okay so i really like this guy and everyone thinks that he likes me. And i am not really sure but it does seem like it sometimes. Like if i act like i like him or call him he is okay but he kind of acts like whatever. And then the next day i will hardly say anything to him and he will be all over me like hugging me and throwing food at me and stuff. And i knoe the saying 'all guys want what they cant have' but i really dont get it. What can i do to make this guy like me always???he tells people he doesnt want a gf so does that mean he is one of those "player"types?? please help!
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Additional info, added Friday May 18 2007, 5:53 pm: btw, my friends asked if he liked me and he said that he didnt know and maybe. IS THAT CLOSER TO YES OR NO. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cheney232 answered Monday May 21 2007, 4:51 pm: it dosnt mean that he is a player, it could just mean that he wants to date and mingle and have fun i mean alot of guys do that in fact alot of people in general do that it could just be because they are afriad of getting in a relationship or comittment! he probably dosnt flirt with you the days you flirt with him becuase he wants you to realize he wants to make the first move, and that hes man enough to do it!
well the best thing to do is, dont listen to what your friends are saying rather its true or not, cause you will only know if you personally ask him or get him to let you know some how. maybe he dosnt want people in your buisness ask him you might be suprised [ cheney232's advice column | Ask cheney232 A Question ]
xgracee8P answered Friday May 18 2007, 7:24 pm: yeah i totally get this guy. it seems like he likes flirting better than he likes commitment which is normal. He gets turned off when you seem like you actually like him and want to be
his girlfriend. He's probably definitly not
one of those "player types" he just doesnt want
a girlfriend. if he said that he didnt know maybe
it means he isnt totally saying no which is good but he probably isnt sure he wants to say if he
likes you yet. but he definitly seems attracted
to you. [ xgracee8P's advice column | Ask xgracee8P A Question ]
stephandjess answered Friday May 18 2007, 7:05 pm: yeah he probably does like you.. you should just do what your doing now and since he said he doesnt want a girlfriend.. just talk to him and be the best you can and hope he changes his mind but dont seem too attached becuase he might not like it if he realizes your crazy about him i dont think it meens he's a player type.. i know plenty of guys that say that.. and maybe he doesnt want a girlfriend or maybe he really just doenst know what he wants.. make him want you [ stephandjess's advice column | Ask stephandjess A Question ]
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