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"best friends"...
Sorry this is so long..but it's really hard to explain.
Okay, so i went out with this guy like 3 times in the last 2 years..and my best friend likes the guy..but she hasn't as long. We are now going out again and i love him soo much. But she still likes him and is ALWAYS following us around..i dont know if he likes her or not..he says he doesnt and always has said that..so maybe he doesnt..but he doesnt act like it. But today i really needed to talk to him alone and she insisted that you needed to go to (because she likes him) so i told her to just go away because it was getting annoying and now she's mad at me. But i have a feeling she's just using me to get to him anyways..and i dont know what to do..so i guess my question is: What do i do about her being mad and how do i get her to realize that he is MY boyfriend and she doesn't always need to follow us around..? I don't wanna seem like a bitch or anything..but it really is annoying. Thanks for any help!
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is it's annoying, then you cant be nice to her, and expect her to not be led on. i think you just need to tell her straight up, that he is yours, and remind her, that if she had a man- you wouldnt always be following her aroundall the time. let her know how it makes you feel, and if she still insists on following you around, then its time to be mean, it seems like this girl is just trying to not have him out of her sight- when really- she has no business followin y'all around. good luck!
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Well I have had this happen before and a lot of my friends. If she was your good best friend, then she would stand back and let you do your thing. But also she might just trieing to help you out. But you just need to talk to her, and listen to every word she says, and you can always tell by how people put their words. Also she might think that ya'll are going to break up again, because ya'll have been going off and on. Maybe she's waiting for her chance. But it's still your boyfriend. I think you should talk to both your boyfriend and your best friend and decide whether you want to give up your best friend, keep letting her hang around you, or lose your boyfriend. But only you can decide on what you truely think is right. Well, I give you good luck, and I know you'll make the right choice.
Best Wishes,
Amy
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well u need 2 have a talk bout it cos she cant ruin a relationship cos she loves him
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she should know this. best friends don't go after her best friends guy. If she doesn't know this politely explain that you two are going out and she has to stay out of the way.
you have every right to be mad and she doesn't.
I think she is using you, and think to yourself - what are you getting out of this friendship?
talk to her, talk to him, and you'll figure it out.
best of luck
~kooka
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