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Question Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 9:31 pm

my bf of 2 months swears he's in love with me and that he's never felt this way about anyone else before. he totally treats me like a princess and couldnt be more perfect for me.

ok now, he's not like a 'ladies man' or anything cuz hes not like one of those guys all the girls cling to & wanna date but most of his friends are girls. he swears i mean more than anything to him & that he could never find another girl like me but although hes 'in love' with me im soo scared that hes gonna start to like another girl and its killin me!!! i have a hard time trustin guys and he knows that but he gained my trust over the summer now he hasnt done anything to lose it, im just worried!

lately hes been waitin later to call me [he usually calls about 11:15-11:30ish right after he gets home from work and for awhile used to call me at work] but now he waits till like 12:30ish.. or just sometime late. also, he doesnt seem to be sayin all the sweet things you used to say. he does every now and then, but he used to do it like everydayyy. then last nite i was on the phone with him and he said 'who are you talkin to? _(my name)_ or _(another girl's name)_?' he never talks on the phone to anyone except me soo im worried hes startin callin another girl. i asked him what his bro said and 1st he said he didnt kno he wasnt payin attention but then he changed that name to a guys name when i coulda swore his bro said a girls name. also on AIM & stuff he wont say much anymore and he used to leave me comments on myspace all the time but he hasnt done that lately.

i mean he knows i love him to death but im not clingy or anything hes even said so so i cant be pushin him away!!

im jus scared im losin him.. does this sound like it & what are some other signs he may be driftin away from me and/or likin someone else too?

btw im turnin 16 this month, hes 16 turnin 17 in feb. and we go to diff schools.

sry so long but thx!



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Additional info, added Wednesday September 13 2006, 9:40 pm:
corrections:: then last nite i was on the phone with him and >HIS BROTHER [sry my mistake]< said 'who are you talkin to? _(my name)_ or _(another girl's name)_?'.

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iluvmegan answered Thursday September 14 2006, 1:26 pm:
You need to have trust in your boyfriend if he is someone who does not lie then i would trust him

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sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday September 14 2006, 12:32 pm:
Talk to him about it and tell him everything that you are thinking or feeling. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't accuse him of anything, because you don't have any proof. If you talk to him about it, it may clear some things up. A lot of the time, once you've been in a relationship for awhile the romance will start to die down. The things you described sound a lot like that to me, but you need to be sure. Talking and honesty can solve a lot of problems. Good luck. :)

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