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ummmm,stuck between two guys.
Well, I have a bf, but I also have huge crush on my closest guy friend, lets call him Alex. You see, I hadn't seen my bf in days or talked to him. But I decided to go over to Alex's house to do homework and study because we had a test and homework due the next day. Well after we got done we looked at our yearbook and he pointed out his gf and it was really fun, but then we watched a horror movie, and I hate horror movies. Well during the movie, I started cuddling up with Alex. He put his arm around me and we kindve started to make-out. He said he loved me and that he also loves his gf. Well im afraid my bf is going to figure out what happened and get pissed off and kick Alex's ass. Well anyways, what should I do.
P.S. srry if this is a bit long
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omg i was just in this situation !
well i think you should just talk to alex and say so like what happened with us the other day ?
and then say what about your gf ?
and then if you love your bf telll him ONLY if you want to but im pretty sure if he were watching a movie with a girl he would do the same so i would keep it to myself
ahaha
thats just me
but im pretty sure that you should leave it in the past since you cant change it and plus ur young
LIVE a LITTLE
AHAHA
hope i helpedd
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Well, in my opinion the perfect guy would be someone you feel atracted to (obviously alex
you feel attracted to also) and you could be
like best buds with and talk about anything
with. It sounds like this alex guy is a good
catch but you also have your boyfriend and
so does he ( well girlfriend ) First thing you
have to do is def. figure out who you like better. I would see which one you feel more comfortable with. Then if its alex you have
to come up to him straight and say that you
want to be with him so if he does too then
you should get together. if it's still your
boyfriend then you should probably tell him
what you did unless you want to feel guilty
about it for a long time and + he will probably
find out if alex tells him or anyone else. this
sounds like a sticky situation and i hope everything goes well =)
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I think the quick fix is choose who you want to be w/. Decide which you are willing to chase after. Then if you are still thinking about the other guy it wasn't meant to be. To keep your bf from finding out tell 'Alex' that your not ready do make any choices, or that you love him as a friend but nothing more and make sure it is thought of as an accident not a mistake, because that could upset him and 'tattle'. Well I hope this helps. Good Luck!
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thats really hard but you should seriously try talking to your boyfriend alex i know that is scary but you should before it gets worse, if you have any doubts like this while your in a relationship... like for example having feelings for other guys like you do like that.. it meens your confused and you really must not have full feelings for your boyfriend that you thought you did.. I think that you might need a break from your boyfriend to clear yourself up and try to figure out what you want.. or else your going to hurt him really bad...
hope we helped,
stephandjess
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