if your with they guy. dont be to clingy. its hard but the relationship will last longer if your not always right there. just try it out and see how it goes
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are you talking to guys that you known since middle school?.. that might be the problem. i know i hate talking/dating guys iv known for that long. i met my boyfriend in 10th grade(last year) and we're still together. maybe go for an older guy?.. someone you never really talked to before. like you know them, but not friends. try that?.. hope i helped<3
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Well you would have to give us more information about yourself, for us to give you a good answer. What are YOU like in a relationship? I will make some suggestions without knowing you.
Are you bossy? Do you always and only talk about yourself? Do you complain a lot? Do you try to change the boy to be more to your liking? Like to you tell him how to dress, or how to wear his hair, or how to behave? All of these things are NOT part of a good or long lasting relationship.
These never work, not even for adult women. Many husbands have left their wives for reasons like this. Everything in moderation. TO be loved, you have to be lovable. Think of a person that you are crazy about, and try to be like them. Mostly it is being kind, thoughtful, and generous. Being a good listener is also very good, and asking about him and his day, and his feelings.
Well, if I am wrong about all this, then I think you'll have to pose the question again, and give us more detail.
Michele
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