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my shy boyfriend
14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx.
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I think maybe you should ask him to start calling you instead of you always calling him.
Casey out!
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hey it's 2005 a girl can do anything that a guy can do, as long as you're not calling him a million times throught the day i don't see what the big deal is. once a day isn't a crime, unless he tells you not to call then you're fine
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I think if you ask is it okay for me to call? And he says yes, then it's okay to call. So long as you aren't calling 20 times a day and driving him nuts, I see no problem with it. :)
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It's not wrong for the girl to call everytime. Whoever said guys have to call was sexist. You're not being pushy, just outgoing and independent with guys. You should just talk to him about it. Later. :)
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I hate when you are on the phone and the guy isn't like talking at all! Just make him more comfortable. Don't talk his ear off. Ask him questions. Don't be too pushy with calling him. Tell him to call you once in a while. He will get more comfortable with you as time goes on!
-Brianna
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He's not scared of you or anything like that, he's probably just a little shy. Is he the same age as you? When guys are younger, they're really shy around girls that they like. It's not wrong for the girl to call her boyfriend everytime. Maybe once in a while he could call you. Maybe he would feel more comfortable talking to you in person. But, believe me. Once he gets to know you and you guys start talking a lot, he'll get out of his shyness and will feel more comfortable around you. You just have to give him sometime, but he'll come around.
♥ Krissy
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Well hun, he did say yes to going out with you so that is a good sign that he does like you. Maybe he is just nervious, or shy. Give him some time, keep talking a lot and ask him questions or talk about topics that get him talking too. Good luck.
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I think that he probably likes it when you call, everyone gets shy about calling a girlfriend/boyfriend a lot. So, I guess lots suffer from 'phone-phobia'. But, maybe you could have him alone, and say, "hey, I really like you, but sometimes I'm not sure how much you like me, could you tell me, I really want to know, I won't laugh because I know you get shy, but as long as I know you like me." Its only over a month, so it takes lots of time to communicate your feelings well. But, keep calling him, don't hesistate thinking you're just bugging him, I think guts really like it when they get calls from girls a lot.
-TheTeenGirl
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I think he is nervous and maybe a little scared because he's not sure whether you really like him. No problem calling him every once in a while but ask him to call you sometimes too.
Hope I helped!
Ke
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Apparently your guy is really shy. Maybe he is just nervous and doesn't know what to say. Just give it time and he'll start to show he likes you. And maybe you won't be the one calling. If he does'nt change any, talk to him about it. But for now just be patient.
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