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why is life so complicated?
13/f him 13/m friend 12/f
ok here it goes...one of my best guy friends(nick) that i was really close with is now slipping away, my friend(kayla) likes him and thats cool and all, but my friends sister(sasha she is 15 almost 16) has been trying to get to know him better for my kayla's sake, and i think jack is falling for sasha! he doesn't say bye to me anymore, he barley talks to me and kayla anymore and he doesn't even notice our exisitence i think im getting of jealous of sasha having him all the time, but i guess what i really want to know is how can i get him back to the real world? i mean we really miss him and he is a great guy, and i WANT HIM AWAY FROM THAT BIOTCH SASHA! it makes me angry and sad at the same time! so what can i do to get my VERY close (boy)friend back?....i think ive fallen for him to...
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Between friends and mates. Yes. I know the feeling. Maybe Jack/Nick is having trouble relating you you and Kayla because you're his age, and are girls. Maybe he relates to Sasha better cause she has more knowledge then the average Joe Schmoe that's your age. Then again, maybe Jack/Nick is avoiding you and Kayla because he likes you (both) and can't talk to you cause he's nervous.
Tell Jack/Nick how you feel about how he's falling away from you. Maybe he'll realize what he's doing to your relationship.
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ok so this sorta happened to me. just talk to your guy friend and tell him how you feel. Just say that you feel that he is ignoring you. and see what he says. hope this helps! lyl
*Jess*
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is jack and nick the same guy? your question is really confusing.
Well just because he never says goodbye to you doesn't meen you can't say goodbye to him. Friends just don't 'slip away' if you don't want them too.
talk to jack/nick more often and try to hang out with him away from school more often. Hopefully Sasha is just a faze and you two will be come close again (or more if you like).
talk to him and tell him that you are upset that he is ignoring you. Don't point fingers and sasha though - it's just you him and kayla that you should be worried about right now.
in time things will sort it's self out, but not without help from you.
good luck and i hope things do turn out for the better.
~kooka
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