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My name is Tierney Olafson and, I would like to run for ASB treasurer. I want to be on ASB because I think I could benefit the school and the students. At treasurer I would keep up on the budget that we have for our school. I take money to be a serious thing and not something to mess around with and not take care of. I will focus on school and my priorities not only just keeping up my grades but being the best treasurer that I can be. This is my first year as being part of ASB but it has always been something that I have always wanted to do.



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amazing!

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why is it so hard to tell if a girl like you. Bluebabe what are thing girls do to a guy they like.and how am i supposed to know if she is just messing with me.please i dont want to MAKE A JACKASS OF MYSELF IF I DON'T HAVE TOO.

Girls are mysterious creatures, most guys just won't ever understand. First of all most girls are flirts so the distinction between like and friends are pretty sketchy. I don't know this girl so I can only tell you so much. I'm sorry I can't be more help, you are going to take a chance! I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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i like this girl and i have no idea if the chick likes me. honestly i have no idea how she feels about me and she gives out a lot of mixed signals. she is part of our group at school and we also do after school stuff so i am afraid to ask her out on a count of making things akward. right now i am hoping that she doesnt like this other guy. i think i am going to do it but i am looking for a little reassurance.

Ask her how she feels about the other guy, casually of course. Try not to make it obvious. If you choose not to ask her if she likes this other guy, make asking her out 'bad a**' make her yours! All you have to do is have confidence, trust me confidence is sooo hot!If you act like its nothing it will be nothing, so it WON'T be awkward. It will only be weird if you make it that way. I hope this helps, you can do this!!! Good Luck!

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Well, I have a bf, but I also have huge crush on my closest guy friend, lets call him Alex. You see, I hadn't seen my bf in days or talked to him. But I decided to go over to Alex's house to do homework and study because we had a test and homework due the next day. Well after we got done we looked at our yearbook and he pointed out his gf and it was really fun, but then we watched a horror movie, and I hate horror movies. Well during the movie, I started cuddling up with Alex. He put his arm around me and we kindve started to make-out. He said he loved me and that he also loves his gf. Well im afraid my bf is going to figure out what happened and get pissed off and kick Alex's ass. Well anyways, what should I do.
P.S. srry if this is a bit long

I think the quick fix is choose who you want to be w/. Decide which you are willing to chase after. Then if you are still thinking about the other guy it wasn't meant to be. To keep your bf from finding out tell 'Alex' that your not ready do make any choices, or that you love him as a friend but nothing more and make sure it is thought of as an accident not a mistake, because that could upset him and 'tattle'. Well I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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okay so the band HIM.
how do you say it?
is it like all one word like him
or is it each letter?
thanks!

you say it like the word him. Hope this helps.

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I was wondering how to go about asking a girl out if you don't know how she feel about you. i also dont know if she likes some other guy.she kind of giving me mixed signals. and this would make thing complicated as we also do extra circular activities together after school. i really really don't wanna make things complicated.i realy don't wanna ruin our freindship. what do you think i should do. i really like her and i don't even know if she knows it.

This has happened to me on the other foot before many times, and I'm still surprised every time it happens. Plenty of people mistake being friendly as flirting. All I can say is: it is a total risk and you never know the outcome. If you are going to take the risk and ask her out you have a few options;

GO big! The extra push might woo or persuade her so you have a higher chance of a 'yes'. Get flowers (not necessary) do it during an event that you are both at, it will make it mean more to her. However, the hurt will be greater if she says 'no' because you did go all out.

go small... this involves less risk but is not as affective. Just straight out ask her out.

Doing it face to face is always best.
Well I hope this helps. -seriously- Good Luck!

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when you masterbate can you get pregant off of it and what happens when you on your period and you masterbate at the same time.

No, you can not get pregnant off of masturbating! Unless you have a girl and a guys piece. It makes no difference if you are on or off the rag. I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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What does it mean if a guy SAYS he likes you and flirts with you and stuff but constantly teases you and basically makes no effort to continue the relationship further?

14/f. =]

It means that he is really immature and he has no idea what he is doing. Some guys aren't great leaders and you have to make the moves. It can get very tricky. I would not make him jealous though many girls go for this routine and it is a "no no"
this will make him back out even more. I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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so this guy wants to watch me pleasure myself!! i know how stupid!! but he wants it pretty bad.. but anyways.. i don't do it on my own time.. actually i've never done it.. and i really don't know if i want to do it.. espeically while hes watching!! how werid would that be!!?? lol.. so help! what else could we do that would be better then that!! please get me out of the situation!! help!!! thanks!! :)

That kid sounds like a total creeper! I would consider breaking whatever you have w/ him off! That is completely weird!!! Oh and tell him its creepy so he knows why. I hope that helps. Good Luck!

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need to ask this girl out, but i dont know what to ask her out to do. i would like to have her with a few of my friends or somthing, that way we are both mroe comfortable, but that is not needed. No car or money really. not much to do (hence, bring friends). so advicenators, what do i ask this girl to do, "hey, you wanna come and do nothign at my friends house for a few hours fri night?" please, respond, it would be great

If you have no money go to a park and hang out w/ friends or you can have a friend have a movie night get some popcorn and good movies and chill. I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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okay. so i know this guy since this summer and i really really like him. im 14 & hes 16. do you think he could like me even though hes two years older ? whenever im with him he flirts with me alot & we get along amazingly. we have so much in common and yeah i like him. =]
uhm & then theres another problem, he has a girlfriend. they've been going out for probably almost 2 and a half years. whenever shes around & im around too, he doesnt act the same to me. i mean he talks to me but he doesn't act normal if you know what i mean. then basically the second shes gone hes flirting with me and it seems like he likes me. but he has a girlfriend lol. they're so different so it confuses me why they've been together for so long. they fight alot & it just seems like they get on eachothers nerves. personally i think their going to break up sooner or later. lol. ah. so yea please help=] hah. thanks.

Personally I can't stand girls who flirt w/ guys that are in a relationship nothing against you personally! However, girls can totally go out w/ older guys I think the limit is 4 yrs. though, but you two are at a good distance. Obviously this guy likes you or he flirts w/ you because he is either just in it for you to give him confidence and attention which everyone wants. This is sad, but the truth is guys are dogs and they have fleas. I hope this helps. Good Luck!

Maybe if you hold on something good will come out of it?!

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okay i can help people with there problems but i cant solve my own....i am 16 years old female and i have an 18 year old boyfriend...the other day he broke up with me and said i was talking to guys on the internet...then a few hours later after i said i wasnt he comes back to my house and says okay i believe you...should i take him back or what???
signed
confusedmyself

NO, you shouldn't take him back guys are dogs and it sounds like he wants you back, not genuinely , but for the attention! If you were just talking to guys on the internet he either overreacted or was looking for an excuse to break up w/ you. Well I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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ok so im dating my best friend she asked me out yesterday and ok well its nothing serious and its not public. im middle school most people are not ok with gay people yet so yea. the thing is i only said yes to her because well every guy shes ever liked has rejected her and i kinda felt bad. i dunno if she really likes me. she said she doesnt and that she just wants to make sure she is bi by dating a girl. okay but ive never had a girlfriend or boyfriend before and this is all new to me. somehow it doesnt feel right and i dont wanna end up hurting her. its the last thing i wanna do. maybe she does like me but is just covering it up so i dont wanna break up with her. ugh and well i just got over a guy friend - my other best friend- and he and i flirt around a lot, so she might get jealous? i dunno please someone anything works. im just so confused at this point. ahhh thanks.

You are so right to be confused and you should break it off w/ her if neither of you like each other. If she is really your friend just explain how you feel and be nice about it. Act like its not that big of a deal and it won't be. I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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15/m
I really want tattoos..and through the last couple of years i got three tattoo designs that mean so much to me. I don't think i will regret them, but other people have started saying..you'll change so much, you won't like this..Anyway..on my left forearm..i want the word "imagine" written in OldEnglish font style thing. On my lower back i want the words Carpe Diem tattooed (latin for seize the day) and i want 4 stars tattooed (dif. sizes) on the back of my right shoulder (i can't think of a better place..can you?).
All these tattoos mean so much to me..they are really personal..should i accept that most people will never understand why i want them and get them done anyway?
What do you think? do they sound utterly stupid..or meaningful..any opinion counts
thanks.

Your tattoos seem really sick, but you WILL have them for life. If they really are that meaningful I believe you won't regret it. Well I hope that helps. Good Luck!

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im in 8th grade right now, but next year ill be in highschool, and i was just wondering how big of a deal is it, to have sex? like its already starting to happen this year. and i keep getting offers, but im kinda like against it. would i be made fun of if i dont?

This is a good question! Girls are extremely pressured to have sex and most lose their virginity by their sophomore year. I lost mine my freshmen year and I regret it more than anything! People lost their respect for me, guys weren't as interested because the chase was over. I believe the longer you keep it the better! When you keep it until you find someone you love it makes it amazing because you have nothing to compare it to and if you end up with the greatest guy and you've lost yours to someone else you will think about the other guy. Be proud you are a virgin it is better than being a slut! PLUS sex is better for a guy than a girl usually it is so overrated!!! Well I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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Can Jump Roping help you with being able to run longer? And is this a good excercise?

Of course! You are building up the muscle in your legs and it is so good for you! Jump roping gets your heart pumping so you can get more air into your blood stream faster! Well I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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i was walking up the stairs today with some of my guy friends when one was like, "melissa(me) bryan's looking at your butt". guys say that stuff alot but for some reason this time i just got tongue-tied. do you think he was? what can i say back to that kind of stuff when guys say it to me? like what is something i can say jokingly? and any other input?

Oh I've got a good one just ask "hey so do you like what you see?" Then you are no longer on the spot it is him and you can just say you were kidding. Well I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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hey theree. :]

does anyone know anything i could do to make my thighs look thinner? i'm not fat but theres just that little like jiggle when i walk kind of and i want my thighs to be slimmer. working out and running just builds muscle and i do not want my legs to be muscly cause that won't change the size .. it just makes them harder. ive tried eating less.. but that just made my top half sooo skinny and i look pretty unproportioned right now. i need like exersices or ANYYTHING to make them smaller without adding mass from muscle. thanks in advancee!

This may sound retarded but it worked for me.... try doing squats. They usually do the trick even if your not using weights. However your leg will burn! Well I hope that helps. Good Luck!

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a couple months ago i was at one of my best friend's place, right? and i used to go out with her cousin. and he lives with her. now i haven't gone out with him since dec. and i still kinda liked him alot . we ended up making out, and he fingered me. [[actually fingered then made out, i always do this stuff backwards, cause that was my first kiss]] and he asked me if i wanted to do anything and i said no, and he was respectful of that, but the next time i talked to him on AIM he called me stupid and a slut. and he took me off his top friends [[with Tom on his top friends, the stupid creator of myspace!]] and i'm over him, but did this make me a slut? and what should i think of this?

13[[almost 14, yay!]]/f

I would consider holding out before you get to doing stuff like that, but thats just me. You may have provoked him but unless you literally asked for it he was the one fingering you it's not like it was the other way around? Well I hope this helps!Try just kissing and getting to know a guy before you do things like that.

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me and my guy friend are rele tight so when my aunt was murdered i went to his house and cried literally on his shoulder. so any way emotions got really heavy and i ended up kisin him and i left embrassed and he has a gf so he told her because he is such a good person and she told every one eles they a re having problems now becuz of this and now im known as the "homewrecker" it sux cuz i just experienced a great loss
what should i do

This isn't your fault you were vulnerable and got mixed up! You should just go to his girlfriend and confront her by explaining that there is nothing between you and you were just in a bad place. If you don't want to explain the aunt thing because you are too fragile just say you are dealing w/ serious family issues. I hope this helps. Good Luck!

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