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I don't know what's happening.
This may end up a bit long, I'm going to try and make this as short as possible.
For your information, I live in a country in Europe where the drinking age is 16, I don't live in the states.
Me:15/f Paul:17/m and the others are from 15-18.
A couple of weeks ago me and a whole load of my friends went to a concert, we all got quite drunk and ended up going back to Paul's house. His parent's weren't home so we had some more drinks and watched a couple of movies. Most people paired off and the ones that had boy/girlfriends went home. I ended up hanging around with Paul all night, and we got to know each other way better.
At his house Paul was lying on his couch and I climbed on top of him and started kissing him. We kissed for a bit, but then we both fell asleep. I didn't have sex with him or do anything like that, dw.
The next day I called my parents and told them I was gonna spend the weekend at my friend's and they didn't care. That friend happened to be Paul. He invited me, since his parents were gone, and he was gonna be bored. I helped him tidy his house and we just hung out all day messing around, and when we went to town for lunch, and to get food and replace his parent's alcohol he was holding my hand all the time.
On Sunday night I went home, and then until Thursday he wasn't in school. I dropped by his house and he was just wearing jeans and he looked pretty tried. He said he'd been getting drunk all day cause things had fucked up. I stayed there talking to him about the problems that we're going on until the doorbell rang. He went to open and in walked some girl we'd made friends with at the concert. She went over and kissed him on the mouth so I guessed I should leave.
Now It's been about a week and a half, and he hasn't been in school, he's not at home, and he's not answering his phone. Basically he's disappeared. I called his house and his mom told me that he's staying at a friends for two weeks, so I went to the guy's house and he said that he hasn't heard from Paul for weeks.
Yesterday I called his mobile again, and he answered.I asked him where he was and he said he was at Charlie's (this 18 year old druggie that the cool people in our school hang around with) and he was sorting out some shit. He said he loved me and then he hung up.
I saw the girl a couple of hours later(the girl who was at his house before Paul disappeared) and she said that she's known him for two years and they've been dating on and off for a year.
Now, what the fuck is going on? Why was he like that with me? Why didn't he tell me anything about the girl, why didn't he say that he's known her for two years? Why would he be hiding at a druggies house?
I'm worried...
And confused.
Sorry it was long, and I understand if you don't answer.
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wow what a story.
so paul didnt tell you beacuse a) he was drunk wasn;t thinking b) he was horny and you were rigth there and hes a guy why would he deny a girl on him-? haah
its pretty weird hwo he just took off. if hes doing drugs u should keep trying to tlak to him. if he doesnt respind as gay as this must seem u should notify his parents. this is really serious.
and i feel that it is weird how he said he loves you when h es a gf?
i think he does love you and you should just leave it at that and when he gets better you should talk.
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I would honestly be careful around a guy acting like that. Sounds more like trouble to me. Who knows you might not know everything about him that you think you do. I'm sure you dont want to be just another girlfriend for this guy.
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