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him, my bf, he's different
so i didn't talk to my bf,
but i did talk to him more,
and like, i only wanna dump him more now.
he rides my bus
so see him a hella lot,
but like,
idk .
he's not the same,
and i talked to my ex.
he's gonna wait for me to give him permission to ask me out.
when im not going out with my current...
but yeah
so it's confusing
and i could be cheating on my bf now
but i care about him,
idk why
it's just bc i do.
what should i do about my ex.
i still care about him,
he says ily all the time,
and everything
but i love my bf.
and i don't want that to change.
i want my bf to know how i feel
how do i tell him,
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hmm that is a really tough question.
what you need to figure out is if your ex is really into you. like y does he want you to break up with ur bf? he is your ex and all... what changed since you broke up? is he using you for ass.you really need to see if hes the real deal. if you no hes 100000%%%%% for you then you need to figure out if your into him awell. like if your having second tougth on your bf then maybe he isnt for you. you should think about y you went out withyour bf to begin with and how he changed. once you thought of that tell that to your boyfriend. see what he has to sa. mayb you did wrong in the situation asll well and maybe you can fix it and sitll be together. if you dont liek whta you say you tru to be as civil as possiabel and explain that you and your ex will be geting togettherafter yu rbeak up. it will be hard but if this is what you wntt go for it!!!
tell me how it goes!!!
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hi, i'm michaela. i'm 13/f.
you seem like your in a kinda mixed emotion/feelings situation. well i think that instead of dumping your boyfriend you should just spend more time together, talk more, get your relationship flowing again. try hanging out with him and get to know him more,like his childhood,personal stuff like about family. and as for the other guy...i think you should hold him off for a while and talk with your boyfriend and try to get more involved in his life. instead of just dropp ending things. i mean there could be a whole other side that you dont know about him i mean like his personality. he could be someone you could really truly care about. never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.the other guy may say he loves you but thoughs are just words and hes not the one your with that you cared about in the beginning,hes not the one thats with you now who tells you he loves you and can really show it. you just got to be more open with your bf. i dont think you should tell him about the other guy, but lay off on the other guy. ya know? i mean try communicating with your boyfriend more. love,trust,communication,honesty,and respect are the key points in a relationship. just try to make things work with your bf. if you just end it for that one guy..you could really hurt someone who really cares about you, and you may find that you really did care for him too. you never know what you have until you've lost it.
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well, if you want your boyfriend to know how you feel tell him. and if you aren't comfortable enough to tell your boyfriend how you really feel, face to face, then you guys aren't really in a stable relationship.
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