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Hmmm.... how to describe myself...I am a Wiccan teenager, I know how it feels to be a teenager and trying to convince my parents that being Wiccan doesn't make me a Satanist..lol I can answer just about all of your questions..I can analyze dreams also...so any questions... just tell me! I'll be glad to reply! blessed be!
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I just recently moved out of my house and into my uncles house and he is a hardcore Christian man and believes that anything not christian is "of the devil", I myself am a follower of the old pagan type religions and he kind of found out and alwayz makes little jabs at me for not believing in god and tells me im going to hell and i dont know how to deal with it..if i tell him that i dont believe in god, he might kick me out of his house....what should i do...pretend not to believe what i do or tell him to stop? (link)
Dear "of the devil" christian:
don't give up on your uncle! he just doesn't understand. I too am Wiccan, and FINALLY got my mom to accept it this year, and I've been following it's ways for almost 5 years. just tell him. break it to him gently, tell him exactly what you do and why. let him know wiccans/pagans do not worship the devil, of all things I know. ;) just discuss it with him. don't argue, just sit and have a friendly conversation. if a conversation is hard to have with your uncle, write him a note, therefor no interruptions when you want to say your side. also it prevents any yelling and fighting and hurtful things done/said. or maybe write him and email and have him respond. either way, just talk to him about it. bring him books and facts to prove to him what you believe in. you have every right to be whatever you want to be, your uncle should love you regardless. and let him know you feel this way. good luck and let me know how it goes!!! Blessed be!!


Lately I've been getting headaches and when I close my eyes trying to get them to go away, I see things. Like there's some kind of movie playing on my eyelids. I saw my friend failing her history test and it actually happened word for word. I tried to talk to my friend about it and she thought I was joking around. I'm really scared. I don't want to be a freak. The headaches keep coming and I keep seeing things and I want it to stop.

What should I do and does this happen to anybody else?

Freaked out Psychic? (link)
Dear Freaked Out Phsycic:
I know how that feels, just a few years past, I watched my friend's best friend be raped and killed. that happened seven years before the vision. she never mentioned her, but I mentioned her to her. all in all, it's not a bad thing to have these visions. yes they can be quite annoying at times, but they can help somebody, or at least someone who believes.try not to ignore these feelings and visions, you just might see something of great signifigance. blessed be!


Is it neccesary, in Witchcraft,or Wicca, To cast a cirlce even while doing a simple spell??Please answer, i need help. (link)
it is not necessary to cast a circle for simple spells, for they are simple.to cast a circle, you'd have to be calling the quarters or something.blessed be


im a witch and i m trying to be a christian, i just went to this teen revial {aquire the fire} and felt all on fire for God, and then i just played 'light as feather w/my coven. am i stupid for trying to do both? do i have to be one or another? can i be both? so confused.... (link)
Dear Wiccan-
I myself am wiccan, and I do the same thing. it is not my intention to be christian, I already am. It's okay to be both, but according to the Bible, it's not. But see the thing is, you're not a demon or anything for doing this, you're just human. Just do whatever you feel comfortable with. if it's christ, then christ. if not, then wicca. but if you like both the same, do both. do whateveryou feel is true to you and your heart. I'll be here for you. Good luck! and Blessed be!


i am the same person that wrote witch/devil with the thoughts in my head. well kately i have thought about it a lot and all that, well in class i kind of fell asleep and i was aware that i had my eyes closed and all that, anyway i had a weirdish dream and it was a dream that the devil was dragging this guy i have never seen before in my life under the bed and killed him. this woke me right up but i hnever had a dream like that and now all i can think about is that dream and that guy i didn't even know and the fact that i might be a satanist what should i think about instead of this? (link)
see what your dream is, is inner demons. you feel that you don't know yourself and that these "devils" dragging him under the bed, you feel you are overwhelmed. Bed- overwhelmed feeling, unknown boy- sign you dont know yourself, devil- everything about the satanic veiwpoint of yours. just break down everything in your dream, to you, and tell me if it complies.


just got out of a bad relationship, verbally and sorta physically abused. known him all my life, devestated that hes ruining his life with drugs, going threw bad depression, being forced to see doctors... all the advice is the same from everyone, theres not much else i can do, was hoping to hear some different views... ?
-one sad girl (link)
well. first you need to actually state the question, so we know what we are going after... now if you're asking about what to do,here. everyone says find the one you "click" with. "clicking" is a sense of friendship, not dating. if you truly care about this person, you should let them know. make sure they know that you aren't with them just because the drugs are ruining their life and you plan to help them, just let them know you really enjoy being there for them, you know? let them know you ARE a friend, if not a girlfriend at the least. let them know they have somebody to listen, and feel things that doctors can't ; compassion. see how well they work out on this. good luck, blessed be.


Well my boyfriend of six months just broke up with me and we both are totally in love with each other and always have been but this isn't the first time we've broken up. Though the reason we have broken up is because we have both been really hurt in the past and are really scraed to let any one get close to use even though we are really already close to each other. I know I want to go back out with him but how do I tell him that I want to go back out with him but can't break up again because of him being scared to let me get close. I mean this time it really tore me up I haven't got any sleep and been crying all week. Plus the thing is we are already both superclose to each other. I rate high please help!! (link)
Dear No words to say--
honey this is what you should do, just calmly talk to him about it. let him know you are still in love with him! you two shouldn't let the past get to you, it's done, it's overwith, get over it right? I went through the same thing you did at one point in time, all you need to do, is have patients and be understanding to one another you both realize you've been hurt....a lot... why not try anew?? that's ALL reason to do that! just ask if you can start over, or if he prefers, pick up where you left off. let the other person know you are completely faithful to them. that's what I did. Good Luck!!




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