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bf trouble!
so me and my bf went out for 4 months and i broke up with him about a month ago. i still get jealous when hes around other girls...especially hes other ex girlfriends! but i know i dont want to go out with him bc it will only cause trouble and i keep tryingt o convince myself that i dont need him but everyday i just have to talkt o him idk what to do!! i still like him but i dont want him back!
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Only time can heal this one, I'm afraid. Keep your distance if you know he'll only cause trouble with you and mess with your mind. Maybe he's around other girls to try and make you jealous (which I bet is most likely... but that's besides the point), or maybe he's just flat out trying to forget about you.
Either way, keep a conscious note to stay away from him. I promise, in awhile, everything will be OK and you won't care about him anymore. You'll find someone new, hopefully, who won't cause you any trouble.
Just remember that if you two broke up, it was for a reason, and something isn't right. You HAVE to accept that.
I hope I helped. =)
- Cartel_92
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Be cordial at school. Don't stop to talk long but acknowledge he's there. When it comes to other girls just remind yourself they have no idea what dating him is like. You're not missing anything because he would behave the same way as always towards you.
Just remind yourself of all the reasons you aren't dating any longer and that will quell your jealously faster than anything else. I's okay to have feelings for someone still if you broke up recently. That's normal and will fade.
Nobody said this would be easy but if you keep telling yourself and convincing yourself what trouble he was you'll get over him fast.
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So normal. You may not want to be with him, but you don't want him to be with other girls, especially only after a month! It's hard, but it will get easier eventually.
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