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i want him back..
Right there is this guy that i have been out with before, but he finished me cos i dint talk to him that much.
But recently i found out he really liked me and the things is i really like him.
but how do i tell him?
if i text he tells his mates :/ and wen i ring i get scared ...
What on earth shall i do !?
im 14 years of age and i am female.
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I've been in your position before, it's very emotionally draining hahaa. not gonna lie. But here's how you deal with it ...
you like him. he may or may not like you. I'm guessing he STILL likes you, so that's good. I think you should text him, just saying hey. and have a normal conversation, don't mention anything about liking him or if he still likes you, because yes, he could potentially show his friends.
3 easy steps:
1. text him for a while, maybe a couple days or a week, until you get comfortable talking to him.
2. call him on the phone or text him telling him to call you sometime. and yes, you may be nervous but you can write down things or topics to talk about on a piece of paper infront of you [he'll never know] just in case you don't know what to talk about and it avoids awkward silences. if you feel comfrotable after a while of talking to him you can ask him about you and him but i suggest you do that i step number 3..
3. hang out with him in person. ask him to hang with you one day, or he might ask you :] then towards the end of hanging out, bring up the past. be like, "i really miss how we used to be, and i just wanna know if we could ever be a couple again because i really like you still."
just flirt alot with him in those 3 steps and if he flirts back, GOOD SIGN :] you just have to get over your fears and take the risk or you'll always be thinking, what if i did that? would things have chnaged between us? worse case scenario: you guys just remain friends, and thats okay. there's plenty of fish in the sea, but i have a feeling it'll work out for you two :]
good luck ! have fun, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. hope i helped, [dont sweat it so much. youll be fine, i promise] xxo.
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If I were you I would text him! Be like hey whatsup and gradually you'll get into hanging. Since he really likes you he'll be extatic to receieve a text from you! Don't worry just be really carefree about it all and don't think to much into everything
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You live, you learn, and there's no problem with liking him again.
You found out that he likes you too, as in heard it from someone other than him. The thing that you need to do is talk to him about this, get those feelings out in the open. And hear it directly from him.
I'd talk in person. Don't bother with the texting because that's a little too impersonal and like you said, he could show his friends. And even talking on the phone might not be best, because you can't gauge his reaction and such.
You broke up first because you two didn't really talk much, so that tells me that it wasn't a mature relationship. I am not saying this as an insult sweetie, so please don't take it that way. I say mature as in something past "I like him, he likes me, giggle giggle".
By talking to him in person about how you two feel, you're taking that step forward to having a more meaningful relationship.
Try it, give it another shot. Hope it all works out =]
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