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depression
just got out of a bad relationship, verbally and sorta physically abused. known him all my life, devestated that hes ruining his life with drugs, going threw bad depression, being forced to see doctors... all the advice is the same from everyone, theres not much else i can do, was hoping to hear some different views... ?
-one sad girl
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i know how you feel, well sorta..and i know about hearing the same advice, but im going to give it a try anyway...i know how hard it must be to be in that kind of a relationship, but the good thing is that your out of it, as hard as it seems the best thing is that your out it, and hopefully you are ok, and its good that you care about him and his life, but if he abused you then he obviously doesnt care about you, and thats a hard thing to get over and seeing doctors can be annoying, and they are their to helpful, blah blah, but forget all that...just worry about yourself, your not happy, so work on it, and keep your head up high, and remember the people who surround themselves around you only do that because the care about you!! so just remember that! hope i helped, ask me anytime!
-JoElen <33
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Sorry to hear all this. i dont know whether this is the same advice as everyone else is giving you but, go to a doctor and he can give you some anti-depressents. They may work. hope your ok soon xxx
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well tell him its not da right path 2 go down 2 and even if it helps him 2 stop maybe if it comes 2 extreme go back 2 him and hav sex
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There's notting you can really do to help him. I think you should try to meet another guy. Keep on and dating until you can meet the one.
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I feel for you, but there really is nothing you can do for him. It sounds as though he is getting all the help he can. Here's the part that will hurt you the most. He will not be helped until he has reached his personal rock bottom. No matter how many doctors he sees or how great the rehab program, until he wants help, nothing can help him. You can't push the realization on him. He has to find it in himself. I'm sorry I can't give you something that will make you feel better.
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well. first you need to actually state the question, so we know what we are going after... now if you're asking about what to do,here. everyone says find the one you "click" with. "clicking" is a sense of friendship, not dating. if you truly care about this person, you should let them know. make sure they know that you aren't with them just because the drugs are ruining their life and you plan to help them, just let them know you really enjoy being there for them, you know? let them know you ARE a friend, if not a girlfriend at the least. let them know they have somebody to listen, and feel things that doctors can't ; compassion. see how well they work out on this. good luck, blessed be.
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Date and date some more. Dating is the process of getting to know someone on an intimate level. Some ppl you click with. Others you don't. Obviously this one was a non-clicker. Keep chuggin' along till you find one that does.
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