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boyfriend problems
ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do..
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start with a talk, if you care about him then i wouldn't jump right to breaking up with him, talk to him and let him know that some of the things that he does hurts your feelings and that you really want to know if he cares about youthe way that you care about him. and if he doesn't change what he's doing then it may be time to move on to someone else
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Dump his ass.
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Ask him to be friends with benifits. Or start acting this way towards him. If he sees how he's treating you, he might act better to you.
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kate!!!!1
ITS KELSEY!!
hey yah, i think that you two should *break* or he needs to change!!
oh, and ashley too- shes right --->there!
yay!! okay well we will see you soon!!
WE LOVE YOU KATE!!!!!!!
ASHLEY AND KELSEY
oh , and you were so hyper last night, LoL!
:)
thanks
and oh, please rate me/us a 5!
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i would say deff. break up with him. but not yet.. haha. well first talk to him in person. just take him to the side or sumthing and tell him how you feel. just say that you noticed that he doesnt seem to care about you and he is really being mean and hurting your feelings when he says he doesnt weant to hang out with you or to break up with him or w/e he says. and if you see no improvement than i would say the next step would be to break up with him. but dont just say were over or w/e tell him what he did wrong so he knows what he needs to work on to be a better b/f in the future and tell him that if he changes maybe you two can get back together sometime. hope i helped <33
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If he treats you like that then he obviously does'nt care about you and he's not a very good boyfriend. Even though you really like this guy you should break up with him because if you keep going on like this you will get more attached and it will be even worse on you. If you need to cry then cry, and move on. Im sure you'll get over him soon. You'll find that special someone sooner or later. Just give it time.
sincerely,
Brittany0807
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Hey, good you realize that he is a douche bag! If he is like that to you, he is not worth your time. You deserve much better. I say dump him, but first talk to him about it, and if he doesn't change DUMP HIM! Good luck!
-Brianna
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be an asshole towards him. the only way you can fight fire is with fire. and if you break up with him, you wont regret it because you had a reason and it would be a learning experience. and if your guy friend has said that your boyfriend doesnt care about you, your guy friend might care about you more than you think...as in more than a friend. i can't tell you what to do or what decision to make, but if fighting fire with fire doesnt work, i say dump him.good luck!
XOXO ~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~ XOXO
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Next time he acts like a dick. Say
"air soft is for pussies who dont like pain" WHen hes baffled then say " paintball is a mans sport"
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i think you need to have a serious talk with him and tell him he needs to change or else its over with. Say you want a boyfriend that will treat you right, and if he loves you then he would be nice to you no matter who yall are in front of. And if he doesnt change in a week or so, the best thing to do is dump him. I know it will be hard, but if he doesnt change .. why would you wanna stay with that? I know there is another guy out there that will treat you right.
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Well you need to sit down with him and come up front and ask him " Are you going to change the way you talk to me and treat me? Becuase i really dont like it and its disrespectful." If he says no, then kick him to the curb (with style).
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hey
it seems like this guy is a real jerk. theres plenty of other guys out there that will treat you right. it seems like your current boyfriend is just putting you down. so he has control over something. this control would be your feelings. im sure you will have some regrets about dumping him. but nothing is going to change if you cling onto a guy like that.
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i love u! break up with him! he is soo stupid, and i wish i could say more about him, but this thing wont let me say anythin bad. but we will vent later. I LOVE U! and u deserve much better. love ashley
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