i'm just too shy but i'm like in love with this dude
Question Posted Wednesday April 30 2008, 2:18 pm
ok so theres this guy i reaaally like. but the thing is, that we actually never talked to eachother before. haha and now dont say i cant like him because i DO know him, just trust me on this, i dont wanna tell you the uniportant details. so he's a grade higher than me as well. and yeaah i've been getting the feeling from him that he likes me alot. and well today we were both in the halway at school and he was just doing shit with his friends but then he stopped for a few seconds and looked me in the eye&smiled. it was just sooo adorable and he looked so gentle. but well no I have this problem. i'm extremely shy and i just cant smile back. i TRIED but it just turned out to be this really weird fake smile which confused him.
and i cant even look him in the eye when he walks by, and my heart starts racing so fast i can hear it in my head. but i ALWAYS ignore him. and we've been liking eachother for a year now but only talked ONCE which was really awkward and didnt last long cos he was in a hurry and had to go. and that convo was like half a year ago now :/
he's also quite shy and probably VERY confused by me since i'm just the weirdest person ever around him. like when i feel more confident i DO look at him but when i'm not i ignore him like i dont even like him. i dont WANT to be that way but i just cant control my actions. i really wannatalk to him :/ but how am i gonna give thim the right signals??? pleaaase help. and sorry ifd this was long xxxx
iluvmegan answered Friday May 2 2008, 6:45 am: just start by saying hello first to get confidence then build up the conversation write a note to him telling him how you feel and see his reply if he likes you then thats brilliant but if he doesnt dont feel to crushed [ iluvmegan's advice column | Ask iluvmegan A Question ]
ChevyIINova answered Friday May 2 2008, 3:40 am: I remember being your age and shy too. It's normal. Yes it is. :O
What about writing a note? Heck, you don't even have to deliver it! Get a friend to! Tape it up first if you don't want your friend to read it. That's what we used to do back then...in the 90s. [ ChevyIINova's advice column | Ask ChevyIINova A Question ]
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