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ok well last night i went somewhere and after, i went to this guys house.. we were alone and stuff and we did some sexual stuff... but like i mean i have a boyfriend... and i totally hate myself for doing this to him... i dont want to tell him, but what if someone finds out and tells him...help? (link)
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I've been in the same situation. I did some stuff with another guy while I had a boyfriend. i felt so guilty so I had to tell him about it and he didn't break up with me and everything is great now. You need to talk to him about it. Just sit him down and say that you need to talk. Tell him exactly what happened and why and how you feel. Try to work something out and I hope it goes alright. Good luck!
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hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs. old and this guy that i've been really good friends with since i was 11 has been flirting with me and we did some stuff the other day. I don't regret it at all i mean it wasnt that bad but my friend has asked him if he likes me and he said he thinks i'm really hot but we've been friends too long. I can't let this go though because i dont have many guys liking me and he has never cheated on anybody and he would be the perfect boyfriend. He's really hot and i like him so much. My problem is that we've decided to just be friends more than once before but we always get together and flirt and do stuff and this happens all over again what should i do?
Luv,
~Very Emotionally Confused~ (link)
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Tell him how you feel If he just wants to be friends then tell him not to flirt with you like he does, because it will make you want him even more. He should understand and soon you'll move on. If he wants to be more than friends then go for it!
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ok here the thing. i like this one girl. i've heard she likes me too but i'm not sure.and we haven't talked in about a year. (we've went out before)wat do i do?
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Call her up or talk to her when you see her. Start off slow and if you want to be more than friends then talk to her about that and see what happens. Hey, what do you have to lose?
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Well I really really like this guy Kyle he's 2 years older then me and we talk alot I've just never hung out with him in person. I try hinting to him that we should go somewhere. I want to just come out and ask him but now I have a small not huge problem but it's still there, there's this other guy scott and he started to like me he's a year older and I'd never really talked to him or anything but now we hang out alot and I have SO much fun with him he won't make a move or anything bcuz he knows I like Kyle.But Scott I must say is growing on me. He's really jelous though. I know I sound all broken hearted about it I just know I'll make the wrong dessicion and regret it. Any ideas? (link)
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Who do you like more? Who do like to be around more? Who do you have more fun with? Who treats you better? If you think about it very seriously you won't make the wrong decision. I've been in the same situation and I'm perfectly happy with who I chose. When your with both of them think about those questions. Take your time and when you make your decision talk to them both. Hope it works out. Good luck!
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ok, everybody has a different deffintion of love, and i want to know what you think about it. it can be serious, or just goofy. i dont care, but i wanna know that you all think of it. and do you believe in love at first site?? thnx (link)
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I think love is when two people can share anything with each other. Love is when you trust each other and care about each other.When your with that someone you get this great feeling and you never want that feeling to go away. You think about that person a lot and your honest about your feelings when your in love. Love is everlasting.
I believe in love at first singht. Anything is possible!
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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13? (link)
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Yeah it's definently possible to be in love when your 13. I'm 13 and I really love my boyfriend. I feel about how you feel but his mom let's him date me. Sorry his mom won't let him go out with you. But just give it time and if it's meant to be then it will happen. Good luck!
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ok..i really screwed up, i know. heres my story. my BEST friend was going out with this guy for like 4 months, then they broke up for no particular reason, just that it wasnt really working out. but i became sort of friends with him while they were together. all my other friends said during the time they were together that the way he looked at me was as if he liked me and all that. i took no notice because i didnt want my to hurt my friend. once they broke up... and about 2 months later he called me and asked me if he could come over. i said yes. we rented some movies and watched them. then we started fooling around and one thing led to another and we were all over each other and making out! we didnt have sex though. he left and i felt enormous amounts of guilt because i promised myself and my best friend that nothing would ever happen between me and him. i didnt want to tell her but i figured she had a right to know. i asked other people about what to do and almost all of them said that i should tell her. so 4 days later i did. she didnt take it so well. she hasnt talked to me since. she has sent me messages of abuse, turned my other friends against me, wont talk to me about it. i say to her that i will talk when shes ready to talk- she says shes not ready yet..then sends me messages saying that i am avoiding her- i am just giving her the space she needs or wants rather. all i am asking is what should the next step that i take be?? should i confront her to her face and tell her that we are talking about this now whether you like it or not...or just leave it!!?? Please help me! i am really stuck. (link)
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You need to talk to her as soon as possible. I've been in a similar situation. My ex broke up with me and then I found out from a guy friend that my ex and my best friend had been going out since the very next day he broke up with me. It hurt sooooo bad and I felt so awful. But we talked about it and everything is great. So think about how she feels and tell her exactly how you feel about it. Then all three of you should talk and try to work something out.
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I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends? (link)
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Make an effort to make friends. The only way to make a friend is to be a friend!
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14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx. (link)
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Apparently your guy is really shy. Maybe he is just nervous and doesn't know what to say. Just give it time and he'll start to show he likes you. And maybe you won't be the one calling. If he does'nt change any, talk to him about it. But for now just be patient.
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ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do.. (link)
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If he treats you like that then he obviously does'nt care about you and he's not a very good boyfriend. Even though you really like this guy you should break up with him because if you keep going on like this you will get more attached and it will be even worse on you. If you need to cry then cry, and move on. Im sure you'll get over him soon. You'll find that special someone sooner or later. Just give it time.
sincerely,
Brittany0807
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