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Friend who likes the guy you Love
My friend Bethany likes the guy that I'm absolutley head over heels in love with..I cant keep my mind off the kid and I just Love him.. Should I get with him? or should I just try to forget him?
Please I need help
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I think u should get with him, i know this may seem tight on your friend but she hasnt made a move on him so get in there first girl!!!!
luv shelly
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Whoever gets him first! Nobody has him yet so he's fair game. If you like him, go for it. :)
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Well as a guy who has been on both sides of this situation (being the one liked and liking someone else) I think its something you should think about very carefully. I think that before you "make your move" you should talk with Bethany. You don't want to lose a friend over a guy, no matter how much you like him now. However, it’s not fair to you that just because your friend likes him that you should have to ignore your feelings. Talk with Bethany about it and hopefully you both will be able to be mature enough to pursue this guy (if you both choose to) and not let it ruin your friendship. Before you "make your move" it’s a good idea to become better friends with this guy and instead of planning a "move". You may find that you and this guy may become more then friends on your own without any pre-planning. Good luck! Keep me posted on how everything turns out.
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I think that if she isn't going to make the move u should defintely! Hope i helped!
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Go for him, just explain to her how much you like him. It seems like you like him more than she does! He is single, so go for him!
-Brianna
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If your friend knows that you really love this kid, she should be the one to back off of him, because you did like this guy frist. If she ever trys to go out with him or date him, that just goes to show that she isn't a true friend. True friends aren't suppose to go for the guys their friends love/like. I think you should explain to your friend just how much you like the guy, and if she ever got with him, you'd be totally crushed. Maybe you could try getting with him. Start talking to him more. Get his phone number; call him. Get his e-mail address or screen name; talk to him there. This way, you'll get to know eachother a little more, and maybe you could hint to him that you have a huge crush on him. You could also just go for it and ask him to the movies or to hangout somewhere. Either way, go for the boy. You never know, things could work out perfectly and he could be the best boyfriend ever. And if you don't take a chance, you could be missing out on something really amazing.
♥ Krissy
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