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So i like this guy, isnt that what is always is. but he just broke up with his 'girlfriend' and she is one of my friends. she broke up with him and she doesnt want to be with him but he keeps on trying to be all cutsie with her. I would completely understand if he just didnt like me but we talk all the time, we have kissed/made out. he comes to see me after work like at my window if my parents are asleep. its adorable. i really really like him but im not sure how i should handle all this. i dont want to be someones rebound. ive been messed with enough this year. (link)
he is playing you your to good for him and if you do go out with him your friend might get upset aswell


ok so theres this guy i reaaally like. but the thing is, that we actually never talked to eachother before. haha and now dont say i cant like him because i DO know him, just trust me on this, i dont wanna tell you the uniportant details. so he's a grade higher than me as well. and yeaah i've been getting the feeling from him that he likes me alot. and well today we were both in the halway at school and he was just doing shit with his friends but then he stopped for a few seconds and looked me in the eye&smiled. it was just sooo adorable and he looked so gentle. but well no I have this problem. i'm extremely shy and i just cant smile back. i TRIED but it just turned out to be this really weird fake smile which confused him.
and i cant even look him in the eye when he walks by, and my heart starts racing so fast i can hear it in my head. but i ALWAYS ignore him. and we've been liking eachother for a year now but only talked ONCE which was really awkward and didnt last long cos he was in a hurry and had to go. and that convo was like half a year ago now :/
he's also quite shy and probably VERY confused by me since i'm just the weirdest person ever around him. like when i feel more confident i DO look at him but when i'm not i ignore him like i dont even like him. i dont WANT to be that way but i just cant control my actions. i really wannatalk to him :/ but how am i gonna give thim the right signals??? pleaaase help. and sorry ifd this was long xxxx (link)
just start by saying hello first to get confidence then build up the conversation write a note to him telling him how you feel and see his reply if he likes you then thats brilliant but if he doesnt dont feel to crushed


my bf of 2 months swears he's in love with me and that he's never felt this way about anyone else before. he totally treats me like a princess and couldnt be more perfect for me.

ok now, he's not like a 'ladies man' or anything cuz hes not like one of those guys all the girls cling to & wanna date but most of his friends are girls. he swears i mean more than anything to him & that he could never find another girl like me but although hes 'in love' with me im soo scared that hes gonna start to like another girl and its killin me!!! i have a hard time trustin guys and he knows that but he gained my trust over the summer now he hasnt done anything to lose it, im just worried!

lately hes been waitin later to call me [he usually calls about 11:15-11:30ish right after he gets home from work and for awhile used to call me at work] but now he waits till like 12:30ish.. or just sometime late. also, he doesnt seem to be sayin all the sweet things you used to say. he does every now and then, but he used to do it like everydayyy. then last nite i was on the phone with him and he said 'who are you talkin to? _(my name)_ or _(another girl's name)_?' he never talks on the phone to anyone except me soo im worried hes startin callin another girl. i asked him what his bro said and 1st he said he didnt kno he wasnt payin attention but then he changed that name to a guys name when i coulda swore his bro said a girls name. also on AIM & stuff he wont say much anymore and he used to leave me comments on myspace all the time but he hasnt done that lately.

i mean he knows i love him to death but im not clingy or anything hes even said so so i cant be pushin him away!!

im jus scared im losin him.. does this sound like it & what are some other signs he may be driftin away from me and/or likin someone else too?

btw im turnin 16 this month, hes 16 turnin 17 in feb. and we go to diff schools.

sry so long but thx!

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You need to have trust in your boyfriend if he is someone who does not lie then i would trust him


at my school my dad is the principal of middle and high school and it seems people judge me because of it before they even get to know me its a fact.once when i got in trouble and had to go to iss(inn school suspension)this girl who ive never even talked to told me she thought i would be a goody goody girl because my dad is the princapal and i do get treated differently by all my teachers and it sucks.i get this comment all the time and i meen all the time"you thinnk your all that just because your the principals daughter"ive been going to the same school for 6 years and get this comment by really iggnorent people and i dont think im all that but i dont know how to respond to it and if i dont the person will keep saying it.what should i say to put them in their place?thanx (link)
just tell dem that if dey got a problem tell em 2 speak 2 ur dad


Hello,
I was just wondering if anyone has experienced having a friends husband attracted to you? See, there are all kinds of websites that tell you the signs of flirting or how to know if someone likes you, but, can anyone tell me what the signs are if your friends husband is flirting? Because they have to be more discreet about it if they are interested in you. I just need to know. I will rate high for serious answers. Thankyou. (link)
if he starts touching u then thats a definite sign


Sorry this is so long..but it's really hard to explain.
Okay, so i went out with this guy like 3 times in the last 2 years..and my best friend likes the guy..but she hasn't as long. We are now going out again and i love him soo much. But she still likes him and is ALWAYS following us around..i dont know if he likes her or not..he says he doesnt and always has said that..so maybe he doesnt..but he doesnt act like it. But today i really needed to talk to him alone and she insisted that you needed to go to (because she likes him) so i told her to just go away because it was getting annoying and now she's mad at me. But i have a feeling she's just using me to get to him anyways..and i dont know what to do..so i guess my question is: What do i do about her being mad and how do i get her to realize that he is MY boyfriend and she doesn't always need to follow us around..? I don't wanna seem like a bitch or anything..but it really is annoying. Thanks for any help! (link)
well u need 2 have a talk bout it cos she cant ruin a relationship cos she loves him


ok, im really streesed alright i dont knwo whats wrong with me i mean guys like me but i never liek them back.. and like there this guy kyle ive liked and i stop when i see him but i get this mad feeling some what when hes flirting with thiso ne girl and i need a boy or somthing my friend destiny got hers n im jelious i want one! omg its dumb what is my problem (link)
well just go for personallity dats da true answear


How do you know when your boyfriend/girlfriend is ready to have sex? I'm ready, but I don't know how to find out if he is. (link)
just look sexy and it will happen or take your clothes off or somting


Okay, about a month ago, me and my boyfreind did some stuff together. (more then kissing) I told him not to tell ANYONE because i really didn't wanted a bad reputation. I knew i made a mistake by doing this with him, but it was too late. Well just today, i found out that he told one of his freinds aaron and one of his freinds jimmy. Jimmy told me that him and aaron wernt the only ones who knew and that my boyfreind told alot of people! So when I confronted my boyfreind about all this, he denied it and said he didnt tell anyone that they were just rumors. I told him that even if they were rumors, they were still true and someone had to know about it. So i broke up with him and told him it was for my reputation and i didnt want people to think i was a big slut. He went off on me telling me i was wrong for doing this. Is breaking up with him a good or bad thing to do. Remember, this is what people will think about me for a while. I need help! (link)
weel gey back 2 gether with him he did not do any thing rong u r confused i can tell but tell him


im realy bored,i have nothing to do please help!
i have seen everthing on T.V a billion times and i have surfed the intire internet.Please help i rate 5s.Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
wel if u hav got a boyfriend or girlfriend go somwhere with them


just got out of a bad relationship, verbally and sorta physically abused. known him all my life, devestated that hes ruining his life with drugs, going threw bad depression, being forced to see doctors... all the advice is the same from everyone, theres not much else i can do, was hoping to hear some different views... ?
-one sad girl (link)
well tell him its not da right path 2 go down 2 and even if it helps him 2 stop maybe if it comes 2 extreme go back 2 him and hav sex


There's this boy i really like but... i have a boyfriend and im going to be going out with him for 6 months this friday and I already had sex with him and I really like this kid named josh and we have 2 classes together and he’s in my grade. My friend asked him if he liked and and he was like ummmmmmmmmm ummmmmmm ummmm and asked who? And she said my name and he said ummmm no. how do I know if he likes me.??????!!!!!! Really need to know!! He’s moving to California in July and all I want is just a lil piece of him lol and I like in ny so we would NEVER see each other (link)
get his fone number or msn address if u lik him just tell him how u feel EXPRESS YOURSELF


i like this one boy but im too scared to tell him im afarid that he will not like me or he will think of me different what should i do?
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get somone else 2 tell him dis gal did dat gal 2 me and i luved her aswell dont worry just let your heart out p.s have u got msn


hi, im 15 f and i really want a bf. but everytime i go near a boy i get all shy, is this normal? please help
confused girl :S (link)
just picture dem with there underwear on it will make it more easier im a boy i know


Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 months now. Anyway, at the beginning ont the relationship we'd be so eager to talk to eachother, and talk on the phone every night, and ditch friends for eachother, etc.

Now, we don't talk on the phone for periods of time. (Right now it's been 11 days since I've talked to him on the phone) And we hang out amazingly less, and I don't feel the urge anymore to check the computer every 5 minutes to see if he's online. When I do get to talk to him, I feel so uninterested. I could honestly go days without talking to him, and it wouldn't bug my anymore. Sometimes I cry because I don't understand what's happening, and it really upsets me. Could it be that I'm just losing interest/we both are in eachother? :(

Tuesday night on AIM I told him that I felt I was losing interest in him, and he repsonded, "Geez, I like you a lot, I can't just stop." Then he put up an away message that said, "I fucking screwed up somehow." And signed off. We eventually resolved the problem, but I feel I lied. I told him I still did like him, and I was stupid to say that. But really, I feel EXACTLY like that. I'm not as interested. What's happening? Do I WANT to get over him or something..?

Thank you. (link)
hi dont worry ask him if he wants to go out somwhere on a date and if you want to tell me more can you give me your email address and i tell you more aswell


when ever i watch a love scene in a movie or show i kinda of think of me and my crush and then i suddenly feel so depressed . but it last for a long time (link)
its da same as me but its more humiliating cos i male wat u do is lock yourself in your room den just think about them it will make u cry and it wil be over


hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs. old and this guy that i've been really good friends with since i was 11 has been flirting with me and we did some stuff the other day. I don't regret it at all i mean it wasnt that bad but my friend has asked him if he likes me and he said he thinks i'm really hot but we've been friends too long. I can't let this go though because i dont have many guys liking me and he has never cheated on anybody and he would be the perfect boyfriend. He's really hot and i like him so much. My problem is that we've decided to just be friends more than once before but we always get together and flirt and do stuff and this happens all over again what should i do?

Luv,

~Very Emotionally Confused~ (link)
well if u 2 fink its right go for it


Ok i am 13 and i am a female. Ok well i went out with my really good friend about 2 months ago, well recantally he broke up with this girl who didnt like me and i had no clue who she was like i new her name but i had no clue who she was. well i like him again but see some of my friends tell me to just forget it and stop likeing him, but see i cant because hes always so nice and he messes with me and stuff and its so hard not to like him. and i want him to still mess with me but i just dont want to like him. or i want to like him but i just want him to like me back. do you have any advice on what i should do? (link)
just let your heart out ask him heart 2 heart if he does. If u r beautiful u r in control best of luck xxxx oh im 13/m


well here it goes. might be long.. well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year.. and i hve noticed now that i am losing alot of my friends over him :-/ bc it seems like he is all i ever have time for and the only person i am ever with. i miss all my friends alot and i dont kno what to do.. i love him alot and we hve been goin out alot.. but sometimes friends r more important but, i never get to spend any time with them... or as much as i would like.. seems like im not invited many places as i used to be and my friends jus dont hve much interest in me bc im jus the girl with a boyfriend thats no longer fun. i dont kno what to do bc i kno it would be hard to break it off.. but jus sometimes with him is jus not the best and it seems like everything i do makes him mad but i cant get mad at him. dont get me wrong we do hve some great times together but i think we might jus need to go our seperate ways but every other time i hve tried breakin up i ended up wantin him back soo bad! and i jus dont kno what to do.. please give me some help and maybe leave a sn so i can contact you

signed::
xox lover OR friends? (link)
well if he really luvs u he will understand just tell him


Do guyz like when girlz make the first move ? and what kind of move do they like when gurlz make it ?! does it turn them on wheneva a girl wants to wrestle? (link)
act like yourself dats da key answer 2 true luv




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