hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs. old and this guy that i've been really good friends with since i was 11 has been flirting with me and we did some stuff the other day. I don't regret it at all i mean it wasnt that bad but my friend has asked him if he likes me and he said he thinks i'm really hot but we've been friends too long. I can't let this go though because i dont have many guys liking me and he has never cheated on anybody and he would be the perfect boyfriend. He's really hot and i like him so much. My problem is that we've decided to just be friends more than once before but we always get together and flirt and do stuff and this happens all over again what should i do?
Casey answered Saturday April 23 2005, 8:22 pm: I have the same issue.If you both want to break your old promises,go for him girl!claim your man and don't let him go! Casey out! [ Casey's advice column | Ask Casey A Question ]
Brittany0807 answered Friday April 22 2005, 9:32 pm: Tell him how you feel If he just wants to be friends then tell him not to flirt with you like he does, because it will make you want him even more. He should understand and soon you'll move on. If he wants to be more than friends then go for it! [ Brittany0807's advice column | Ask Brittany0807 A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Thursday April 21 2005, 8:24 pm: Your head thinks you two should be friends, but your heart wants something more. For the both of you! It is clear that you guys like each other more than friends. Tell him that! Good luck!
Me_Help_You answered Thursday April 21 2005, 7:28 pm: Hey.
Well, if you and this boy are SO close friends, you should take it step by step! If you JUST wanted to be friends, then you would. But if you two just keep hanging out and flirting, then TAKE IT UP ANOTHER STEP!
-Holly Marie Combs [ Me_Help_You's advice column | Ask Me_Help_You A Question ]
soccerchic24 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 7:24 pm: Dear emotionally confused,
Well, you could just talk to him. Say "Listen here! If we make a relationship again,your gonna promise not to break my heart again!" And if he does, dump him! Never be his gf again if all he does is break your heat! Hope I helped!
gomesy1189 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 7:16 pm: You should defiantly talk to this guy. If you guys are so close of friends and you guys ave these feelings than the next step on coud think of is going out. If you guys really like eachother that you should try... and if it doenst work and if you guys have such a strong bond than ur friendship will never end... it happen to me.... hope i helped [ gomesy1189's advice column | Ask gomesy1189 A Question ]
blondie4ever answered Thursday April 21 2005, 6:59 pm: I would tell him that you really don't wanna do stuff with him if your not dating because your going to like him more and more like that and he really doesn't want a relationship so you don't think that you two should flirt anymore.
-shuree [ blondie4ever's advice column | Ask blondie4ever A Question ]
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