ok theres this boy lets just call him johnny. well lately me and johnny have been talking and its like a friendship thing but lately as i have been talking to him i ve begun to like him as more than a friend but theres a problem earlier this month he had a crush on my cousin and see my cousin doesnt like him shes in a relationship and has been for 2 yrs. but johnny hints that he still likes her and i dont know if i could compete with her or if it would be alright for me to go out with him after him and my cousin have had some "history"
Can someone help me please!!
XoxBroKeNxoX answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:39 pm: i dont really think its a good idea, and if you guys end up hookin up, he might be using you to get to your cousin, and it hurts when you realize that. save yourself the pain for now and just continue the friendship, and if you guys get serious and then it fails, il ruin the relationship between you and him, so just dont change anything for now, and accept that it might not work, it might help you to stop liking him. i confused myself, so dont fret if you get confused too. oh well! Good luck sweetie! [ XoxBroKeNxoX's advice column | Ask XoxBroKeNxoX A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:03 pm: As long as they don't like each other anymore. Ask him if he still does like her. He probably likes you now, instead of her!
MummuM answered Thursday April 21 2005, 9:18 pm: It's totally alright to go for this boy. Your cousin is in a relationship for two years now, I don't think anything would happen between her and this boy. I also think they don't have any type of "history". History would be them having a relationship and memories from that, which they did not have a relationship, so they don't have any history together. You should go for this boy, you never know what may happen. Hint to him that you're crushing on him. Maybe he feels the same way.
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just_ask_me answered Thursday April 21 2005, 9:12 pm: I think it would be fine for you to go out with him. They don't have any 'history' it seems because she never even liked him back & she's in a relationship. I don't see any problem! I would go for it hun, cause you never know what could happen ;] hope it all works out xo [ just_ask_me's advice column | Ask just_ask_me A Question ]
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